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Old 11-03-2007, 04:23 PM   #121 (permalink)
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Could it be that physical appearance only enhances your perception of prospective sexual experience?

If there were two women available to you, both of whom you had had sex with before...

one very attractive, but not very responsive in bed

the other, plain or even fairly unattractive (according to your mind) but a very sexually stimulating lover

Are you telling me that you would choose the more attractive woman?
Back in college, someone once said 'its all the same when the lights are out'.

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Now obviously there are limits. A 10 who acts like a corpse or a 1 who thinks the karma sutra is for noobs won't work either way. Somewhere there is a middle ground between the two where I'd be happy, but looks still play a big part of the whole thing. Of course its my perception of it, but being sex is mental to such a high degree I can't worry about that.

Funny thing about getting older though, is you stop looking at their daughters and start looking more at the moms
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Old 11-03-2007, 04:28 PM   #122 (permalink)
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Old 11-03-2007, 04:34 PM   #123 (permalink)
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Old 11-03-2007, 04:43 PM   #124 (permalink)
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Old 11-03-2007, 04:46 PM   #125 (permalink)
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....which of us is the 10, though?
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Old 11-03-2007, 04:47 PM   #126 (permalink)
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....which of us is the 10, though?
You have sleep in the wet spot, draw your own conclusions.
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Old 11-03-2007, 04:50 PM   #127 (permalink)
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I once had a wonderful fling with a pale white girl in a cheetah print bikini.

God, that thing was wretched. She was a tiger in the sack, though.

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Old 11-03-2007, 04:50 PM   #128 (permalink)
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Oh, and for myself on the carnal fly, I'd just as soon fuck a short, balding, overweight, perhaps even slightly trollish looking man than a buff, young Greek god-looking stud. But what it would really come down to is the one who can make the hair stand up on my arms when they look into my eyes. And that doesn't have anything to do with looks or 'niceness.' It has to do with presence. Vital, visceral presence. Just being able to insert penis into vagina just ain't enough. I'd just as soon go home and masturbate.

This is a really silly attitude to take. Do you feel that a physically attractive person has less personality or confidence or presence or whatever "it" factor you think they need to make a connection with you?


It wouldn't make any sense to seek out someone physically "ugly" because they may have a great personality. Someone pretty is just as likely to be a great person as someone ugly. Less likely to be insecure, to boot. People don't wear their personality on their sleeve. You gotta talk to em first before you can make that sort of connection and learn what kind of person they are.

You start with that superficial, physical connection. A recognition that the person you see is physically attractive to you, and you go talk to them to learn the deeper, more significant traits in personality you find attractive.


Anyway, on topic:

Every single guy i've known has dipped below their usual standards when it's been a long time since they've fucked (had a physical connection?) a woman. It's really not an altruistic act, although the OP tries to make the argument. Both parties are working towards the same goal, the male having to reduce his standard of quality to get quantity (even if that is 1 vs. 0).

IMO, it's a role reversal, although the guy acts like a really promiscuous girl in this situation- he gets to be the chooser, instead of the choice. The woman in this situation needs to communicate other qualities attractive to a casual sex hookup; sexual freedom, willingness to experiment, a desire to please, free of disease, etc.

The relationship between two individuals looking for a one night stand or casual sex is largely centered around physical wants and needs. They are not looking for more, and the girl having a great personality would matter little to how much they enjoyed the sex.
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Old 11-03-2007, 04:53 PM   #129 (permalink)
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The relationship between two individuals looking for a one night stand or casual sex is largely centered around physical wants and needs.
And, uh, where does this happen regularly?
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Old 11-03-2007, 04:58 PM   #130 (permalink)
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And, uh, where does this happen regularly?
Bars, nightclubs, pubs, the gym, grocery stores, malls, coffee shops, conferences

pretty much any place people gather?
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Old 11-03-2007, 05:28 PM   #131 (permalink)
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This is a really silly attitude to take. Do you feel that a physically attractive person has less personality or confidence or presence or whatever "it" factor you think they need to make a connection with you?


It wouldn't make any sense to seek out someone physically "ugly" because they may have a great personality. Someone pretty is just as likely to be a great person as someone ugly. Less likely to be insecure, to boot. People don't wear their personality on their sleeve. You gotta talk to em first before you can make that sort of connection and learn what kind of person they are.

You start with that superficial, physical connection. A recognition that the person you see is physically attractive to you, and you go talk to them to learn the deeper, more significant traits in personality you find attractive.


Anyway, on topic:

Every single guy i've known has dipped below their usual standards when it's been a long time since they've fucked (had a physical connection?) a woman. It's really not an altruistic act, although the OP tries to make the argument. Both parties are working towards the same goal, the male having to reduce his standard of quality to get quantity (even if that is 1 vs. 0).

IMO, it's a role reversal, although the guy acts like a really promiscuous girl in this situation- he gets to be the chooser, instead of the choice. The woman in this situation needs to communicate other qualities attractive to a casual sex hookup; sexual freedom, willingness to experiment, a desire to please, free of disease, etc.

The relationship between two individuals looking for a one night stand or casual sex is largely centered around physical wants and needs. They are not looking for more, and the girl having a great personality would matter little to how much they enjoyed the sex.
Who said I seek out a person who is ugly? I'm simply saying that looks do not matter to me. Big difference there.

You start with a superficial attraction. Myself, I am attracted to more subtle qualities.

And I've known plenty of men who are physically 'unattractive' who have self-confidence.
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Old 11-04-2007, 12:34 AM   #132 (permalink)
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This I disagree with entirely. I don't care how good looking a guy is if he's crap in bed he's crap in bed, doesn't matter if he's Tom Cruise or Barney the Dinosaur (well assuming Barney was anatomically correct) a bad shag is a bad shag.

For me attractiveness is defined by so much more them a persons physical appearance, sure I am not going to complain if the guy fits MY definition of attractiveness but sometimes a guy I find aesthetically pleasing will touch me and I feel nothing. Even worse is when I'll kiss a guy I know intellectually I should find appealing and all I feel is nauseous.

I'm not sure exactly why that's true but it is.

Other times a guy I would not be attracted to visually will touch me, even something as simple as a hand on the small of my back and my entire body breaks out in goosebumps. I've had kisses that make my knees go weak from guys that I'd never really thought of as attractive before.

But as I said I don't know what it is about these people that allows them to have so little or so great a reaction from me on a purely physical level.

I'm not saying women are better then men or men are better then women in this case because I know people from both genders that are able to base a decision on whether or not to be intimate with a person purely on the persons phsyical appearance but for me (and maybe mixedmedia from her response to this) sex is a very special time. I let all my barriers down, let myself be completely consumed by the moment, I end up feeling vulnerable and invinceable all at once. I don't think I could share that with someone I did not feel a genuine attraction or affection of some kind for.

I will admit I hate the habit guys have of 'rating' women though, I've never heard my female friends do that, with us the guy is either hot or not. None of this 1 - 10 business.
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Old 11-04-2007, 02:13 AM   #133 (permalink)
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I will admit I hate the habit guys have of 'rating' women though, I've never heard my female friends do that, with us the guy is either hot or not. None of this 1 - 10 business.
I certainly understand why women take offense to it. It is a little dehumanizing. But men a very visual creatures, especially when it comes to women. But don't despair because we all have different tastes. A classic example is at the moment there is a battle royal going on between my colleague and I over Janis Joplin. He thinks she's the ugliest thing to ever grace the planet, where as I really don't think she's all that bad, and c'mon, it's Janis, as if you wouldn't hit that back in the day.

I've never really had a rating system as such.

I have to catch Melbourne public transport, I can tell you now, I see all kinds and varieties on the trams and trains. There's girls I think are cute, are pretty, are average, then there are the girls I think "I'd totally hit that", or "I'd love to wake up next to that"............... And ever once in a while, there will be a lass who is be no definition hot, be carries herself in such a way and has a certain kind of energy about her that just drives me totally wild.


Now, having said all that, on far too many occasions though, I have seen a young girl on the train, thought "My god, she's some sort of godess", only to hear her open her mouth and say something in the most piercing and offensive of bogan voices and instantly though "oh fuck no, not in a million years, I don't care how good looking she is"

God I hate bogans, I really, really do.

Bogans for those of you who don't know, are Australia's version of uneducated filthy trailer trash.
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Old 11-04-2007, 04:07 AM   #134 (permalink)
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A classic example is at the moment there is a battle royal going on between my colleague and I over Janis Joplin. He thinks she's the ugliest thing to ever grace the planet, where as I really don't think she's all that bad, and c'mon, it's Janis, as if you wouldn't hit that back in the day.
I'm with your buddy - Joplin was rather gruesome.

But, in the same breath, I watched the Fantastic Four: Rise of the Silver Surfer movie the other night - and for all the swooning over Jessica Alba, and all her magazine covers, etc, I found her unattractive, too. I have no idea why people think she's hot.

So, it's down to personal tastes.
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Old 11-04-2007, 04:05 PM   #135 (permalink)
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I never understood the need some people have to stratify everything, rank things, and assign numbers to them. Isn't it enough to say, "I like that" or "She's attractive" or whatever and leave it at that? Maybe it's a good thing in the workplace where competition will make everyone do their best, but what good does it do to think, "well, she's an 8.5, but the woman next to her is an 8.7, so who cares?"

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I find there to be some people who are plain and after getting to know them become more attractive, if they have a nice personality that is.

Is that just me?
No, not at all, although the last time it happened I couldn't figure out how I saw her attractive mentally or physically after I ran out of Vicodin. That stuff addles the brain.
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Old 11-04-2007, 07:27 PM   #136 (permalink)
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Reading through this thread has made me come to the realization that some women (I said some) are terribly delusional if they think females aren't as superficial as males are. Hell, at times, women can even be more superficial than men (*Points in the direction of the LL*).
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Old 11-04-2007, 09:00 PM   #137 (permalink)
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Many just deny it, it's the entire stigma of 'whore' , 'slut' , etc etc that is placed on any women who just wants to fuck a hot guy. So the more and more who deny it by will, or deny it just to deny it, the more the 'reputation' builds for women.

Men on the other hand will flat out tell people, ya, I'll fuck her coz she is hot. We on the other hand don't have to worry about that stigma of being a whore, coz the more hot bitches we fuck, the ohhh sooo coooool we become!!! yippeee!!
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Old 11-04-2007, 11:24 PM   #138 (permalink)
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Old 11-05-2007, 01:25 AM   #139 (permalink)
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I've found more often than not, stereotypes have a large base in fact.
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Old 11-05-2007, 03:08 AM   #140 (permalink)
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I've found that stereotypes are most often quantified by the least common, yet most obnoxious, denominator.
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Old 11-05-2007, 04:47 AM   #141 (permalink)
 
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I've found more often than not, stereotypes have a large base in fact.
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Old 11-05-2007, 05:39 AM   #142 (permalink)
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oh ok... lets all play pretend now where stereotypes have no link to real life.

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Speak for yourself.
Stereotypes are simply nothing more than broad generalizations, and broad generalizations typically stem from some amount of truth. That's just a fact of life.
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Old 11-05-2007, 03:59 PM   #145 (permalink)
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Stereotypes are simply nothing more than broad generalizations, and broad generalizations typically stem from some amount of truth. That's just a fact of life.
Which is why I can't dance or play basketball and you love fried chicken and poverty.

Stereotypes enable perpetuation. And that makes me a sad monkey.

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Back on topic: Escaping from one night stands with minimal evidence is crucial if said person's compatibility involved less than six hours and intense crotch slamming activities. I've never had any issues with stalking, but the AIM handle and phone # are vulnerable to said nonsense.
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Which is why I can't dance or play basketball and you love fried chicken and poverty.
Key phrase in what I said: "...Broad generalizations typically stem from some amount of truth." However, yeah, all of what you said is pretty much true for the different sub-sections of society in which they're directed towards.

Except the part about loving poverty. No one loves poverty.
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Old 11-05-2007, 05:55 PM   #147 (permalink)
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Old 11-05-2007, 08:08 PM   #148 (permalink)
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Ya know, IL... if you were a girl... I'd want to have angry sex with you.
Well I've been told its all the same when the lights are out, so *click*.
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Stereotypes are simply nothing more than broad generalizations, and broad generalizations typically stem from some amount of truth. That's just a fact of life.
I wasn't disagreeing with that, not at all. What I (and MM, I believe) meant was that hey, if you (and others, such as Menoman) want to go on perpetuating stereotypes of men being assholes, nobody's stopping you. Congratulations on your achievement!

But just because a stereotype has an ounce of truth does not make it generalizable to the whole population. Several male members have proven just that, on this thread and others. Personally, I'm glad to be married to someone who doesn't fit the stereotype of what men are socialized to be, in almost every way possible.

But each to their own... I'm quite sure that there are plenty of women who appreciate conformity to the male stereotype as a mark of ground-shaking character and integrity.
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Paris could be a nerd if she was smarter. In the meantime, she's just a ____.

I apologize to mm, abaya, and mandy, but Crompsin, you might have labelled this FMO. Except that, of course, things like that aren't tolerated in (any guesses?)?

This most perfect of all possible worlds seems to have failed US in this case. ...It didn't in the first place.
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Well I've been told its all the same when the lights are out, so *click*.
Oh-ho, but I need the lights on, brother... I'm under 30 and that means my dick is still sporting those squeaky training wheels.

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OurCrazyModern?: Yeah, I labeled it with the "Men" prefix because of the directed content of the OP, not because I didn't want women responding. Women should totally respond to this kinda crap... since, ya know, they're the "sought-after commodity" in the "meat market" of the "primal male mind."

Last time I checked? It takes two to tango in a one night stand. Ugliness is debatable, especially when you're horny / drunk / desperate.

Yeah, that two to tango part...

*looks down at his hand*

No, buddy... you don't count. Heh. Heh-heh.

This thread did a good job of blowing out like a Firestone tire on a late '90s Ford Explorer, but I got a few laughs from those who followed the "tell a weird one night stand story" subplot. So much for articles... I might have to stick to my much less poetic personal queries for any future threads.

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(Heh!)

Paris could be a nerd if she was smarter. In the meantime, she's just a ____.

I apologize to mm, abaya, and mandy, but Crompsin, you might have labelled this FMO. Except that, of course, things like that aren't tolerated in (any guesses?)?

This most perfect of all possible worlds seems to have failed US in this case. ...It didn't in the first place.
What are you apologizing to me for?

I've waded through bullshit way deeper than this thread before.

I think it's funny that you feel like you have to segregate yourselves into a corner of a website whose women, for the most part, love men, love sex, will post naked pictures of themselves for you and don't start threads in which they talk about how fucked-up men are. Find me one thread in the Ladies' Lounge that was created in order to rant about the failings of men as a gender. And believe me, you guys can whine all night and day about the chick who didn't fuck you or the girl that dumped you for a rich guy, but that doesn't even come close to the fucked-up hell realms that I have been through in the company of men. Yet, I will stand here and say that I love men.

And at first it really irritated me, but now I'm really glad that you guys have segregated yourselves in this way for me. Because now, when I post nekkid pictures of myself in my journal, I know which men to include on my Buddy list.
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Old 11-06-2007, 08:44 AM   #153 (permalink)
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And at first it really irritated me, but now I'm really glad that you guys have segregated yourselves in this way for me. Because now, when I post nekkid pictures of myself in my journal, I know which men to include on my Buddy list.
No one told me there were naked pictures, and I looked damn it!

Honestly I have to wonder if I were 20 after a girl I really loved dumped me, or if I wasn't lucky and found my wife about a year later, how I'd have responded to a post like this, don't be too hard on them.
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Old 11-06-2007, 09:24 AM   #154 (permalink)
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I haven't posted them...yet. Actually, I haven't even taken them, yet. I'm working my way to that point...

And I don't think I'm being too hard on them. You know, if in my heart I didn't really care, I wouldn't say anything.
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Well this is an interesting post lol. I will say reading it pissed me off. But I can see where some guys could come from. Somewhat. To what that guy 'who loves ugly chicks' said, I dissagree about any guy would be willing to cheat on their woman. I say, if a woman does everything her man sexually wants to him and as often as he wants it, he will not stray away-unless he is a pig. I try my hardest and I know I am not ugly in that sense, but I do it becuase I love my guy. If guys are straying on their women, then the woman isn't trying hard enough. Plus, it should be mutual from the guys to try hard too. Its that 50-50 deal, though in my book, its 100/100 from both. I will say being a girl, I have dated ALOT of ugly men in my life lol, but I could only have slept with good-looking ones. Granted, I have only had sex with one man in my life, and the same with him with girls. We were eachothers firsts so neither of us can say we were 'with' any ugly people. Well, I could if you count hand-jobs, but my man never got with any woman in that sence-which made it that much easier to be less self-concious lol. So yes. That is my two sense. Sorry if it made no sense lol.
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Old 11-06-2007, 03:10 PM   #156 (permalink)
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I was convinced LL was for women only. The advertizing that says "no men allowed" is tic?

Now, that's interesting.

I've never done anybody that I considered ugly.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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Old 11-06-2007, 03:16 PM   #157 (permalink)
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It is for women only. And in there you will mainly find women talking about vaginal health and places to buy a good bra. But men can go in there and peruse the threads all they like. Perhaps it is worthwhile to have a place women can go to talk about their breasts without some dude in there cracking boob jokes.

The logic is that much of TFP is 'The Men's Room,' in case you haven't noticed.

But at any rate, the Ladies Lounge is very lightly used so there really isn't much of an issue unless you want to make one of it.
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Old 11-06-2007, 03:59 PM   #158 (permalink)
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Well this is an interesting post lol. I will say reading it pissed me off.
I'm offended by the hotness of your avatar!
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Old 11-06-2007, 05:07 PM   #159 (permalink)
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I say, if a woman does everything her man sexually wants to him and as often as he wants it, he will not stray away [...] If guys are straying on their women, then the woman isn't trying hard enough.
I'm surprised you haven't yet been verbally assassinated by another woman for saying such a thing.
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Old 11-06-2007, 07:23 PM   #160 (permalink)
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I'm surprised you haven't yet been verbally assassinated by another woman for saying such a thing.
Why? Do you believe it is true?

Okay, I'll tell bloodyrose that there are no absolutes in this world.

Not all men are pigs.

Not all women are scheming opportunists.

And not all people in committed relationships cheat on their partners because their partners aren't keeping them sexually satisfied. (After all, sometimes women cheat on men, too. *gasp*)

But if anyone wants to, again, base their arguments on such unsupportable hogwash then go right ahead.

"verbally assassinated by another woman"

that's rich....
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