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tabykat178 · 10-17-2007, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo

This is what happens when you follow Ustwo's advice in all things, bliss.

Let this be a lesson to all of you.

Haha! Thanks! It was definitly bliss!!

Jenna · 10-17-2007, 03:00 PM

There's obviously a major lack of communication here. If you can't talk to him about sex, and about your feelings, what makes you think you'll be able to live together?

I'm not saying you have to be having sex to live together, but you don't even know if he's maybe not going further because he wants to wait until marriage? You need to ask him these things. And if you're comfortable enough to live together, wouldn't you be comfortable enough to tell him that you want more?

tabykat178 · 10-17-2007, 03:05 PM

I had talked to him about it before and he said he just doesn't like making the first move. So I just sucked it up and did it myself and got some lovely results! LOL!

I think we were just being stupid and worried about the exact same things: that the other wouldn't like what we were doing. I guess thats what you get for having two really shy people living together. I don't think we'll have this problem anymore.

Jenna · 10-17-2007, 03:07 PM

Good, glad you got it worked out. Just try to talk about things more often, and it's always good to give positive/constructive critism after sex.

Constructive cristism and sex sound very odd in the same sentence.

abaya · 10-20-2007, 01:33 PM

Glad to hear this is all working out.

Just dropping in to say that Crompsin's comments on this thread had me literally laughing out loud. Laying some pipe... dragging balls over Brad Pitt...

What can I say, it's been a long day. Thanks, Cromp.

10-20-2007, 01:33 PM	#45 (permalink)
abaya Location: Iceland	Glad to hear this is all working out. Just dropping in to say that Crompsin's comments on this thread had me literally laughing out loud. Laying some pipe... dragging balls over Brad Pitt... What can I say, it's been a long day. Thanks, Cromp. __________________ And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran

10-17-2007, 03:00 PM	#42 (permalink)
Jenna Psycho Location: Wisconsin	There's obviously a major lack of communication here. If you can't talk to him about sex, and about your feelings, what makes you think you'll be able to live together? I'm not saying you have to be having sex to live together, but you don't even know if he's maybe not going further because he wants to wait until marriage? You need to ask him these things. And if you're comfortable enough to live together, wouldn't you be comfortable enough to tell him that you want more?

10-17-2007, 03:05 PM	#43 (permalink)
tabykat178 Upright	I had talked to him about it before and he said he just doesn't like making the first move. So I just sucked it up and did it myself and got some lovely results! LOL! I think we were just being stupid and worried about the exact same things: that the other wouldn't like what we were doing. I guess thats what you get for having two really shy people living together. I don't think we'll have this problem anymore.

10-17-2007, 03:07 PM	#44 (permalink)
Jenna Psycho Location: Wisconsin	Good, glad you got it worked out. Just try to talk about things more often, and it's always good to give positive/constructive critism after sex. Constructive cristism and sex sound very odd in the same sentence.