Leto

Yes, in hexadecimal.

Gabbyness

HA!

Very funny.

And . . . something approaching 10, I believe. Too scared of catching anything to really push it past that . . .

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xenonman

I have doubts about the veracity of those who report three-digit values.
It seems practically impossible.
xenonman.-

telekinetic

25 years of 1 partner every 3 months gets you into triple digits, and those aren't even a very aggressive pace--I know people who have a new hookup every week.

Why all the hate on people more sexually active then you? What possible good does it do to go online, find someone who said "I had sex with 100 women" and call them a liar, without having any other data but your own closedminded biases to go on?

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Bonkai

After a while it gets hard to keep track, the past is the past and the best experiences are the ones I keep in mind.

LordEden

I know guys in triple digits, one is a good friend of mine. He can walk in a bar piss drunk with no money and bang a girl in the bathroom within the hour. He's not a "tall, dark, handsome" kind of guy (he's actually short, Italian-American, and crass) but he has an unshakable confidence about him. He knows how to talk to women and isn't afraid too.

That's the big thing about screwing lots of women, you have to actually TALK to them first. Hell, I'm in the 20+ bracket when it comes to numbers and I'm not even good at talking to women.

Some guys are just good at talking to girls and guys are going to hate them for that.

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Baraka_Guru

My "official" count is 2.

...but the one that "doesn't count" was far, far better than #1.

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curiousbear

one

Zeraph

Nah, half the time I can't even remember their names.

edit: not because of some extreme high number (its fairly low) but just because I'm horrible at remembering names

audioguru

When I first started living with my first wife we had a very hot relationship in bed, she asked how many people I'd been with and I said I wasn't sure, but a lot. So I made a list and tried to recall in order as it was the only way I could do it accurately. The number was 190 and I kept remembering others but stopped trying to keep track.

We were like sex magnets together and were always meeting hot couples or single women who wanted to play with us, I'm very intuitive and have a good sense of when someone is interested so I'd have a good success ratio asking someone to join us. My wife was a waitress and hostess in high end restaurants and was always setting me up with cute waitresses who just wanted to have sex. My wife made it clear she'd share me and that works. We would have a pool party with everyone naked in the pool and it was common enough for me to have sex with several women in one night and a few with six or seven. What can I say, we had a female room mate, she'd have a friend or two over, my wife would bring a waitress or two home, and poor me was saddled with the task of keeping 3, 4, 5 women occupied, poor me huh?

I didn't really keep track but that number during the 11 years I was married to her was way higher than I'd been to bed with before. I've been with my second wife for fifteen years now and the number is one, her.

But I do have fond recollections and hot memories.

66mustang

Be careful talking on here about how many girls and how many sexual expeiences you have had. There are those members that will call you a liar, as they have called me, even though it was your penis that you were using in the dozens and dozens of experiences that you have had, and not theirs.

The_Jazz

You make a good point. Really, no one here is obligated to believe you, and if they don't, they're not barred from stating their opinion. But when someone posts ONLY that disbelief over several threads, it gets the staff's attention because it's both flaming and trolling. And we deal with it. Like we already have.

That doesn't mean that you can't disagree right back with them. It just means that we require a mature discussion. Following someone around through multiple threads calling them a liar for one post is not mature discussion.

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blahblah454

I have probably turned down more than I have taken. I am terrified of catching something and like my women to get tested before I fool around with them.

I am at seven, and three of them I only had sex with once. One was my highschool sweetheart, we did it once and then just went back to oral. One was a good friend who had been trying to bed me for years and I finally gave in one night. One was a girl who I was kind of fooling around with for a while and she decided she should go the "moral Godly" route after we had sex.

The repeats were girlfriends of some sort or another. All of them crash and burns but one.

extratricycle

Does anyone have any recommendations for how to increase the number or get a girlfriend? I have had 4 sex partners (having kissed exactly 4 girls that's also the number I've slept with, oddly enough), age 27, but the last 5 years (college environment) have been very lonely as only like one girl was actually interested in me, that lasted 2 weeks. Some people recommended to me pick up artist manuals online, they seem really odd, but do they actually work? It seems unnatural to me to tell people memorized openers and so forth. I currently I guess just keep asking out girls, messaging a lot on online dating, since I don't know any single girls in real life (I'm in computers, there are a lot of just guys), they go out with me and tell me I'm nice but none seem to actually be into me.

Where do you people meet girls? I took some dance classes and asked out a few girls, but they didn't seem interested or weren't single. I only have like 1 real female friend that I go out and do activities with. I'm considering taking a yoga class haha.

Will it get easier as I get older, and girls want a more mature guy who isn't just a frat type?

Plan9

Have you tried online dating sites?

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levite

I try not to. Numbers that low are depressing.

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extratricycle

Yup, I've tried online dating. I sent about 80 messages, got maybe 10 replies, went out with 4 girls. One was interested in me that was the thing that lasted 2 weeks.

But the others didn't seem that interested, in the sense they would go out with me and talk with me, but it was just talking. I feel like maybe I'm doing something wrong, like I heard a guy is supposed to pay for her dinner (didn't realize that until this week), buy her a drink, try and touch the girl gently on the arm or put his arm around her or something (it just seems awkward to me), or make eye contact to try and decide if he should kiss her. Usually girls have to verbally tell me to kiss them for the first time. There just seems to be no emotional response from women. It is weird to me since I am attracted to them, and they tell me I am handsome, successful, nice, etc, maybe it's just a matter of being more forward and striking out a lot? (i.e. more numbers / experience).

I am considering the PUA thing but don't want to become that sketchy guy with diseases that women don't think is marriage material.

The_Jazz

Save your pennies and go to backpage.com. According to the cops, that's where all the Craigslist hookers went when that site shut them down. You only seem to be interested in sex, so there's your solution.

Now, if you're interested in relationships, stop worrying about what other people think and just be yourself.

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KirStang

I think I scared off tons of women when they could smell my loneliness and desperation from miles away.

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SlowHand

This thread makes me feel like a slut. I couldn't have kept count.