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MrFriendly · 09-20-2007, 06:53 PM

It's always been of some interest to me why males are usually so obsessed with their dicks.

It's a topic that's been touched on by great thinkers such as Freud and Jung.

But what has always interested me, and has always been something I've never quite understood, is the obsession with size.

From what I've observed from personal experience, a male will be more at ease being told by a women he's lousy at making her orgasm than he is being told he has a small dick. And what a bloke NEVER wants to hear from a woman is that a previous sexual partner had a much bigger dick than he did.

So why is it exactly, that we blokes associate so much value in having a bigger penis? Will it make us better lovers? Better, stronger men?

Why, in some men, can their entire confidence and ego be built or shattered when comments are made on the size of their penis? Why is it some men will feel inferior to another man who is more well endowed?

I am, for the most part, interested in hearing comments from the blokes. What would you feel you'd gain by having a bigger penis? Are you perfectly content with the one you have?

And ladies, feel free to throw out any thoughts and theories out there, a difference of perspective is always important.

Plan9 · 09-20-2007, 07:00 PM

3...

2...

1...

BUT I GOT A SMOOTH SPOT LIKE A KEN DOLL!

...

Every guy wishes he had a tube of cookie dough for a cock.

Thanks a lot, society.

...

I'm happy with mine. I suppose getting the right sort of complaints help.

Nothing wrong with her going, "Aaah, too much!" as you poke her insides.

...

Strangely... the evolution of humans from our ape-like ancestors to now... has increased in penis size with a decrease in body size / strength.

Sort of the evolutionary stereotypes of: Bulky Jock with a Baby's Dick vs. Scrawny Nerd with a Baby's Leg.

Jenna · 09-20-2007, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by MrFriendly

So why is it exactly, that we blokes associate so much value in having a bigger penis? Will it make us better lovers? Better, stronger men?

I think some men think that this will in fact make them a better lover. While, a larger penis can be more pleasureful to some, to others, it's definitely not. And, with any sexual relationship, communication is key to a great sex life/experience, not the size of the males penis.

P.S. The title of this thread made me laugh.

Lady Sage · 09-20-2007, 07:58 PM

My husband is going to kill me but...

His willy is not the largest I have had. Not even close. His IS, however, the best. He has the wiggle which is far more important(to me) than just the thrust.

The largest thought in and out was enough. He was sadly mistaken, I faked every single session. With Pan, I dont have to fake.

Shauk · 09-20-2007, 08:07 PM

huh, can't say i've had any concerns about mine, should I? pfft. Who cares really? I dunno, like, my "relationship" with my penis, if you can call it that, is pretty neutral. I don't know or care how it fares against the "competition" (and really now that I think about it, that might be a logical explanation for the obsession for some people)

You know, as much pressure as society puts on women to look like porn stars, perhaps the same pressure is there for men by proxy to have to measure up to the guys that are in those movies as well? Perhaps, i dunno.

Pretty moot overall to me, i'm fine with my junk.

MrFriendly · 09-20-2007, 08:16 PM

I have to admit that I was taken by surprise in the "Sexual Myths" thread that so many ladies commented that they don't like big (and in one case ridiculously huge) penises.

But I guess it does make sense with some of the reasons given.

Personally I've never been overly concerned about my size. I've generally gotten decent feedback hehe.

Considering the damn thing never gets used it's a moot point though haha.

Lady Sage · 09-20-2007, 08:21 PM

Shauk makes a very good point. Although we can not change what we are given without copious amounts of money and surgery, we have been trained to think we need to look like pin-ups.

You have what you have, make the best of it and expect that youre mate will like it or deal.

Plan9 · 09-21-2007, 02:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shauk

huh, can't say i've had any concerns about mine, should I? pfft. Who cares really? I dunno, like, my "relationship" with my penis, if you can call it that, is pretty neutral. I don't know or care how it fares against the "competition" (and really now that I think about it, that might be a logical explanation for the obsession for some people)

You know, as much pressure as society puts on women to look like porn stars, perhaps the same pressure is there for men by proxy to have to measure up to the guys that are in those movies as well? Perhaps, i dunno.

Pretty moot overall to me, i'm fine with my junk.

Whatever, Shauk... you're like 12 foot 12. Chicks dig it.

You probably got something like a can of Pringles in there.

Push-Pull · 09-21-2007, 03:54 AM

[breaks out tape measure]

Hmmm, will you look at that. I'm (gasp) AVERAGE!!!

I'm quite fine with that.....

I also think that the media has a lot to do with this. Not only making the masses think they have to look a certain way, but with perpetuating the myth in the first place. Way too much emphasis placed IYKWIM.

On a side note, for those of us guys who are really bothered by it, try trimming the shrubs and losing some pounds. Losing 40 pounds gave me back nearly an inch.

Lady Sage · 09-21-2007, 03:59 AM

Pubic pud will eat inches in men... For women poontang turnes to prunetang. Aint life grand?

RenaissanceII · 09-21-2007, 04:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lady Sage

Pubic pud will eat inches in men... For women poontang turnes to prunetang. Aint life grand?

Gawd, I love alliteration...

And might I add decent girth will make the earth...move.

The_Jazz · 09-21-2007, 04:16 AM

Am I weird in that I've never measured it? Honestly, I just don't care, which seems to be my matra lately. But really, I can't change it, I don't have any interest in penises other than my own and it performs adequately. It's the saw blade - the rest of me is the part that actually makes it work.

Sultana · 09-21-2007, 05:22 AM

Maybe it's a similar relationship to how women view their breasts? Over-sexualized (although penises aren't used to nuture future generations, LOL), but honestly, it doesn't matter in the least a woman's breast size to her overall sexuality, how good she is in bed. But look at how many billions of $ are spent on "enhancements" every year.

I have to confess I've become *very* self conscious of my smaller breasts since I've lost weight this year (about 15 lbs. significant because I wasn't overweight to start). Oh well. I def. like the rest of me.

I haven't had the chance to ummm, sample a variety of cock sizes. But I'm certain that as with everything else, technique is much more important than being battered inexpertly with a log.

MrFriendly · 09-21-2007, 06:03 AM

On thinking about this more, I will offer some ideas, and bear in mind, I'm no Jung.

Obsession with size almost seems to be harbored from the days of the school yard as teenagers. Sex as a teenager is something mysterious that is obtained by only the lucky and studly few. The guys who get it are revered by their peers, and the girls who give it are looked down upon. Well, this was in my experience as a teenager anyways, keep in mind, I went to an all boys Catholic high school.

I feel that somewhere, the idea is implanted in our heads that if you have a bigger wang, more women will desire you, and you're better able to please women in bed, which would equal being better and more sexed. The true stud as it were. Pretty much any guy who has the galls flock to him will always be highly regarded by his peers.

But here's something to consider, Beethoven was an incredible musician, it still didn't change the fact he was a total prick to know in person. Same kind of thing applies to guys who get all the girls and / or have a massive tool (yeah I'm trying to use as many penis nick names as I can

), if at the end of the day they're dickheads, then, well, they're dickheads. No one likes a dickhead (Americans don't use the term dickhead nearly enough hehe).

The interesting part is when I hear girls talk about guys they've been with and their respective sizes. It has always seemed to me like it's a "nice to have" feature, but certainly no deal breaker. But I have known girls who will use the size of a partners penis against him later, but only because they know it will cut his ego.

In a way, from what I've observed, the way women treat penis size is the way a lot of blokes I've come across treat breast size. We each have our own individual preference, but at the end of the day, it's no deal breaker, if our partner is Captain Wonderful, it's not all that important.

Lady Sage · 09-21-2007, 06:09 AM

Big ones are nice to look at but I wouldnt bring one home to stay.

shesus · 09-21-2007, 06:22 AM

I agree that dick size can be compared with breast size. The main difference is though, that dick size isn't advertised in public everyday like breasts. I think this might cause more anxiety because it's a surprise when 2 people get to the unzipping stage.

I can't say I'm had a lot of experience...ok, not much at all. But in my experience length isn't as important as girth. I traumatized an ex by nicknaming him Pencil Dick...note the ex part.

I don't know why he didn't want to stay with me.

You are given what you are given. Do I like having small breasts...meh, it's alright, but I'd like more. Although, I found someone with no complaints about that. Do guys want a small dick? Probably not, but the right person won't care and there are many ways to please a partner.

ruggerp11 · 09-21-2007, 07:00 AM

What makes us men?

Certainly not our stomachs nor our man teets.

Its our penis.

It can be said that popular culture and peer whisperings in addition to the 'media' gives us the impression that we all should need to strap it to our thigh in order to get things done every day, but I would not count out our primal urge to be men in the most basic dick swinging sense.

When I am peeing I know there is a portion of me looking down and internally grunting at the very sight of my penis. Basically the size and 'impact' of our male organs is something (IMO) that is ingrained into our psyche from the get go. This added to popular culture's obsession with the 'idea' physical form has brought this to a boil within some young men.

Personally though... a good moan and an arched back is good enough for an attaboy to mini me.

Plan9 · 09-21-2007, 07:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shesus

I don't know why he didn't want to stay with me.

God: "Oh, you're going to hell."

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lady Sage

Big ones are nice to look at but I wouldnt bring one home to stay.

But do you look with your mouth?

Lady Sage · 09-21-2007, 07:56 AM

Nope, all I do with my mouth is give great head. (Or so my hubby tells me)

Most men like that no matter what size their pp is.

Ustwo · 09-21-2007, 08:14 AM

While undoubtedly men put too much emphasis on their penis size, there is a real issue between big enough and too small.

Plan9 · 09-21-2007, 08:17 AM

Thumb sized versus roll of quarters?

World's King · 09-21-2007, 08:19 AM

*hugs his penis*

Plan9 · 09-21-2007, 08:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by World's King

*hugs his penis*

Bigger than a roll of cookie dough?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lady Sage

Nope, all I do with my mouth is give great head. (Or so my hubby tells me)

Most men like that no matter what size their pp is.

And ZERO men will tell you that you give crappy oral. Goes against man code:

IN THE NAME OF THE FATHER AND THE SON AND HOLY BLOWJOB... VERY TRULY I TELL YOU: "Good oral is good. Bad oral is good. Any oral is good."

Bill O'Rights · 09-21-2007, 08:25 AM

Who cares? Really?

I mean, I used to despair over the fact that my penis was only 2-1/2 inches.

Then, I found out that a lot of women like them that thick.

The_Jazz · 09-21-2007, 08:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bill O'Rights

Who cares? Really?

I mean, I used to despair over the fact that my penis was only 2-1/2 inches.

Then, I found out that a lot of women like them that thick.

Hung like a tuna can, eh?

Lady Sage · 09-21-2007, 08:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bill O'Rights

Who cares? Really?
I mean, I used to despair over the fact that my penis was only 2-1/2 inches.
Then, I found out that a lot of women like them that thick.

Cha-ching!

canuckguy · 09-21-2007, 08:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bill O'Rights

Who cares? Really?

I mean, I used to despair over the fact that my penis was only 2-1/2 inches.

Then, I found out that a lot of women like them that thick.

that was awesome!

I have never measured mine, don't care too. Looks big enough to me, no complaints from the ladies so meh.

I do have a good friend who has "twelve inches of dangling death" and he has nothing but issues with girls due to his size. His last two relationships have ended because of his size and the issues it creates.

Ustwo · 09-21-2007, 10:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bill O'Rights

Who cares? Really?

I mean, I used to despair over the fact that my penis was only 2-1/2 inches.

Then, I found out that a lot of women like them that thick.

thats thick?

Or are you talking about a glass half full type of thing

Redlemon · 09-21-2007, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Ustwo

thats thick?

In circumference, no. In diameter, yes. In radius, downright scary.

james t kirk · 09-21-2007, 03:01 PM

I dunno about all the women on here saying size doesn't matter.

A quick review of the "Full Monty" thread in the TFP exhibition section reveals that some of the male, ahem, members, that are shall we say, above average in the schlong department, seem to garner quite a few appreiciative comments from the females on here.

mixedmedia · 09-21-2007, 03:15 PM

I will step up and say that I imagine there is such a thing as too small, even though I've yet to experience it for myself.

Consequently, I can also imagine that there is such a thing as too big (and this is much easier to imagine - ouchies) even though I've yet to experience it for myself.

I think women, at least some of us (or maybe it's just me

), have a visceral reaction to the image of an erect penis and if it is large and shapely we are going to ooh and aah over it like we would the statue of David or an extremely large and well-formed cucumber, lol. But it doesn't mean we would rather fuck that giant, beautiful penis. Most women who have experience with sex know that it can be a major problem when the old cervix starts getting pummeled and would rather fuck a guy who's not going to cause us intense pain when the sex gets rough or intense.

This is just my take on the whole size business...

Ustwo · 09-21-2007, 03:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Redlemon

In circumference, no. In diameter, yes. In radius, downright scary.

Hehe I was waiting for someone to comment like that.

Halx · 09-21-2007, 07:59 PM

I'm not a good posterboy for "love your penis, no matter what size it is"

Every girl likes it differently, you just have to associate with the ones who like it the way you give it.

james t kirk · 09-22-2007, 02:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Halx

I'm not a good posterboy for "love your penis, no matter what size it is"

Every girl likes it differently, you just have to associate with the ones who like it the way you give it.

I think you're good to go.

I've seen your penis shots before in the exhibition section. Are you sure you aren't the son of John Holmes?

Bill O'Rights · 09-22-2007, 09:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Halx

I'm not a good posterboy for "love your penis, no matter what size it is".

Not a good poster boy? Not..a..good poster boy?!?

May I have the envelope please?

And the award, for Understatement Of The Year, goes to...

Halx...for his understatement in post# 33, in the "Blokes and their willies" thread.

And before you step up to accept this award, will you please put your schlong away? We don't want it getting on the stage 5 minutes before you do.

09-20-2007, 06:53 PM	#1 (permalink)
MrFriendly Psycho Location: Australia	Blokes and their willies It's always been of some interest to me why males are usually so obsessed with their dicks. It's a topic that's been touched on by great thinkers such as Freud and Jung. But what has always interested me, and has always been something I've never quite understood, is the obsession with size. From what I've observed from personal experience, a male will be more at ease being told by a women he's lousy at making her orgasm than he is being told he has a small dick. And what a bloke NEVER wants to hear from a woman is that a previous sexual partner had a much bigger dick than he did. So why is it exactly, that we blokes associate so much value in having a bigger penis? Will it make us better lovers? Better, stronger men? Why, in some men, can their entire confidence and ego be built or shattered when comments are made on the size of their penis? Why is it some men will feel inferior to another man who is more well endowed? I am, for the most part, interested in hearing comments from the blokes. What would you feel you'd gain by having a bigger penis? Are you perfectly content with the one you have? And ladies, feel free to throw out any thoughts and theories out there, a difference of perspective is always important. __________________ You are not a slave

09-20-2007, 07:00 PM	#2 (permalink)
Plan9 I Confess a Shiver	3... 2... 1... *BUT I GOT A SMOOTH SPOT LIKE A KEN DOLL!* ... Every guy wishes he had a tube of cookie dough for a cock. Thanks a lot, society. ... I'm happy with mine. I suppose getting the right sort of complaints help. Nothing wrong with her going, "Aaah, too much!" as you poke her insides. ... Strangely... the evolution of humans from our ape-like ancestors to now... has increased in penis size with a decrease in body size / strength. Sort of the evolutionary stereotypes of: Bulky Jock with a Baby's Dick vs. Scrawny Nerd with a Baby's Leg. __________________ *Whatever you can carry.* "You should not drink... and bake." Last edited by Plan9; 09-20-2007 at 07:05 PM..

09-20-2007, 07:58 PM	#4 (permalink)
Lady Sage Mistress of Mayhem Location: Canton, Ohio	My husband is going to kill me but... His willy is not the largest I have had. Not even close. His IS, however, the best. He has the wiggle which is far more important(to me) than just the thrust. The largest thought in and out was enough. He was sadly mistaken, I faked every single session. With Pan, I dont have to fake. __________________ If only closed minds came with closed mouths. Minds are like parachutes, they function best when open. It`s Easier to Change a Condom Than a Diaper Yes, the rumors are true... I actually AM a Witch.

09-20-2007, 08:16 PM	#6 (permalink)
MrFriendly Psycho Location: Australia	I have to admit that I was taken by surprise in the "Sexual Myths" thread that so many ladies commented that they don't like big (and in one case ridiculously huge) penises. But I guess it does make sense with some of the reasons given. Personally I've never been overly concerned about my size. I've generally gotten decent feedback hehe. Considering the damn thing never gets used it's a moot point though haha. __________________ You are not a slave

09-20-2007, 08:21 PM	#7 (permalink)
Lady Sage Mistress of Mayhem Location: Canton, Ohio	Shauk makes a very good point. Although we can not change what we are given without copious amounts of money and surgery, we have been trained to think we need to look like pin-ups. You have what you have, make the best of it and expect that youre mate will like it or deal. __________________ If only closed minds came with closed mouths. Minds are like parachutes, they function best when open. It`s Easier to Change a Condom Than a Diaper Yes, the rumors are true... I actually AM a Witch.

09-20-2007, 08:07 PM	#5 (permalink)
Shauk Confused Adult Location: Spokane, WA	huh, can't say i've had any concerns about mine, should I? pfft. Who cares really? I dunno, like, my "relationship" with my penis, if you can call it that, is pretty neutral. I don't know or care how it fares against the "competition" (and really now that I think about it, that might be a logical explanation for the obsession for some people) You know, as much pressure as society puts on women to look like porn stars, perhaps the same pressure is there for men by proxy to have to measure up to the guys that are in those movies as well? Perhaps, i dunno. Pretty moot overall to me, i'm fine with my junk.

09-21-2007, 03:54 AM	#9 (permalink)
Push-Pull I'll ask when I'm ready.... Location: Firmly in the middle....	[breaks out tape measure] Hmmm, will you look at that. I'm (gasp) AVERAGE!!! I'm quite fine with that..... I also think that the media has a lot to do with this. Not only making the masses think they have to look a certain way, but with perpetuating the myth in the first place. Way too much emphasis placed IYKWIM. On a side note, for those of us guys who are really bothered by it, try trimming the shrubs and losing some pounds. Losing 40 pounds gave me back nearly an inch. __________________ "No laws, no matter how rigidly enforced, can protect a person from their own stupidity." -Me- "Some people are like Slinkies..... They are not really good for anything, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down a flight of stairs." -Unknown- DAMMIT! -Jack Bauer-

09-21-2007, 03:59 AM	#10 (permalink)
Lady Sage Mistress of Mayhem Location: Canton, Ohio	Pubic pud will eat inches in men... For women poontang turnes to prunetang. Aint life grand? __________________ If only closed minds came with closed mouths. Minds are like parachutes, they function best when open. It`s Easier to Change a Condom Than a Diaper Yes, the rumors are true... I actually AM a Witch.

09-21-2007, 04:16 AM	#12 (permalink)
The_Jazz Asshole Administrator Location: Chicago	Am I weird in that I've never measured it? Honestly, I just don't care, which seems to be my matra lately. But really, I can't change it, I don't have any interest in penises other than my own and it performs adequately. It's the saw blade - the rest of me is the part that actually makes it work. __________________ "They that can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve neither liberty nor safety." - B. Franklin "There ought to be limits to freedom." - George W. Bush "We have met the enemy and he is us." - Pogo

09-21-2007, 05:22 AM	#13 (permalink)
Sultana Falling Angel Location: L.A. L.A. land	Maybe it's a similar relationship to how women view their breasts? Over-sexualized (although penises aren't used to nuture future generations, LOL), but honestly, it doesn't matter in the least a woman's breast size to her overall sexuality, how good she is in bed. But look at how many billions of $ are spent on "enhancements" every year. I have to confess I've become very self conscious of my smaller breasts since I've lost weight this year (about 15 lbs. significant because I wasn't overweight to start). Oh well. I def. like the rest of me. I haven't had the chance to ummm, sample a variety of cock sizes. But I'm certain that as with everything else, technique is much more important than being battered inexpertly with a log. __________________ "Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come." - Matt Groening My goal? To fulfill my potential.

09-21-2007, 06:03 AM	#14 (permalink)
MrFriendly Psycho Location: Australia	On thinking about this more, I will offer some ideas, and bear in mind, I'm no Jung. Obsession with size almost seems to be harbored from the days of the school yard as teenagers. Sex as a teenager is something mysterious that is obtained by only the lucky and studly few. The guys who get it are revered by their peers, and the girls who give it are looked down upon. Well, this was in my experience as a teenager anyways, keep in mind, I went to an all boys Catholic high school. I feel that somewhere, the idea is implanted in our heads that if you have a bigger wang, more women will desire you, and you're better able to please women in bed, which would equal being better and more sexed. The true stud as it were. Pretty much any guy who has the galls flock to him will always be highly regarded by his peers. But here's something to consider, Beethoven was an incredible musician, it still didn't change the fact he was a total prick to know in person. Same kind of thing applies to guys who get all the girls and / or have a massive tool (yeah I'm trying to use as many penis nick names as I can ), if at the end of the day they're dickheads, then, well, they're dickheads. No one likes a dickhead (Americans don't use the term dickhead nearly enough hehe). The interesting part is when I hear girls talk about guys they've been with and their respective sizes. It has always seemed to me like it's a "nice to have" feature, but certainly no deal breaker. But I have known girls who will use the size of a partners penis against him later, but only because they know it will cut his ego. In a way, from what I've observed, the way women treat penis size is the way a lot of blokes I've come across treat breast size. We each have our own individual preference, but at the end of the day, it's no deal breaker, if our partner is Captain Wonderful, it's not all that important. __________________ You are not a slave

09-21-2007, 06:09 AM	#15 (permalink)
Lady Sage Mistress of Mayhem Location: Canton, Ohio	Big ones are nice to look at but I wouldnt bring one home to stay. __________________ If only closed minds came with closed mouths. Minds are like parachutes, they function best when open. It`s Easier to Change a Condom Than a Diaper Yes, the rumors are true... I actually AM a Witch.

09-21-2007, 06:22 AM	#16 (permalink)
shesus Fancy Location: Chicago	I agree that dick size can be compared with breast size. The main difference is though, that dick size isn't advertised in public everyday like breasts. I think this might cause more anxiety because it's a surprise when 2 people get to the unzipping stage. I can't say I'm had a lot of experience...ok, not much at all. But in my experience length isn't as important as girth. I traumatized an ex by nicknaming him Pencil Dick...note the ex part. I don't know why he didn't want to stay with me. You are given what you are given. Do I like having small breasts...meh, it's alright, but I'd like more. Although, I found someone with no complaints about that. Do guys want a small dick? Probably not, but the right person won't care and there are many ways to please a partner. __________________ Whatever did happen to your soul? I heard you sold it Choose Heaven for the weather and Hell for the company

09-21-2007, 07:00 AM	#17 (permalink)
ruggerp11 Cautiously soaring Location: exploring my new home in SF	What makes us men? Certainly not our stomachs nor our man teets. Its our penis. It can be said that popular culture and peer whisperings in addition to the 'media' gives us the impression that we all should need to strap it to our thigh in order to get things done every day, but I would not count out our primal urge to be men in the most basic dick swinging sense. When I am peeing I know there is a portion of me looking down and internally grunting at the very sight of my penis. Basically the size and 'impact' of our male organs is something (IMO) that is ingrained into our psyche from the get go. This added to popular culture's obsession with the 'idea' physical form has brought this to a boil within some young men. Personally though... a good moan and an arched back is good enough for an attaboy to mini me. __________________ Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it. --Mark Twain Do What makes you happy --Me BUT! "Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu

09-21-2007, 07:56 AM	#19 (permalink)
Lady Sage Mistress of Mayhem Location: Canton, Ohio	Nope, all I do with my mouth is give great head. (Or so my hubby tells me) Most men like that no matter what size their pp is. __________________ If only closed minds came with closed mouths. Minds are like parachutes, they function best when open. It`s Easier to Change a Condom Than a Diaper Yes, the rumors are true... I actually AM a Witch.

09-21-2007, 08:19 AM	#22 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	hugs his penis __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

09-21-2007, 08:14 AM	#20 (permalink)
Ustwo Pissing in the cornflakes	While undoubtedly men put too much emphasis on their penis size, there is a real issue between big enough and too small. __________________ Agents of the enemies who hold office in our own government, who attempt to eliminate our "freedoms" and our "right to know" are posting among us, I fear.....on this very forum. - host Obama - Know a Man by the friends he keeps.

09-21-2007, 08:17 AM	#21 (permalink)
Plan9 I Confess a Shiver	Thumb sized versus roll of quarters? __________________ *Whatever you can carry.* "You should not drink... and bake."

09-21-2007, 08:25 AM	#24 (permalink)
Bill O'Rights will always be an Alyson Hanniganite Location: In the dust of the archives	Who cares? Really? I mean, I used to despair over the fact that my penis was only 2-1/2 inches. Then, I found out that a lot of women like them that thick. __________________ "I distrust those people who know so well what God wants them to do because I notice it always coincides with their own desires." - Susan B. Anthony "Hedonism with rules isn't hedonism at all, it's the Republican party." - JumpinJesus It is indisputable that true beauty lies within...but a nice rack sure doesn't hurt.

09-21-2007, 03:01 PM	#30 (permalink)
james t kirk Junkie Location: Toronto	I dunno about all the women on here saying size doesn't matter. A quick review of the "Full Monty" thread in the TFP exhibition section reveals that some of the male, ahem, members, that are shall we say, above average in the schlong department, seem to garner quite a few appreiciative comments from the females on here.

09-21-2007, 03:15 PM	#31 (permalink)
mixedmedia has all her shots. Location: Florida	I will step up and say that I imagine there is such a thing as too small, even though I've yet to experience it for myself. Consequently, I can also imagine that there is such a thing as too big (and this is much easier to imagine - ouchies) even though I've yet to experience it for myself. I think women, at least some of us (or maybe it's just me ), have a visceral reaction to the image of an erect penis and if it is large and shapely we are going to ooh and aah over it like we would the statue of David or an extremely large and well-formed cucumber, lol. But it doesn't mean we would rather fuck that giant, beautiful penis. Most women who have experience with sex know that it can be a major problem when the old cervix starts getting pummeled and would rather fuck a guy who's not going to cause us intense pain when the sex gets rough or intense. This is just my take on the whole size business... __________________ Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce

09-21-2007, 07:59 PM	#33 (permalink)
Halx Please touch this. Owner/Admin Location: Manhattan	I'm not a good posterboy for "love your penis, no matter what size it is" Every girl likes it differently, you just have to associate with the ones who like it the way you give it. __________________ You have found this post informative. -The Administrator [Don't Feed The Animals]