Sexual myths
 

Sometimes you hear almost outlandish stories of a sexual nature, I guess I'll call them myths. True or not, who knows? Well maybe we will here. So post your myth and we can discuss whether its true or not.

Here's two from me. A friend told me that she knows of one woman that can climax while sneezing and another can think herself into an orgasm. Now, this isn't teenage chatter. My friend was in her 40s when she told me this. So what do you think? Possible or not? I think so on both.

What's your thoughts? And your myths?

I just wanted to point out that this is the most ambiguous statement that cazn possible be made. :)

As for sneezing yourself to orgasm, I've seen that done. Medically, one involuntary reaction can often trigger another that seems unconnected. Sometimes the nervous system just gets wired that way.

As for thinking yourself to orgasm, I don't see why not. Female orgasms seem to be much more mental based to begin with, so I can see it happening.

My favorite myth is that some women "can't" orgasm. I refuse to believe it...the problem is that those who can't orgasm DO believe it.

What about that myth about women being okay with a 5" dick?

Myth? I've never known this to be a myth. 5" is pretty standard.

Sure, I'd be a little more excited to see a huge dick, but if the sex was bad, it wouldn't matter. I've known a few guys who think they are completely badass because their cocks are huge, which is a total turnoff to me because they are overly cocky (no pun intended).

Not to mention how much it hurts when they slam you in the cervix because it's so huge. No thanks. :)

Yep, I agree!

I've had outstanding orgasms with 5" and tear induced pain (in a bad way) with 8 1/2"

Huge dicks are way over rated as far as Im concerened

- - And so often the huge long dicks are the ones that aren't as hard as a nice thick rock-hard 5 Incher! So there!! Feel better?

Hope so!! You've got some very honest lady friends here.... :)

Richard Pryor has this bit about the elusive "snapping pussy". Other than that, all I know about sex and sexuality are just the facts.

eh. ive had from 4 inches to just under 14. **personal experience** has taught me that the bigger the dick, the worse lover. (please no slams guys - i did say PERSONAL experience - other gals may have had different luck) with what ive dealt with - guys seem to think "i have a big cock, thats enough, i dont have to learn anything or be the least bit creative, because my big cock is enough to make her happy"... sooooo not true.

14'...?

Yeah, my thoughts exactly. 14" is boarding on deformed, seriously, that dude should get checked out for Elephantiasis! :eek:

I've never been all that worried about my penis size. It's an average size and there's really not much else I can do about it. It has no real baring on my personality or who I am. If it were bigger, it would not make me any more emotionally stable or a better person. It's just a penis.

I've been in the situation where I found out friends or even enemies have a massive wang. Still hasn't changed what I've thought of them, or made me feel in any way inferior.

rofl yeah , just under 14. it was one of those things where you actually do a double take, and my first though after 'AAAAK!!!" was "where the hell are my clothes and where did the door go!" wasnt bad, I took what i could, and overall it was more boring than anything. Needless to say I didnt feel compelled to return for more

Midnight I would imagine that you couldn't really just go hell for leather with him because it would hurt too much.

I've had quite a number of female friends tell me that's why they don't really like penises that are too big, they can't have ape shit crazy monkey sex hehe.

A myth I came up with myself is that sex would be the perfect ice breaker, and that if you go all the way with a girl, you will at least be friends for life, if not more.

...not true.

It is a myth that all women liked to be talked dirty to (or talked to at all) during sex.
It is a myth that you can tune in a radio station by 'dialing' our tits.

This isn't a myth, it's possible, just takes a few hours. = )

I don't know about the sneezing thing, but I wouldn't rule it out. I've seen crazier things happen.

I do, however, think that thinking your way to orgasm is quite possible. I once gave mandy an orgasm over IRC, while she was sitting at a PC in a room full of other students. It's probably easier for women though.

another myth is that one handjob style will work for all fellas...
'taint so.
same goes for the diddling style and gals too....

One size does not fit all.

Well I'm the type that likes to be called a dirty little whore, but not all girls like it. In fact, a lot would be very offended by it. However, a lot like to be talked to during sex. And most that I've talked to like when guys aren't completely silent during sex. I know quite a few women are rather shy about making noise during sex, but if the guy starts, she'll get into it, so that she's not doing it alone. But, it's probably a myth because everyone is different. I'm sure there's quite a few girls out there who like silent sex.

It is a myth that all women hate it when the man they're giving head to puts his hand on the back of their heads.

I gotta go with Midnight on this one. I have had the 5-inchers and I have had a 10-incher. Again, personal experience, the 10-incher thought in and out was all there was. If I could have done it without offending him, I would have read a book while we had sex. Never once did I feel the need to utter a single moan... in fact I faked it every time.

Give me a nice fat juicy 5-incher any day and I will be happy as a lark. They have moves! Not just in and out boring, they change it up, wiggle side to side and some do this fabulous figure-8 thing. I cant keep quiet with an average sized thick one. Yummy!

Which is why I said "all women" as a myth-but what drives me nuts is the "Oh, baby, I love to suck your tits" kind of talk. Yea, yea...keep sucking'em and shut up! :D
And 'porno' talk...ugh!! Now, hearing things like "You feel so good" being whispered and the delightful moans of being totally into it, hell yea!
Yes, I would be offended by being called names during sex. I'd be tempted to tell the guy to leave the cash on the dresser then....

It is a myth that all guys with big cocks think that because they have a big cock that that's good enough. Some guys with big dicks also have all the moves.

I agree! I like it.

Ah c'mon, you're taking all the fun out of it. :p :D

It's a myth that all guys cum from getting head and it's a myth that all guys like to watch blowjob porno.

I think the biggest myth I've had to deal with in my sex life is that I actually give a shit about the girl I'm currently fucking.

It's a myth that all women feel that all porn is degrading to woman.

It's also a myth that all women don't like pornography. I happen to like it more than my boyfriend.

LOL,

I think WK wins the prize for most sensitive new age guy :p

If looks could maim... someone would be a basket case.

Sexual myth: all vaginas are created equal.

Technically, it's vaginae. :)

And yes, they are CREATED equal, it's just that some owners are more savvy about how they get put to use than others. :thumbsup:

Alas, I must disagree. Some are shorter than others and others were made smaller. My darling doctor always has to go on a hunt for the extra long speculum. She always has, even when I was a virgin. It seems my love tunnel is longer than normal.

Myth: All guys want a woman with big breasts.

Women don't want to have sex unless they feel a committed emotional connection towrd the man.

Sex is better when you are married and you are with your spouse.

Men don't want to marry a non-virgin.

Pre-marital sex leads to all sorts of trouble.

Women want nice guys who can share their feelings.

If a man is attracted to a woman sexually, he is completely unable to view her as a human being with her own thoughts & feelings.

I strongly agree. Almost all of the women I've found attractive over the course of my lifetime would be card carrying members of the IBTC. If not members then they had medium sized ones, few of the women I've found attractive had large ones.

I agree! I have big breasts, an average sized body and I've found that the very slim, slender women with small breasts were more attractive to males. I know every man is different, but none the less, that's my experience.

Myth:

Fat chicks put out more.

I think Mr.Friendly wins the prize for the biggest myth. :D

LOL

As long as I say it with a smile ;)

Remember, being MrFriendly doesn't necessarily mean being MrNice :p