42 anew

I am a straight happily married man and I want want my wife to "do me" with a strap-on. I am sure she will jump at the chance and enjoy it. I just need some advice on the presentation and equipment (a woman's perspective will be greatly welcome). First, I am thinking introducing the idea and indulging a fantasy at the same time. I allow her to tie me to the bed and have her way with me. Before things go too far I tell her to go look in the closet where I have hidden a strap-on and lube. She emerges wearing it and the fun begins. Also I need advice on the best equipment; nothing too big, something that will stimulate her while wearing it, and maybe I could wear it to DP her

ruggerp11

You're in luck!
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=6452
(You can't post there though, its ladies only)

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BigBaldRon

Start with something small and work your way up!

MrFriendly

Yu know for some reason I find the concept of this a huge turn on.

And believe it or not, it has bugger all to do with me fantasizing about men either. I just really like the idea of a woman fucking me like that.

Oh, and according to Kind Missile it's not gay

Conversely, if a woman straps on a dildo, and you're dressed like a woman, and you're sucking her cock, and she's saying, "You like it, don't you? You like sucking my dick you little fucking faggot," and then she rolls you over and fucks you in the ass and says "You love it you little pussy boy! You love getting fucked in the ass. I'll bet you wish I was a man! I'll bet you wish this was a real cock, you fucking faggot!" and you're getting off on this like you've never gotten off before, that's still straight.

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abaya

Well, the thread mentioned above goes into a lot more detail about this... but you might check out something called Bend Over Beginner (or something like that), found at quality sex shops everywhere. (Namely, Babeland and Good Vibrations, but you can do a general search for them online.)

And RIGHT ON, Mr. Friendly! I think it's GREAT when men and women are open-minded enough to try new things in bed, and not be freaked out by what society says they should or shouldn't do. That's being truly creative and trusting, instead of fearful or disgusted, which are real buzz-kills when it comes down to it. There's nothing to lose... get out there and try it!

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Redlemon

First, download and listen to Episode 45 of the Sex is Fun Radio Show; "Strap on Dildo Show". There's lots of good information in there, especially for how to broach the subject.

A couple quick points from there: do you really "know" she will like it? Have you done any anal play together? I think these things are better discussed outside of the bedroom, rather than throwing it at her unexpectedly and hoping she'll go along.

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xepherys

How much fun can she really be if she can't 'roll with the punches'? j/k

In all seriousness, though, I'd love to hear how this turns out for you. It's something TotalMILF and I have discussed a couple of times, and I think it might be hot, though I'm willing to understand that it might also very much so not be, lol. But, you never know until you try, right?

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xxxafterglow

They make these great vibrating harnesses (for clit) and also penetrating/vibrating harnesses.

Just make sure your dildo is secure in the harness (the reviews sometimes say whether a piece tends to slip out or not)... otherwise you'll be playing fisherman, too. Not advertising but I find that Babeland is really enthusiastic and informed - they know their products!

Whoaaa... I can't WAIT til my boy gets to this point!!!!! KUDOS!

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Deltona Couple

I agree with others here to make SURE that your wife might be intoered in that. TALK to her before you go finding a strapon and hiding it. if she happens to find it before you get a chance to talk to her, you might not get the reaction you want...lol. Good luck and let us know how it goes!

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toxic515

You might want to do a google search for feeldo, if she seems interested. It's not a strap-on, but performs the same function.

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rr1024

my boy friend and I have done this, or I should say I've done him... ;-).

I started out with a nice small sized glass dildo, it actually is the best way because it stays lubbed up for a long time ;-)
I put him on his back and I was down between his legs stroking at the same time....within a half hour he was begging for it harder and deeper....then he exploded it was so hot.

We gradually worked are way up to a strap on, but went back to manual glass didlo for the most part that is our favorite. But the strapon is good if you and he enjoy you spank'n that ass. Other than that for the feel the glass was the way to go.

Redlemon

Blowfish now thinks the Share is better than the Feeldoe: see this catalog page.

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Charlatan

The Share looks pretty cool. Anyone have any experience with one?

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Searcher

Hey 42 anew if you havent done this before then I advise you def prepare with a butt plug, and introduce your wife to the idea one step at a time...when you finally get down to doing the business a strapon with a clit stimulator is very good...and well done you...its great seeing a man being so open about wanting to enjoy anal sex, and I guarentee once your wife has done it, you are both going to enjoy it many a time there after

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toxic515

Hey, Redlemon, thanks, I don't think that was out when we got ours.. Might have to give that a try.

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JSCoupleFun

I Love It Up The Ass....Here is a twist for you. I'm pretty dominate but wanted to experience a strap-on up my ass, so I tied her down blindfolded her put a remote controlled butterfly and A strap-on on her. I got my ride and I could control her pleasure as well. I have since let her just take me on occasion. Sex is about fun and new sensations

abaya

Good for you. That sounds like fun. Do those remote-controlled butterflies actually work? I've been wondering if they are adjustable enough to trigger the right spot for orgasm...

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