gjbourke

Yeah, just keep looking. Look up and see the Sun.

As a nice guy why would you want a non-nice woman?

The FastSeduction101 site mentioned above is classic. Rather cynical. How on earth would you keep all the strategems going at the same time??

bobthedinosaur

I think "too nice" generally means "too passive", "too predictable", "too spineless", or "too apathetic". You need to remember that it's your responsibility to make her time with you interesting and surprising enough that she'll want more of it... she needs to see that you're smart and creative enough to come up with a fun date, that you value her enough to make the effort, and that you're not afraid to show that you're really attracted to her. Being "nice" doesn't entitle you to win a girl's heart any more than it entitles you to win a game of football, get a good job, or succeed in any of life's other competitions. It may help, but it's rarely enough on its own.

ManWithAPlan

thats a view we havnt explored....

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synkron

And then cum in her eye!!

ManWithAPlan

and hold her there till it dries up... eugh

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Mr.Deflok

He works with the bitch so seeing each other has been unavoidable, he just texted me now saying that she went up to him and said she was dating someone else already and that she was seeing this other guy back when she was dating my friend.

Fucking slut.

analog

Stole my words right from my brain. Some people CAN be too smothering/syrupy, but usually it's the girl just isn't into that sort of attention. Stay true to yourself, stay a nice guy, and you'll land a hot girl who is looking for a nice guy for once in her life- many are too used to being seen as sex objects they throw themselves at reverence.

zfleebin

Dont waste your time thinking about it or you really are too nice. She wasnt into it or was insecure thats her problem not yours unless you make it yours. If your really interested in her kkep in contact but dont even talk about what happened if she wants more shell be back. If not go on with your life girls get confused and play just like us sometimes they dont know what they want but you cant do much about that.

robbo59au

I got told I was "too nice" just as I was going down on her.......I showed her who was too fucking nice!

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This is by far one of the best threads I've ever come across on a forum. Here's my shot:
First off, I was recently dumped by my girlfriend for 2.5 great years. Being "too nice" has been a problem in past relationships, and I was recently told by a good girlfriend of ours that Katie (my ex) said she'd like to try a rougher guy for a change. What a kick in the nuts. The thought of your girlfriend welcoming some sleaze to grab her ass. However, I think it comes down to time. Within my dating age group (~18-25) most girls still seem to be tasting different flavors, trying to decide what they prefer. Now I was rough as rocks in bed, but did tend to treat her like a princess in everyday life. What a mistake. However if I were to now try to get her back by being a little rougher, I would be the fake one and feel like even more of a jerk if she decided that she liked the "nice Tim" more. If she truly does like rough guys, shes a little insecure and needs a bouncer like boyfriend to be wherever she goes. If she's just confused but he made her think rougher guys would be better, then maybe he's just a little too boring for her lifestlye. If she likes nice guys but he was "too too nice", he's probably never had sex before and totally smothered her. Either way, being nice is a gift man. Yeah, nice guys might finish last, but at least they don't finish in jail with Bubba

Lol, trust me I've considered this

First time I've actually laughed out loud at my computer in a while. I'll try this next time


Yeah, maybe from one girls preference. Definitely true up front, but I'd attempt to keep the girl within reach just incase she did realize she likes you If not, shes chosing to be a bunny and longs to be devoured by some drooling wolf

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annie1

some girls make others just look so bad... you have to know that some girls (me included) really do want a nice guy and everything that goes with it... and there arent that many of them... and of the ones that are out there they are taken by girls that are playing games or just THINK they want a nice guy.