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Question for the ladies regarding anal sex
I've tried anal sex with my wife a couple of times and the "taboness" of it really turns me on (her pussy is actually tighter and feels better). Once we got the go slow and use lots of lube thing down, she also found it very pleasurable. The problem is that she complains that she "has problems" the next day. She says that she feels like if she has to go she won't be able to hold it in. Is this common for other women? Does it go away with experience? Is there anything we can do to improve the "day after" experience?
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The few times I have tried it I've always had a problem the next day with having to be in the bathroom, and no I cant really "hold" it. I know of nothing that fixes this, but have never really investigated it since I cant stand anal
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At the risk of TMI (is that possible, in this forum? ;) )... I find that I enjoy anal best after I've cleared out the GI track (e.g. taken a significant dump, you know what I mean) and cleaned everything up in the shower. That way I have no worries about things, um, getting held up... which tends to be my problem, the opposite of your wife's. Yay. |
Can I share too much?
nah!:thumbsup: |
I have that feeling afterwards and the next day but have never actually had the problem of not being able to hold it. Actually, I feel like I have to go when I don't. I only have anal when I am in the mood for it, not when someone else wants it - when I do..so I don't do it often enough, or maybe consistently is the better word, to determine if it goes away.
Her pussy is tighther than her ass is? That just seems unnatural... Have fun! :) |
I'm a gay man, and when my boyfriend and I have anal sex, I always find that being empty and clean makes all the difference, and afterwards, you find almost no need to "hold' anything since you're already empty...
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abaya: She just "feels" like she can't hold it in, but hasn't actually ever had any problems.
Kristina07: My wife has mentioned the same thing about feeling like she has to go even though she doesn't. And, yes, I think her pussy feels tighter (or maybe just better because it has texture whereas her ass does not)- and that is after two kids! Another thing, she agrees with you about only doing it when she is in the mood. After a rockin' orgasm last night she agreed to do it, but by the time I found the lube and got ready, she lost the motivation... You can bet that I'll be better prepared next time! :) |
Whoa...that is so weird...
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That feeling is caused by the lube. Again risking TMI. She can lessen it by going to the bathroom right after you finish and relaxing in an attempt to expel most of the leftover lube. She should feel more cofortable afterwards.
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Actually, I used to get this feeling - the first 4-5 times we had anal sex - but it has stopped happening. Now I don't have any discomfort whatsoever after anal. Couldn't tell you why. *shrug*
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Realizing, of course that this is decidedly off topic, but I couldn't help but to wonder...how often do the San Francisco 49ers come up in topics relating to anal sex?
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Not nearly often enough... Back to the topic at hand... The only girl I've dated that I had anal sex with often enough for this to be an issue never mentioned any problems the day after. The only think she did say was that it felt really weird when I came in her ass. |
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dude, I about fell off my chair laughing. nice one! :thumbsup: Phil |
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Wow....why i'm taking the opportunity of answering this one i'm really not sure... hmm.... what does it feel like for a girl??? In a very blunt, laying it all out there kind of way - it feels like you have to take quite a large poo. For me, anyways...and from what my gf's and I talk about, they agree. Eventually after some thrusting, it feels good.... but it takes a few minutes even if you attempt to use the entire bottle of lube. AND.... if you haven't cleared the GI out....it hurts so much that I personally cannot stand it. Come on now, think about it.... if you don't clear, anal only pushes things back in further....things that are trying to get out in the first place!!! SO that's my experience. But overall, i do enjoy anal! :thumbsup: |
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HER: I find is uncomfortable if you fuck my ass. HIM: Hey, no worries babe, a woman on the internet says you just need to do it 4 or 5 more times. HER: ! HIM: Oh - and another thing - she looks hot in stockings. HER: !!! HIM: Why don't you grab some stockings next tme you go shopping for anal lube? HER (on phone): Hello? Is that 1-800-divorce? My husband's a twat.... :mad: |
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