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goof7ball 06-17-2007 09:05 PM

Question for the ladies regarding anal sex
 
I've tried anal sex with my wife a couple of times and the "taboness" of it really turns me on (her pussy is actually tighter and feels better). Once we got the go slow and use lots of lube thing down, she also found it very pleasurable. The problem is that she complains that she "has problems" the next day. She says that she feels like if she has to go she won't be able to hold it in. Is this common for other women? Does it go away with experience? Is there anything we can do to improve the "day after" experience?

ShaniFaye 06-18-2007 03:02 AM

The few times I have tried it I've always had a problem the next day with having to be in the bathroom, and no I cant really "hold" it. I know of nothing that fixes this, but have never really investigated it since I cant stand anal

abaya 06-18-2007 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by goof7ball
She says that she feels like if she has to go she won't be able to hold it in.

Do you mean that she actually CANNOT hold it in, or she feels like she won't be able to hold it in, but is in fact just fine the next day? There's a big difference there. If she really is having problems with her sphincter (yep, that's what it's called) after anal sex, then I don't know if that will ever go away. But if it's just a "feeling" she has, and everything turns out fine anyway, then that's a mental thing and it can be overcome.

At the risk of TMI (is that possible, in this forum? ;) )... I find that I enjoy anal best after I've cleared out the GI track (e.g. taken a significant dump, you know what I mean) and cleaned everything up in the shower. That way I have no worries about things, um, getting held up... which tends to be my problem, the opposite of your wife's. Yay.

Ourcrazymodern? 06-18-2007 02:52 PM

Can I share too much?

nah!:thumbsup:

Kristina07 06-18-2007 04:07 PM

I have that feeling afterwards and the next day but have never actually had the problem of not being able to hold it. Actually, I feel like I have to go when I don't. I only have anal when I am in the mood for it, not when someone else wants it - when I do..so I don't do it often enough, or maybe consistently is the better word, to determine if it goes away.

Her pussy is tighther than her ass is? That just seems unnatural... Have fun! :)

Demaetri 06-18-2007 04:49 PM

I'm a gay man, and when my boyfriend and I have anal sex, I always find that being empty and clean makes all the difference, and afterwards, you find almost no need to "hold' anything since you're already empty...

goof7ball 06-18-2007 08:46 PM

abaya: She just "feels" like she can't hold it in, but hasn't actually ever had any problems.

Kristina07: My wife has mentioned the same thing about feeling like she has to go even though she doesn't. And, yes, I think her pussy feels tighter (or maybe just better because it has texture whereas her ass does not)- and that is after two kids! Another thing, she agrees with you about only doing it when she is in the mood. After a rockin' orgasm last night she agreed to do it, but by the time I found the lube and got ready, she lost the motivation... You can bet that I'll be better prepared next time! :)

bluestars87 06-18-2007 10:26 PM

Whoa...that is so weird...

goof7ball 06-18-2007 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by bluestars87
Whoa...that is so weird...

I am a very lucky guy! :)

BTW: I like your sig- I sure hope that their record is that good. Really, though, the one thing that will make me the most happy (and money) is if they beat the Seahawks and win the division- Go Niners!

bluestars87 06-18-2007 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by goof7ball
I am a very lucky guy! :)

BTW: I like your sig- I sure hope that their record is that good. Really, though, the one thing that will make me the most happy (and money) is if they beat the Seahawks and win the division- Go Niners!

Yeah well, it's cool that your wife feels comfortable and everything. I'm not sure, but I've heard a lot of women really don't like that kind of thing. But I guess I can see their point.

Oh and thanks for the props towards my team. I hope we take the division and make a post-season run.

Acetylene 06-20-2007 05:15 AM

That feeling is caused by the lube. Again risking TMI. She can lessen it by going to the bathroom right after you finish and relaxing in an attempt to expel most of the leftover lube. She should feel more cofortable afterwards.

mixedmedia 06-20-2007 05:29 AM

Actually, I used to get this feeling - the first 4-5 times we had anal sex - but it has stopped happening. Now I don't have any discomfort whatsoever after anal. Couldn't tell you why. *shrug*

Bill O'Rights 06-20-2007 05:46 AM

Realizing, of course that this is decidedly off topic, but I couldn't help but to wonder...how often do the San Francisco 49ers come up in topics relating to anal sex?

World's King 06-20-2007 05:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Bill O'Rights
Realizing, of course that this is decidedly off topic, but I couldn't help but to wonder...how often do the San Francisco 49ers come up in topics relating to anal sex?


Not nearly often enough...


Back to the topic at hand...


The only girl I've dated that I had anal sex with often enough for this to be an issue never mentioned any problems the day after. The only think she did say was that it felt really weird when I came in her ass.

Plan9 06-20-2007 09:33 AM

...

...

What's a girl feel like?

bluestars87 06-20-2007 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by World's King
Not nearly often enough...

You must have smoked some bad granola... :no:

PhilMcGroin 06-22-2007 11:05 AM

ROFL
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Bill O'Rights
Realizing, of course that this is decidedly off topic, but I couldn't help but to wonder...how often do the San Francisco 49ers come up in topics relating to anal sex?


dude, I about fell off my chair laughing. nice one! :thumbsup:

Phil

tinydancer 06-28-2007 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Crompsin
...

...

What's a girl feel like?



Wow....why i'm taking the opportunity of answering this one i'm really not sure... hmm.... what does it feel like for a girl??? In a very blunt, laying it all out there kind of way - it feels like you have to take quite a large poo. For me, anyways...and from what my gf's and I talk about, they agree. Eventually after some thrusting, it feels good.... but it takes a few minutes even if you attempt to use the entire bottle of lube. AND.... if you haven't cleared the GI out....it hurts so much that I personally cannot stand it. Come on now, think about it.... if you don't clear, anal only pushes things back in further....things that are trying to get out in the first place!!! SO that's my experience. But overall, i do enjoy anal! :thumbsup:

Daniel_ 06-28-2007 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
Actually, I used to get this feeling - the first 4-5 times we had anal sex - but it has stopped happening. Now I don't have any discomfort whatsoever after anal. Couldn't tell you why. *shrug*

I can just see that...

HER:

I find is uncomfortable if you fuck my ass.

HIM:

Hey, no worries babe, a woman on the internet says you just need to do it 4 or 5 more times.

HER:

!

HIM:

Oh - and another thing - she looks hot in stockings.

HER:

!!!

HIM:

Why don't you grab some stockings next tme you go shopping for anal lube?

HER (on phone):

Hello? Is that 1-800-divorce? My husband's a twat.... :mad:


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