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cornelius · 06-16-2007, 01:24 PM

Hey!!!
I need some advice from some people who know.
Here's the deal- divorced 12 years ago. Developed severe Peyronies Disease
10 years ago (it's bent nearly 90 degrees right in the middle) and haven't had sex since.
I take a bunch of psychiatric drugs and basically have no libido at all, which because of the Peyronies, I guess it's a good thing.
I'm 56, and not familiar with any sex acts beside the basic in and out, normal style. Never had a blowjob, handjob, anal, anything out of the basic. Never knew how to ask.
I have a female friend who I have craved for 30 years, and who is finally free and available. Problem is she now lives 1000 miles away.
I talk to her several times a week on the phone and she always tells me I'm her oldest and best friend. I want to try and initiate phone sex, but I'm not exactly sure what it is, and I definitely don't know how to bring it up.
Any help would really be appreciated.

Halx · 06-16-2007, 01:50 PM

Nice sig.

The most important thing to think about, in my opinion, is if this woman would potentially consider you as a partner. It's very easy to trick yourself into believing this, so it's really up to you to be honest with yourself, not just helplessly hopeful. If you make a sexual advance, the relationship will instantly change. You will no longer be just her friend and she will consider you either in or out.

If you manage to get past that point, the next important thing is to be completely honest about your condition. If she cares about you, she will work with you to get through.

06-16-2007, 01:24 PM	#1 (permalink)
cornelius Upright	10 years with Peyronies' Hey!!! I need some advice from some people who know. Here's the deal- divorced 12 years ago. Developed severe Peyronies Disease 10 years ago (it's bent nearly 90 degrees right in the middle) and haven't had sex since. I take a bunch of psychiatric drugs and basically have no libido at all, which because of the Peyronies, I guess it's a good thing. I'm 56, and not familiar with any sex acts beside the basic in and out, normal style. Never had a blowjob, handjob, anal, anything out of the basic. Never knew how to ask. I have a female friend who I have craved for 30 years, and who is finally free and available. Problem is she now lives 1000 miles away. I talk to her several times a week on the phone and she always tells me I'm her oldest and best friend. I want to try and initiate phone sex, but I'm not exactly sure what it is, and I definitely don't know how to bring it up. Any help would really be appreciated. __________________ Northbound Bug Southbound bug yellow dot on windshield!

06-16-2007, 01:50 PM	#2 (permalink)
Halx Please touch this. Owner/Admin Location: Manhattan	Nice sig. The most important thing to think about, in my opinion, is if this woman would potentially consider you as a partner. It's very easy to trick yourself into believing this, so it's really up to you to be honest with yourself, not just helplessly hopeful. If you make a sexual advance, the relationship will instantly change. You will no longer be just her friend and she will consider you either in or out. If you manage to get past that point, the next important thing is to be completely honest about your condition. If she cares about you, she will work with you to get through. __________________ You have found this post informative. -The Administrator [Don't Feed The Animals]