How do you find a third for a threesome - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

balderdash111 · 06-13-2007, 01:54 PM

(We're out of college, so hitting a college bar or party for drunk coeds is out)

How do gf and I find a woman for a threesome? Don't want to ask a friend and don't want to hire a call girl.

JStrider · 06-13-2007, 01:55 PM

craigslist?

Willravel · 06-13-2007, 02:03 PM

Friend of a friend seems like a good place to start. You have vicarious trust, but it can't ruin a friendship you already have (unless it goes REALLY badly).

surferlove007 · 06-13-2007, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by JStrider

craigslist?

You wish!

Roark · 06-13-2007, 03:32 PM

SLS or Redclouds

balderdash111 · 06-13-2007, 08:09 PM

Redclouds I know of (though not a member). What is SRS?

World's King · 06-13-2007, 08:38 PM

Here.

Willravel · 06-13-2007, 08:40 PM

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Originally Posted by World's King

Here.

Hahaha...

ngdawg · 06-13-2007, 08:51 PM

Find a 'lifestyle' club...most major cities have one or two. (They might also be referred to as 'swinger's clubs', but that's kind of an ancient conotation). From what I understand, they're very relaxed, outwardly look and feel like any other nightspot, but the clientele is a bit more....liberal.

MrFriendly · 06-13-2007, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by World's King

Here.

I like your style WK

Deltona Couple · 06-14-2007, 05:25 AM

My best suggestion would be to look at lovevoodoo.com, they have a free membership to start, and pretty much most of the people I have seen from there are real. We actually have another member of TPF that is very active on it, as I was the one who introduced her to it, and from what I have heard, she enjoys it. It might help to also know what exactly you are looking for, a girl for a full on 3some? or just for her? or what? Several places cater to more specific desires. Best thing to say would be to help as needed, but let the wife make the final decision. I have learned from others in the past, that is the best way to go. Good luck and let us know what you find! BTW, where are you two from?

Plan9 · 06-14-2007, 08:25 AM

Why would you want to do this, anyway?

I did the math. Turns out I only have one penis.

BlackIce · 06-14-2007, 08:32 AM

hah I'm still in the same boat as you are =) Let me know how it goes

analog · 06-14-2007, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Crompsin

Why would you want to do this, anyway?

I did the math. Turns out I only have one penis.

If your penis is the only thing you use to pleasure a woman, you're missing out on a lot.

Jetée · 06-14-2007, 04:57 PM

...same way as you find everything else, yellowpages or google.

MissWilly · 08-30-2007, 06:57 PM

Ok, to continue with this thought (and if this is covered somewhere else in TFP and I missed it, let me know), there is a girl I know who I would like to ask into a threesome with my guy and I, but how do I breach the subject without sounding like a complete goon?

Shauk · 08-30-2007, 09:53 PM

does your guy even want anything to do with this girl that you know? you might wanna ask him. I know if I came home from work and there was he girlI wanna be with trying to get me to do her and some girl I don't wanna be with (lets say, she's unattractive to me) I'd be less inclined to bust out my pom poms and celebrate having the best girl in the world (because in theory, it's an awesome idea) just make sure he's into it 1st.

Nisses · 08-30-2007, 11:31 PM

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Originally Posted by analog

If your penis is the only thing you use to pleasure a woman, you're missing out on a lot.

exactly how is he missing out on alot... He can use his penis to pleasure and receive pleasure at the same time...

Anything else he uses is bound to be nowhere near the amount of pleasure for Crompsin himself.

BigBaldRon · 08-31-2007, 01:37 PM

http://www.swinglifestyle.com/

It works. I PROMISE you!

tedo201 · 09-03-2007, 10:48 AM

So anyways my girlfriend a while back was really interested in starting a threesome with one of her co-workers. I was a bit lukewarm to the idea so i hesitated for a while. By the time i was showing serious interest she basically had foregone the idea. Any ideas as to why she would turn it off like that? Any way I can get her interested again? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

MSD · 09-07-2007, 02:27 PM

I don't see why picking up a drunk college girl at a party is out of the question. I mean, there is the off chance that someone will get creeped out and think you're serial killers trying to find a victim, but the odds are low.

Other than that, I'm sure your girlfriend can pick up a girl at a bar, introduce her to you once they've talked for a few minutes, and you can go to a hotel/your place for the night.

rr1024 · 09-09-2007, 10:37 AM

We belonged to all those lam i.e. SLS, lovevodooo, aff, lifestyles sites and a few more...The problem with all of them they freaking charge you up the booty.....craigslist is good but geesh it has too many spammers now I'd have to say 90% so we settled on
Swingers Lifestyle Community This site we found and while it's not super popular it is totally free....just our two cents of course...we have had some success...we met 3 couples and had a wonderful time

06-13-2007, 01:54 PM	#1 (permalink)
balderdash111 Psycho	How do you find a third for a threesome (We're out of college, so hitting a college bar or party for drunk coeds is out) How do gf and I find a woman for a threesome? Don't want to ask a friend and don't want to hire a call girl. __________________ A little silliness now and then is cherished by the wisest men. -- Willy Wonka

06-13-2007, 01:55 PM	#2 (permalink)
JStrider Poo-tee-weet? Location: The Woodlands, TX	craigslist? __________________ -=JStrider=- ~Clatto Verata Nicto

06-13-2007, 08:09 PM	#6 (permalink)
balderdash111 Psycho	Redclouds I know of (though not a member). What is SRS? __________________ A little silliness now and then is cherished by the wisest men. -- Willy Wonka

06-13-2007, 08:38 PM	#7 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	Here. __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

06-13-2007, 08:51 PM	#9 (permalink)
ngdawg peekaboo Location: on the back, bitch	Find a 'lifestyle' club...most major cities have one or two. (They might also be referred to as 'swinger's clubs', but that's kind of an ancient conotation). From what I understand, they're very relaxed, outwardly look and feel like any other nightspot, but the clientele is a bit more....liberal. __________________ Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.

06-13-2007, 02:03 PM	#3 (permalink)
Willravel ... a sort of licensed troubleshooter.	Friend of a friend seems like a good place to start. You have vicarious trust, but it can't ruin a friendship you already have (unless it goes REALLY badly).

06-13-2007, 03:32 PM	#5 (permalink)
Roark Insane	SLS or Redclouds

06-14-2007, 05:25 AM	#11 (permalink)
Deltona Couple Addict Location: Spring, Texas	My best suggestion would be to look at lovevoodoo.com, they have a free membership to start, and pretty much most of the people I have seen from there are real. We actually have another member of TPF that is very active on it, as I was the one who introduced her to it, and from what I have heard, she enjoys it. It might help to also know what exactly you are looking for, a girl for a full on 3some? or just for her? or what? Several places cater to more specific desires. Best thing to say would be to help as needed, but let the wife make the final decision. I have learned from others in the past, that is the best way to go. Good luck and let us know what you find! BTW, where are you two from? __________________ "It is not that I have failed, but that I have found 10,000 ways that it DOESN'T work!" --Thomas Edison

06-14-2007, 08:25 AM	#12 (permalink)
Plan9 I Confess a Shiver	Why would you want to do this, anyway? I did the math. Turns out I only have one penis. __________________ *Whatever you can carry.* "You should not drink... and bake."

06-14-2007, 08:32 AM	#13 (permalink)
BlackIce Upright	hah I'm still in the same boat as you are =) Let me know how it goes

06-14-2007, 04:57 PM	#15 (permalink)
Jetée The Reforms Location: Rarely, if ever, here or there, but always in transition	...same way as you find everything else, yellowpages or google. __________________ As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world (that is the myth of the Atomic Age) as in being able to remake ourselves. —Mohandas K. Gandhi

08-30-2007, 06:57 PM	#16 (permalink)
MissWilly Upright	Ok, to continue with this thought (and if this is covered somewhere else in TFP and I missed it, let me know), there is a girl I know who I would like to ask into a threesome with my guy and I, but how do I breach the subject without sounding like a complete goon? __________________ "Forty-Six and Two Just Ahead of Me"-So Sayeth MJK

08-30-2007, 09:53 PM	#17 (permalink)
Shauk Confused Adult Location: Spokane, WA	does your guy even want anything to do with this girl that you know? you might wanna ask him. I know if I came home from work and there was he girlI wanna be with trying to get me to do her and some girl I don't wanna be with (lets say, she's unattractive to me) I'd be less inclined to bust out my pom poms and celebrate having the best girl in the world (because in theory, it's an awesome idea) just make sure he's into it 1st.

08-31-2007, 01:37 PM	#19 (permalink)
BigBaldRon Tilted Location: St Louis	http://www.swinglifestyle.com/ It works. I PROMISE you!

09-03-2007, 10:48 AM	#20 (permalink)
tedo201 Upright Location: Miami	So anyways my girlfriend a while back was really interested in starting a threesome with one of her co-workers. I was a bit lukewarm to the idea so i hesitated for a while. By the time i was showing serious interest she basically had foregone the idea. Any ideas as to why she would turn it off like that? Any way I can get her interested again? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

09-07-2007, 02:27 PM	#21 (permalink)
MSD The sky calls to us ... Super Moderator Location: CT	I don't see why picking up a drunk college girl at a party is out of the question. I mean, there is the off chance that someone will get creeped out and think you're serial killers trying to find a victim, but the odds are low. Other than that, I'm sure your girlfriend can pick up a girl at a bar, introduce her to you once they've talked for a few minutes, and you can go to a hotel/your place for the night.

09-09-2007, 10:37 AM	#22 (permalink)
rr1024 Tilted Location: Livermore, California	We belonged to all those lam i.e. SLS, lovevodooo, aff, lifestyles sites and a few more...The problem with all of them they freaking charge you up the booty.....craigslist is good but geesh it has too many spammers now I'd have to say 90% so we settled on Swingers Lifestyle Community This site we found and while it's not super popular it is totally free....just our two cents of course...we have had some success...we met 3 couples and had a wonderful time