BlackIce

Well both myself and my gf do. We think it would be hot to watch another couple, or like an orgy or something. We live in Jersey and I wouldn't even know how to go about doing that. It's just another fantasy but I think it would be something cool. Has anyone ever done this before? If so how did the situation play out? Did you end up joining in?

I thought it would be a cool discussion

PhilMcGroin

Amsterdam, you can buy tickets for this kind of thing.....and yes you CAN get picked to participate in some types of shows.

g'head - ask me how I know! ;-)

braisler

What you are describing is basically a kind of light or soft swinging. I am sure that you can meet up with a lot of interested people in your area if you do some checking around. Some of the websites out there are highly commercialized, but others are more for people to just make connections.

Best of luck. Let us know how it goes.

Deltona Couple

Watched it, been watched doing it, had pretty much every facet of alteration of it...lol. And loved every one of them! lol.Although you didn't specify if you wanted to watch in person, or via webcam, or if you only want to watch other couples.....

I have been in the swinging lifestyle most of my life, so I can say with pretty reasonable authority Braisler, that just WATCHING others have sex falls under "light" swapping only. Soft swapping is when there is contact, more specifically oral sex. Just a little info to put in here.

__________________
"It is not that I have failed, but that I have found 10,000 ways that it DOESN'T work!" --Thomas Edison

ASU2003

I went to one of those two weeks ago. I wasn't expecting it to be that kind of show, and neither did the other people I went with. We were shocked to say the least.

Halx

shocked in a good way, I hope. Who would be disappointed to come across that?

__________________
You have found this post informative.
-The Administrator
[Don't Feed The Animals]

Jinn

I was going to reply with a picture of a Nun, as one who would be disappointed at the surprise...

Unfortunately, a google search for Nun turns up very little in way of REAL nuns, but quite a few examples of naked, pornographic, or slutty ones. So much for Google Safe Search at work..

__________________
"I'm typing on a computer of science, which is being sent by science wires to a little science server where you can access it. I'm not typing on a computer of philosophy or religion or whatever other thing you think can be used to understand the universe because they're a poor substitute in the role of understanding the universe which exists independent from ourselves." - Willravel

BigTruck1956

There are clubs that cater to this sort of thing. I dont know of any in new jersey, but im sure they exist

__________________
so much to do, so little time.....at least i aint bored.

thesupermikey

you can always try that den of evil Craigslist.

__________________
If you are not outraged than you are not paying attention!

"Reality has a well-known liberal bias" - Steven Colbert

absorbentishe

Nothing wrong with that! What ever turns you on is good. Hopefully you can explore this more!

BlackIce

craiglist is a bunch of crap lol

Yea I joined SLS as a free member just to check things out...its interesting to say the least.

james t kirk

Ok, I'll bite, how do you know.....

Details!

World's King

Yeah sure... two attractive people going at it like maniacs is always to watch but...


You haven't lived till you've watch a little Mexican chick take a whole donkey dick.


In all three holes.

__________________
heavy is the head that wears the crown

concernedfriend

It can be fun, but be careful. You might find yourself wanting more, and get to the point where you start swapping with other couples. It can kill relationships if you're not careful.

ASU2003

I used to think that this was just a made up thing. Does it really happen?

After seeing a attractive girl pull random guys out of the crowd (one per hour for 5 hours straight) put a condom on them, give them a bj and have sex with the ones that could get it up. I have no clue what to expect at strip clubs in foreign countries anymore. I know there was a thread about that around two months ago, but I didn't think half that stuff was real until I saw it with my own eyes. I might be going down to Mexico this summer, but won't be able to visit any strip clubs to see what they are like.

BlackIce

Wow, now I want to go out the country and expirence this stuff, sounds awesome to watch *But not participate in* lol

Daemon1313

Swingers clubs are going to be the easiest way to go about fulfilling this fantasy. Look around and I'm sure you can find one in your general area.

As far as the foreign freaky sex club thing goes, yes it does all happen. And remember don't ask why they putting a mop and bucket out on the stage and take this as a cue to leave if you have a weak stomach.

__________________
A clear conscience is usually the sign of a bad memory.

NAGAII

Black Ice...There is a Cherry Hill in New Jersey, I believe. A bit of research should set you on the right path.

BlackIce

cherry hill? Thats two towns over....google search im assuming?

I tried and came up with nothing...care to lead me in the right direction?

LoganSnake

Why do they put a mop and a bucket out on the stage?

__________________
Maturity is knowing you were an idiot in the past. Wisdom is knowing that you'll be an idiot in the future. Common sense is knowing that you should try not to be an idiot now. - J. Jacques

ASU2003

I don't know, but it can't be good.

pig

i'm going out on a limb here, and i'm thinking spectators jacking off on the stage.

__________________
You don't love me, you just love my piggy style

mixedmedia

Men are such pigs...always jacking off everywhere...and then expecting someone else to clean it up

sorry, I couldn't resist...'tis joke see

__________________
Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce

BlackIce

dont lose sight of the topic! lo

pig

lo? and yea, verily did blackice find himself desirous of gazing at others in the state of blathergasting copulatory practices. and so it came to be that he came to come whilst watching others going to and fro, to and fro.

fro!

fro!

fro!

and fro some more.

__________________
You don't love me, you just love my piggy style

mixedmedia

I like to watch.

__________________
Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce

BlackIce

ill never fulfill this =(

mixedmedia

Well, you won't if you sit around here talking about it. Now get on out there and find some people to watch have sex and them come back here and tell us all about it.

__________________
Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce

pig

why so? people like fuck. people like to watch. some people like to be watched while they're fucking. now, put yourself inside that equation somewhere and i think you're in bidness.

__________________
You don't love me, you just love my piggy style

Deltona Couple

I dont mind being watched at all. it's a turn on. hey Mixed media, you like only watching sex? or do you like watching others masturbate as well? I like it all when it comes to visual erotica.

__________________
"It is not that I have failed, but that I have found 10,000 ways that it DOESN'T work!" --Thomas Edison

BlackIce

Ya i know....Just gotta make it happen. Cinco de Mayo weekend lets see what I can come up with.

pig

alternatively, you could look here for inspiration:

__________________
You don't love me, you just love my piggy style

mixedmedia

Why am I thinking Vienna Sausages?

__________________
Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce

pig

because you're kinky and set goals?

__________________
You don't love me, you just love my piggy style

mixedmedia

Well, you got one of them right.

__________________
Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce

World's King

Yes. Yes it does...


And it's amazing.

__________________
heavy is the head that wears the crown

surferlove007

For some reason I think all the swinger clubs were burned down in Lubbock.
Y'all hear about the Chip N'Dale Dancers?
Yea...they call this city "old fashioned"
I call it 80% rednecks.
Hell people from Alabama are probably making fun of us.

World's King

No... 95% of the country makes fun of Texas. The other 5% is Texas.

__________________
heavy is the head that wears the crown

Val_1

People like to watch, and people like to fuck. I call my game: Watch the Fuck.

__________________

I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day.

-Frank Sinatra

PhilMcGroin

I think this is my craziest single guy story ever...LOL. So I'm in A-dam on business and realize that "hey! I'm single, it's my birthday, and I'm in a good place to do this!"

so I head straight for the red light district and wander the alleys with the nice ladies in the nice windows, stop in to a pub here and there, and just generally tourist it up. That's when I saw this theatre with "live sex" on the banner and went in.

OK, way cool! They had I think 3 different couples come on in different themes, and go at it. None of the guys came though..just several pumps and onto the next act. So ends the "watching other people have sex" part of the story...

That's when the audience participation event started up. This dominatrix chick picks ME of all people (I looked safe? no clue...) and takes me on stage, and proceeds to whip me, lead me around on a collar, all kinds of stuff. Then it really goes goofy - she installs a big black strap-on TO MY FOREHEAD and proceeds to fuck me with it! Yes, I am forehead-fucking a stranger in a different continent.

I went for more beer after that one.... LOL

Phil