I want to watch people have sex
 

Well both myself and my gf do. We think it would be hot to watch another couple, or like an orgy or something. We live in Jersey and I wouldn't even know how to go about doing that. It's just another fantasy but I think it would be something cool. Has anyone ever done this before? If so how did the situation play out? Did you end up joining in?

I thought it would be a cool discussion

Amsterdam, you can buy tickets for this kind of thing.....and yes you CAN get picked to participate in some types of shows.

g'head - ask me how I know! ;-)

What you are describing is basically a kind of light or soft swinging. I am sure that you can meet up with a lot of interested people in your area if you do some checking around. Some of the websites out there are highly commercialized, but others are more for people to just make connections.

Best of luck. Let us know how it goes.

Watched it, been watched doing it, had pretty much every facet of alteration of it...lol. And loved every one of them! lol.Although you didn't specify if you wanted to watch in person, or via webcam, or if you only want to watch other couples.....

I have been in the swinging lifestyle most of my life, so I can say with pretty reasonable authority Braisler, that just WATCHING others have sex falls under "light" swapping only. Soft swapping is when there is contact, more specifically oral sex. Just a little info to put in here.

I went to one of those two weeks ago. I wasn't expecting it to be that kind of show, and neither did the other people I went with. We were shocked to say the least.

shocked in a good way, I hope. Who would be disappointed to come across that?

I was going to reply with a picture of a Nun, as one who would be disappointed at the surprise...

Unfortunately, a google search for Nun turns up very little in way of REAL nuns, but quite a few examples of naked, pornographic, or slutty ones. So much for Google Safe Search at work.. :)

There are clubs that cater to this sort of thing. I dont know of any in new jersey, but im sure they exist

you can always try that den of evil Craigslist.

Nothing wrong with that! What ever turns you on is good. Hopefully you can explore this more!

craiglist is a bunch of crap lol

Yea I joined SLS as a free member just to check things out...its interesting to say the least.

Ok, I'll bite, how do you know.....

Details!

Yeah sure... two attractive people going at it like maniacs is always to watch but...


You haven't lived till you've watch a little Mexican chick take a whole donkey dick.


In all three holes.

It can be fun, but be careful. You might find yourself wanting more, and get to the point where you start swapping with other couples. It can kill relationships if you're not careful.

I used to think that this was just a made up thing. Does it really happen?

After seeing a attractive girl pull random guys out of the crowd (one per hour for 5 hours straight) put a condom on them, give them a bj and have sex with the ones that could get it up. I have no clue what to expect at strip clubs in foreign countries anymore. I know there was a thread about that around two months ago, but I didn't think half that stuff was real until I saw it with my own eyes. I might be going down to Mexico this summer, but won't be able to visit any strip clubs to see what they are like.

Wow, now I want to go out the country and expirence this stuff, sounds awesome to watch *But not participate in* lol

Swingers clubs are going to be the easiest way to go about fulfilling this fantasy. Look around and I'm sure you can find one in your general area.

As far as the foreign freaky sex club thing goes, yes it does all happen. And remember don't ask why they putting a mop and bucket out on the stage and take this as a cue to leave if you have a weak stomach.

I want to watch people have sex
 

Black Ice...There is a Cherry Hill in New Jersey, I believe. A bit of research should set you on the right path.

cherry hill? Thats two towns over....google search im assuming?

I tried and came up with nothing...care to lead me in the right direction?

Why do they put a mop and a bucket out on the stage?

I don't know, but it can't be good.

i'm going out on a limb here, and i'm thinking spectators jacking off on the stage.

Men are such pigs...always jacking off everywhere...and then expecting someone else to clean it up :lol:

sorry, I couldn't resist...'tis joke see ;)

dont lose sight of the topic! lo

lo? and yea, verily did blackice find himself desirous of gazing at others in the state of blathergasting copulatory practices. and so it came to be that he came to come whilst watching others going to and fro, to and fro.

fro!

fro!

fro!

and fro some more.

I like to watch. :)

ill never fulfill this =(

Well, you won't if you sit around here talking about it. Now get on out there and find some people to watch have sex and them come back here and tell us all about it. ;)

why so? people like fuck. people like to watch. some people like to be watched while they're fucking. now, put yourself inside that equation somewhere and i think you're in bidness.

I dont mind being watched at all. it's a turn on. hey Mixed media, you like only watching sex? or do you like watching others masturbate as well? I like it all when it comes to visual erotica.

Ya i know....Just gotta make it happen. Cinco de Mayo weekend lets see what I can come up with.

alternatively, you could look here for inspiration:

http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y29...Peepingtom.gif

Why am I thinking Vienna Sausages?

because you're kinky and set goals?

Well, you got one of them right. :suave:

Yes. Yes it does...


And it's amazing.

For some reason I think all the swinger clubs were burned down in Lubbock.
Y'all hear about the Chip N'Dale Dancers?
Yea...they call this city "old fashioned"
I call it 80% rednecks.
Hell people from Alabama are probably making fun of us.

No... 95% of the country makes fun of Texas. The other 5% is Texas.

People like to watch, and people like to fuck. I call my game: Watch the Fuck.

I think this is my craziest single guy story ever...LOL. So I'm in A-dam on business and realize that "hey! I'm single, it's my birthday, and I'm in a good place to do this!"

so I head straight for the red light district and wander the alleys with the nice ladies in the nice windows, stop in to a pub here and there, and just generally tourist it up. That's when I saw this theatre with "live sex" on the banner and went in.

OK, way cool! They had I think 3 different couples come on in different themes, and go at it. None of the guys came though..just several pumps and onto the next act. So ends the "watching other people have sex" part of the story...

That's when the audience participation event started up. This dominatrix chick picks ME of all people (I looked safe? no clue...) and takes me on stage, and proceeds to whip me, lead me around on a collar, all kinds of stuff. Then it really goes goofy - she installs a big black strap-on TO MY FOREHEAD and proceeds to fuck me with it! Yes, I am forehead-fucking a stranger in a different continent.

I went for more beer after that one.... LOL

Phil