afirocks

there seems to be a lot of interest in labia flaps on this forum. what is the.....cause.......um...... please let me know--just out of curiosity, just want to be educated, not creepy

LoganSnake

I was wondering about that one myself. Personally, I don't find them attractive at all. I like it clean and "streamlined".

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Plaid13

No idea but some girls that have them are very uncomfortable with it even though they shouldnt be. Personaly i dont care one way or the other. but... im more into nice legs and eyes then anything.

Dilbert1234567

its just like any other part of the body, they are dictated by your genes.

i loves them so very very much

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Lady Sage

I was born with them, they are there and I have no problem with them. Neither does Pan.

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afirocks

Thank you everyone that has posted, you have answered my question well. Another curious question down--millions more to go!

james t kirk

I love the look of the prominent labia minora.

LOVE the look.

Total turn on for me. When I hear women bemoaning their naturally sexy labias I always tell them not to worrry.

Charlatan

To me, it's all good.

Women have enough issues with their bodies. Do we really need to scrutinize yet another aspect?

Just be happy that you are getting some and don't worry about the aesthetics of her vagina.

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Dilbert1234567

quoted for truth

I've never met a vagina i did not like, they are all different in the own special way, each one unique and beautiful.

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biznatch

I still haven't figured out why, but the truth is most women are very concerned with how their vagina is perceived by their partner. To me, they are all beautiful. I guess it's hard to be confident about something that's so intimate.

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Hektore

Not that I can speak for women, but having anyone say that your vagina is ugly cannot be a good feeling. Of all the features of a body that would probably be the worst to insult not only because it's an intimate part of your body, but the person who has the opportunity to comment is likely not someone who's opinion isn't going to matter to you. I don't know about you, but I probably wouldn't take it very well if my partner said she was grossed out by the sight of my penis.

I personally enjoy more pronounced labia minora because it gives you more to pay attention to when you're....mouthing around. In that sense I find them very attractive. As far as something to look at is concerned, I tend to pay more attention to a woman's face than anything especially when we're getting down.

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absorbentishe

What's not to like about them?? I love the look, the feel. It's just more to love.

Sultana

Thank you!

You know, there are women who actually have plastic surgury to "correct this problem".

That's always a nice feeling.

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Bill O'Rights

For real?
Some women actually do that?
That's sad beyond comprehension. I'm thinking, or at least hoping, that there are other esteem issues at work there.

I don't see the "problem". There's certainly nothing to correct. It is what is, and it's all good.

The only way that I can see anyone having a "problem" with it, is if they had never seen a real live one before. I mean, if "normal" to them is what they see on an airbrushed porn site...well...
And if they do have a problem with it, then they deserve to never see another one again.

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calibrich

I think I prefer to see them a little actually. The little slit is a good look but I love to look at some extra skin hanging. Its just what I picture a vagina to look like lol.

World's King

As longs as it's a pussy, I'll fuck it.

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Leto

they're very tastey.

bloody_rose20

Okay I would just like to say that I like my vagina just fine. Now the girls with the nasty looking warmed up and left out roast beef look is discusting. Thats what all the porn satrs chooches look like and if I had one that looked like that I would get it cut off because that is nasty. Who the hell would want to lick down there with it looking like that all loose and nasty? Ick! Alls I am saying is the loose skanky women need to do something about their warm roastbeef cooch.

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Dilbert1234567

first off, it's not because they have lots of sex, its genetic. second, i do.

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bloody_rose20

Well either way thats gross and they should keep it to themselves. Even my man can vouch for it that he thinks they should be neatly tucked away not hanging loose..*shudder* Thats great for you to like them but my opinion is gross.

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Dilbert1234567

[thread jack]just remember that making fun of a genetic trait is kinda shallow. like making fun of you because your eye color. [/thread jack]

back to lovely long lushes labia lips

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bloody_rose20

I wasn't making fun, I was making a statement. Or my opinion. Just like you stated yourse.

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Sultana

Bold emphasis mine.

Your word choice is not simply stating an opinion. It is rediculing, degrading, and to top it off passing moral judgement--for a genetically determined physical trait.

When you talk like that, how do you suppose it makes women with that particular physical characterization feel? Do you think that there is no one on this forum who might be built that way?

I'd advise you reconsider your post.

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abaya

Bloody rose, are you saying that women have "flaps" because they are "loose, skanky women?" That was what I got from your post, at least. If so, that is a terribly misinformed opinion. The shape of one's labia has nothing to do with one's sexual decisions.

You cannot help what your genitals look like, unless of course you get a piercing or give birth. Both of which have nothing to do with labia or having sex.

Have some respect for your half of the species, wouldja? Thanks.

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Atropos4

Never really paid attention to "flaps" when looking at pictures or watching porn. To me a vagina is a vagina. I have "flaps" *shrugs I'm happy with mine. I find it odd that anyone would judge a woman by her labia.

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james t kirk

As previously stated, I love "the roast beef" (your words) look, far more than the little slit look.

There's nothing disgusting about the female vulva (unless unclean, that's a different story.) I find these sort of comments surprising coming from a female.

If you are into the lippy look (as I am) then I suggest this site (full nudity warning)

www.sexylabia.com

ktspktsp

So, help me out here:

A) Do women become slutty because of the way their lips originally look? Ostracized from society because of their long lips, they turn to a life of sluttyness because of societal limitations on their vertical mobility?

or

B) Do the lips of slutty women gradually become longer, a la Pinocchio? How does that happen? Increased friction? But then even monogamous women who have lots of sex should get long lips... Maybe coming in contact with different penises stimulates lip growth?

or

C) You don't really know what you're talking about?

Dilbert1234567

guys, lay off her, she said something stupid and moronic, but lets not turn this into a flame fest.

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talkowacko

Labia/vagina's shape or size or color doesn't matter. They are beautiful and I love it the way it is. My delicacy.

abaya

Sorry, but was that comment supposed to be somehow "better" than flaming?

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Dilbert1234567

it's a fine line, i don't think she is stupid or moronic, what she said was. but yes, what i threw onto the fire was flammable...

sorry folks, my bad.

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abaya

No problem Dilbert, was just wondering about the whole kettle/black thing.

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mixedmedia

I love you.



It's a sad fucking day when a woman's labia become "right" or "wrong."

As for the OP, I've been told that nibbling on "flaps" is very enjoyable and that seeing them and feeling them wrapped around your cock while fucking is a huge turn on. This is what I've been told.

I'm glad I have flaps.

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noodle

I have one prounouced side and one not so pronounced... I guess I'm a halfy-flappy... or a happy-flappy.
It's been embarrassing for me in the past, but I've only had one partner and he doesn't seem to care so I've been able to get over that for myself. My whole flipping body is off-kilter a bit from left to right so I've practice at getting used to it. The plastic surgery thing is actually true, though, I knew a chick who swore she had it done... I didn't ask to see, but her entire persona changed afterwards. She was so much more relaxed. Whatever floats your boat, but for her it was becoming more comfortable in her skin. I just can't imagine being that uncomfortable in the first place about flaps... it's awful.

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ngdawg

I'm half-flappy as well; I'd suspect most women aren't 'even'.
I could see surgery if it's physically uncomfortable-like so large it gets pressure from slacks, etc.,; a young girl was on Dr. 90210 to get the reduction done for that reason(painful to go horseback riding, etc).
We're a society so fixated on perfection, we're of the thinking symmetrical=beauty=perfection=desireable. Labia 'fixing', ass bleaching, vaginal tightening....sheesh....
If someone loves you, they truly don't care about that dumb stuff.

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mixedmedia

Wow, I've never heard of a woman experiencing discomfort from her labia...

And, you know, I don't know if I'm a little lop-sided or not...never bothered to check that closely....

And from what I've seen, in my experience of looking at lots and lots of pictures of naked women, MOST women have pronounced and darkened labia to one extent or another. I'd venture to guess that pink and petite labia are more of a rarity...

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host

I don't click on "new posts" very often. You guys impress me as being a group that it is very easy to share my opinion on this subject with. I like 'em tiny and thin, big and in your face, and I like "tweeners" as well.

lurkette

Ok, this is the kind of idiocy that makes women self-conscious.

Given:

1. labia size/shape is genetically determined
2. labia come in all shapes and sizes
3. sexual activity has NOTHING to do with the shape/size of labia
4. your opinion is YOUR opinion. Telling others that their vaginae are "gross" because they don't conform to your ignorantly-formed opinion marks you as an ignorant person and a traitor to women everywhere.

If you can't say something nice, don't say nothin' at all.

I will respect your, or anyone else's aesthetic PREFERENCE any day. But "I prefer clamshell pussy" is a completely different statement than "anything that does not conform to my aesthetic judgment is gross and disgusting."

Grow up, grow a brain, or stfu.

P.S. Nibbling on stretchy lips is fun, and orgasms are that much better for having one more erogenous zone to play with.

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StellaLuna

...sure ya have, kiddo. Yours just might be even more fun.

cadre

Okay, I wasn't going to get into this because it is somewhat of an issue for me but I will.
I am half-flappy too and I dislike it. I have considered the surgery but I have no money and my boyfriend is fond of my "flap" so I never did it. It's not painful for me at all, I can't even feel that one unless it's tugged on but I just don't like how it looks and feels. I'm all for other people's preferences though, I know my boyfriend loves me the way I am so it's not a huge issue. I would be perfectly happy if I was "fully flappy" or not at all it's just the unevenness that bothers me personally.

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