Mistress Kali

I am currently in a D/s relationship, which has a strong S&M component (with no switching). Recently my sub and I have been playing with chastity, chastity devices (cb300) and other forms of orgasm control. I am wondering if there are others here who have practiced chastity in a bdsm Femdom relationship. If so, have you used devices? Did it effect your relationship?

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Watching the tumbleweeds rolling through....

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Halx

This is a tough subject to find like experiences on a general message board, I hate to admit.

I'm not into D/s, and personally I shiver at the thought of a chastity device.

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Mistress Kali

Ahhh...such a shame...

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Gilda

I'm the sub in a D/s relationship; though I'm not sure if it counts as femdom if both partners are women.

We've never tried chastity devices because it doesn't appeal to me and isn't necessary--if I'm being restrained, I ain't gettin' off until she decides it's time anyway, and when I'm not, we find authoritative commands to be sufficient.

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dlish

sorry to sounds like a chaste little boy..but whats a d/s relationship? and whats a s&m component? and what does a chastity device do?

oh come on guys, i know most of you were asking the same questions, but were too afraid to ask!

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ShaniFaye

Not sure if I should answer this or not since Dave and I are switches, but we arent that into chastity devices....I've been toying with the idea of getting a 7 ring gates of hell....but as we found out at Fetish Fair the other weekend, a normal one wont fit Dave we are going to have to get a custom one if we want one large enuff to fit him.

and to answer your question

D/s is a Dominant/submissive relationship
S/M is sado masochism (whips,chains, restrains, floggers etc)
Using Chastity devices helps the practice of male orgasm denial

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Mistress Kali

The Gates of Hell is a sexy looking device and most useful for attaching weights, leashing and other forms of cbt. Have lots of fun with it and let me know what you think of it. Hope everyone is having a great V-Day!

Pardon, Gilda, I did not see your post. Lesbians can be in a femdom relationship. A great many folks find chastity works well without a device. How long have you been practicing?

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Gilda

MIstress Kali: We first started about five years ago, starting with some mild restraint play and escalating from there.

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Mistress Kali

I hope from your comment, Gilda, that you are both have loads of fun.

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PauletteTheTart

You are not alone.

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james t kirk

I find the idea of male chastity devices to be extremely exciting. Something very intriguing about having one's penis locked up and knowing that your woman is holding the key. (But I think I'm far more sexual than your average bear.)

I had done some reading on line about it and found a pile of information on line

Though I don' t have any devices myself, I have thought about the CB 6000 as being kind of interesting.

This is an interesting site.....

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