This may work better than the aneros :) ...http://i129.photobucket.com/albums/p...ix/suptool.jpg

hey all, enjoying the thread. i've experimented a bit with it myself, but i never seem to have the patient to wait it through. i always end up just finishing myself off. the problem i've found though is getting the right angle. suggestions?

Try the new versions f the Aneros
 

Just check out www.aneros.com

Lots of explanations there

finger, aneros, butt plug or plain old-fashioned dildo (large or small).

the same rules apply for the male as the female:

Too much lube is just enough.
Easy does it to begin with.
Relaxing is easier with deep breaths.
Practice tightening your a-hole to begin with, so you become accustomed to the sensation and ability of relaxing it afterward.

Anal play for men. Ace.

(Mostly i've only got good stuff from myself.)

one thing with anal play. when u use lube be sure that it not the warming kind. think of the icey hot

:lol:

Well, Hell. I misread the thread title to be "And Play for Men." I thought we ladies would be playing some kind of, I dunno, hangman game. I popped in to see who was supposed to be the prize. Ah, well.

That video reminded me of this one... :)

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Ok, so my SO told me that he wanted anal stimulation and wants me to do it. I am going to be one of those "willing ladies" and try this out, but I don't want to do it wrong or hurt him. I wanna go in like a pro and surprise him!
I looked up that toy thing and it sounds good. I will most likely buy one. I can't see using my finger (grosses me out a bit) plus I am pretty small and don't think I could reach.

Anyway, my question to all those experts out there....once I get the thing in there; What do I do? Do I move it in and out? Wiggle it?
Please help!! I don't want to screw it up.

What a quick education -- for a slightly humorous look at this - check out an old episode of Lucky Louie - HBO comedy series starring Lewis CK ...

Youtube at: Lucky Louie - Bumsex 3 mins ... Ha !

Hal - First thing you should do is go out and get a copy of "Anal Health and Pleasure." Seriously good book that will teach you all you need to know about this sort of stuff, and teach you how to never get hemmorhoids whether you play with your anus or not.