hot wax is great :)

but I echo the scented candle thing...evening knowing it was hotter we tried it once just to see....big mistake lol

Can melted wax (scented or unscented) cause scalding / burns?

they also make waxes that melt at lower temperatures, precisely for this type of thing. or so i've been told. its sort of like the parafin-based waxes that they use sometimes for sports injuries. i'm sure they have all kinds of nifty colors and so forth.

I think "kinky" is one of those terms like "slutty" which are just too subjective to even really mean anything. As we know (or have discovered through this thread and others) people have wildly different ideas on what kink even is. Is it kinky when a boy and a girl try anything other than missionary with the lights off while married, or is it plain and ordinary when two people put knives up each other's asses? Completely subjective, and on some level I resent the implication that one is somehow better or more accepting or more enlightened than the other.

That being said, sex with restraints on my partner and ice cubes in my hands would be the most involved with extra materials I've ever gotten. I seem to find the ones that like being tied up for some reason, and I don't mind indulging that one. :)

* Lotsa nasty role-play (common theme being older male in position of authority having his way with innocent young thing....Not the most original stuff in the world, but hey, it works for me! It's weird, but I even did this in my first relationship, when I was only 14. I didn't even know the term "role play," just knew that I was kinda crazy and it was hott.)

* Occasional play with bondage, gags, nipple clamps, phallic toys...

* Corporal punishment: spanking, crops, belts, straps, etc...I'm not really a lifestyle sub, but I do like this a lot when I get it.

* Semi-public humiliation (e.g. I once accompanied a new BF to a New Years Eve party and somehow found myself, in the hours before dawn, shackled to a loft bed, wearing nothing but black thigh-high stockings, stilettos, & some strategically placed clothespins, receiving a sound strapping from my new BF's ex-girlfriend's boyfriend who happened to be an experienced dominant, while the rest of the party bore witness to my chastening...)

* "That'll go on your Permanent Record, Missy!": i.e., Appeared in a couple of professionally produced fetish flicks (bondage and flogging with male dom, some girl-girl action but no penetration...)...Once bound and gagged with tube socks and anally raped by psychotic BF's best friend while said BF ran the videocamera...(and this BF was so seriously crazy that I later lived in fear that he would send the tape to my Dad or something...)

* Assorted threesomes and foursomes. Too many to count, lotsa different circumstances...(One memorable occasion: At the Rio in Vegas, a threesome with my Italian-American stripclub-owner boss and a beautiful biracial 19-year-old virgin...)

*Outdoor sex and PDN's (Public Displays of Nastiness): I used to be more into this when I was younger, fucking in public parks, in nightclubs, on parked cars in stranger's driveways late at night, along riverbeds by the sides of parkways, in Macy's storerooms, in cemeteries, in empty commuter trains in Grand Central Station, fooling around behind couches in department store living room displays, etc...I've mostly outgrown this phase...Although, come to think of it, just this past weekend I got fingerfucked on Rodeo Drive...just for the bragging rights, really.:p

* Mutual masturbation. I love this.

* Ice and wax are always fun...

* Cumslut Stuff. I'm not crazy enough to let a bunch of strange men spooge on me, but it's HOT in fantasy....In RL, with SO, I just loooove being cummed on, made to feel it/hold it/taste it/lick it/swallow it....oh god. Cumswapping with another girl in a threesome is waaay hot, too.

* Worked in sex industry for about 13 years. I don't know if this qualifies as "kinkiness," but I think you do have to be a little off to feel comfortable in nothing but a pair of 6" platform spike-heeled shoes and a rhinestone choker in a room full of 50 fully clothed male strangers...


Hmmm...did I leave anything out?


Never done the watersports thing, but I like it in porn; would partake if I was with someone who was really into it...

Hey, you asked. :)

Valentina, I think in this thread, so far you take the cake. Wow.

I second that.:thumbsup:

Kewl...So what do I win? :suave:

Oh. I forgot choking. Not like hardcore asphyxiation or anything, but a little light choking, with hand or belt or collar around the throat. Along with hairpulling, hand over the mouth, other suggestions of coercion...

As for bloodplay, I don't really get into it. I was a bit of a cutter as a kid, and so I've done stuff that was sorta like bloodplay, but it wasn't really sexual. More like what you do when you're 18 & crazy & in love with a brilliant English goth chick who wants to be a vampire, or a stripper who's rebelling against her born-again family by listening to Ozzy and calling herself a Satanist. You know, that sort of thing. Ahhh, the folly of youth.... :D

The candles made for sensation play are usually soy based. They burn at a much lower temperature and the melted wax serves a purpose as a warm massage oil.

I've never been badly burned by any types of wax, the most that has happened is a red spot for a couple minutes. I've been burned worse but many other things. At the same time, alot of people find normal wax candles too painful to be enjoyable so the soy based ones are a good alternative. They're also supposed to burn cleaner. I'm pretty sure goodvibes.com sells some :)

The kinkiest thing I have done is a three some with my girlfriend and a black female stranger at a private home with a bedroom set up in a large living room with 30 people watching. it was amazing!!!!

After reading some of the previous comments, I fear the various 3-somes and 4-somes I've been involved in would be regarded as pretty ordinary!

Nothing is ordinary here, post whatever you've done that you feel is kinky. :thumbsup:

Tie me up, or tie me down. Cock rings and feathers: lately it's been pretty staid and (ahem) vanilla. I like silk for the tying and leather for the rings; top
or bottom are equally good.
Back in the day, though, (Ah youth!) there were many groups, triangles both ways, and numerous near-anonymous encounters. Good memories. I remember one road trip in particular that involved a two hour drive and some bondage. Good stuff arose from the uncertainty for me - go figure.
I'm saying it again: Ah, youth!

Yeah, I forgot about the pleasure in dressing up!

Does getting a hand job under the table in a bar count? My wife characterized that as "wildly exciting" for her!
& sex in the park! It's seeming now I could go on and on, but I think spontaneous is rearing its ugly but strangely attractive head again.

Happy Valentine's day, everybody. Hope y'all get some!

wow, most of this sounds way 'kinkier' than anything we have done, though there is one we tried that isn't mentioned.

Since I have an extreme nylon fetish, we bought a large pair of pantyhose and I wore them. Then she stroked and sucked me through it. I actually highly recommend this if the feel of nylon drives you nuts (as it does me).

We both had intense orgasms with this, so it has become a recurring theme, once in a while.

I guess most people would just think that weird...

That's not wierd, I like the idea and I may steal it from you. :thumbsup:

I need to get my wife on this board....maybe things could get a little more exciting..

well, I've never been with someone to kinky before, however, I'll try just about anything once, so long as its relatively sanitary (shower before the RJ and were good) and relatively safe (Raw paraffin, not bees wax). I'm not really grooving to blood play, if a SO really, really wanted to, I'd have to chat with my GP first. pain, I do like pain, I've been tasered, not on a dare, just because i felt like it, and it was the most amazing day of my life, it felt like i just drank 10 cups of coffee the entire day. and a shave and a trim, down south, for fun and for hygiene.

My husband and I went shopping at Home Depot the other day, and I picked up the thinnest wood doweling I could find (VERY thin, like a switch). I'm not using it to its fullest extent of course... that would be something like caning, which we're not interested in. But it leaves delicious red slashes across his ass (when I've tied him up and blindfolded him), which we both find very fun. :thumbsup:

Who knew a sex toy could be so cheap? $0.88, I believe. :D

Slim Jim Beef Jerky (not the round meat sticks) work really well too :) .94 cents for the giant ones at the local gas station

These are great to read. Thanks for sharing everyone.

Right now the kinkiest thing I've probably ever done is have my wife give me an enema, put a plug in, and then have me fuck her. That was REALLY nice. I would like to work up to having her peg me.

But there are a whole lot of fantasies running around in my head. There are so many things that I read about and think "Hey, I wanna try that!" I haven't found anything my wife isn't willing to try yet. I'm so lucky to have found someone that doesn't freak out when I share what I've been dreaming up in my head.

i've always liked public activities. picnic tables. pressed up against office windows on the tenth floor, and car BJ's with this twist - while she's driving ...

I consider myself a worldly woman, but a BJ while SHE'S driving....I'd really like to hear how that one works to where its not a danger to everyone around you?

I really like stripper shoes, not the clear ones (they look cheap to me) but the white/black/red etc ones. So my gf wears them when we have sex and she gets me to hold onto the heel bit of the shoe while having sex with her doggie style.

Sometimes, he puts his penis into my vagina...

DAMN woman, get that weird shit outa this forum!

My ex-girlfriend really like getting slapped. Hard. Accross the face. I wasn't into it at first, but but as it went on, the domination aspect was quite a turn. Of course she hit back too, and that was fun. I am sure if I could've done without serious damage, she would've wanted a fist. Thinking back on it, it's quite twisted given her issues, and I haven't been drawn to do it with other women.

Me and my girlfriend currently enjoy some mild anal play, mainly fingering. Though I've been tempted to perform some annalingus on her.

That's about it.

mmmmm, gawd, I love ir when he does that ;)

Mardi Gras a few years ago we all piled into a bed (six of us) and did whatever we wanted or went as far as each person was okay with. I hooked up with my first lesbian (which was not an wonderful experience.... she was a biter) as well as discovered my good guy friend's slight homosexuality which was fun to watch/partake in.

My friend's boyfriend did this at a party a couple months ago, I think he had fun but he forgot one very important thing. Don't leave out the girlfriend! Haha, it was all smoothed over after a couple days. Anywho, that sounds like alot of fun, even to just watch.

My big kink is I'm really into facials, for me there's nothing hotter than blowing all over my wife's pretty little face while she smiles and begs me for it.

I've been with a woman who was into that, I thought it was weird at first too. She liked to be verbally abused while I did it, like 'dirty bitch', 'fucking whore', etc. She was pretty screwed up but dominating her like that was HOT. I don't get the urge to do it very often, when I do my wife will roleplay it with me provided there's no real hitting. She's a saint. With a black halo.

I think any story will come out pale in comparison to what Valentina said. :bowdown:

I used to play a lot of pussy games with my ex girlfriend, and we took pictures and some movies while doing it. The one that ranks on top of the list was the time when I picked up one of her sexy 5" stiletto shoes and put the heel of the shoe in her pussy. She held her lips wide open while I slowly slipped a plastic chopstick in and out of her urethra. It drove her insane. She said she had the uncontrollable urge to pee but her bladder was empty but the whole thing made her so horny that she told me to take them out of her and she damn near raped me. :D

I did take some pictures of her pussy while I had things in it. I don't know if I am allowed to post any pics here or even a link. If not I'll try and post it in the wayside forum.

We were also pretty big on breath play. We had tried choking each other during sex with our hands, ropes, or belts.

I hogtied her one time and put one of her toys in her pussy and masturbated her to a most voilent orgasm. (I do have a picture of this one as well)

First, unless she explicitly agrees to it, then no, you're not allowed to post it. Second, if you do get permission, then it would go in Tilted Exhibition, which you don't currently have access to.

There are no faces in the pics, just body parts. I would think that it would protect everyone's privacy.

Sounds very much like questionable content to me... Best to stay on the safe side :)

Even so, if she doesn't give you an okay on that, you shouldn't be posting it.

I saw a vision
might have been an accident
Except it wasn't

I once banned my brother for being underage, there was an account using my IP that wasn't me and there was one computer connected directly to the modem. He's over 18 now and a very low activity member. He'd have fun with this thread, he loves bragging about the time he and his ex had sex on a church altar.

One kinky thing, well kind of, was watch a full porn movie and try to replicate each action...didn't quite work out, having sex for a full 20 mins is really hard to do!

Another time, I was sleeping at my gf's dorm room with her roommate and her current bf. The beds were pushed together for more room in the dorm, and the girls were in the middle. They decided it would be cool to play with each other's breasts in front of us to get us hot...it worked. They soon both ended up giving us oral.

The following night, we...being gentlemen, decided to return the favor and give them oral. Well, that soon turned into sex, as my gf can't take the stimulation without actual intercourse soon therafter. There was no swapping or anything, but overall it was really fun.

I have had a threesome with 2 Jamaican men (which i don;t regret). i really knew nothing about them except their first names and ages. they were good friends with each other though... also, i enjoy having an audience, and also videotaping it. one thing i would love to do but never have would be to have sex with a transvestite male, but one who actually looks like a beautiful woman, with a penis. i don't know WHERE i'll find someone for that one :(

Well, let me take up some space at the bottom of the curve. Kinkiest thing the wife and I have managed was to (by hand) bring each other to orgasm in a movie theater. She says that if we were in the top row, she would have mounted me, but alas, we were in the middle. Oh well, wasn't crowded, the movie stunk, and we were horny. We still smile about it 7 years later.

Otherwise, some toy play and role playing is about it. (Hmm, I wonder when "Danielle" is coming for another visit?)