I'm really not sure, but I thought this was also referred to as same room sex or light swinging. No matter what the name, the concept does sound very interesting. I'm certain that perhaps wondering what it would be like to see my wife with another man is one thing, and actually witnessing it is something else.

The same room thing though raises a great many thoughts. Some time ago my wife and I shared a motel room with some good friends and we went back to the room before our friends who opted to continuing partying. By the time our friends returned to the room we were quite involved in some under the blanket foreplay. Once we believed our friends were asleep, we quietly finished. It was kind of hot thinking that we did this in the same room as our friends without them knowing. Once my wife thought that our friends knew (which they didn't) she confessed. Now it is kind of hot knowing that they know.

Alas our day where we may have the opportunity to do this MGS are likely gone. If you and your wife are both interested and able I hope you go for it. Life seems too short.

BTW, a google for "Monogamous group sex" returns this thread at number 3. :thumbsup:

Hehe, we've done that too. :love: The first time was with a friend of ours asleep on the other side of the room, another was when my cousin was staying with us in a hotel room in the other double bed... things like that get us very hot. ;) But yeah, we wait for them to start snoring before we try anything. :lol:

And there will certainly be aromas and alien pheromones. I like those, mostly.:thumbsup:

Later...not always.

By general consensus, the term "same room sex" refers to two or more couples that swap partners, but ALWAYS have sex in the same room. Some swingers actually go to separate rooms to have sex.
Also, "light swinging" and "soft swap" are used interchangeably and refer to swinging where the sexual interaction with someone else only involves oral sex.


And in reference to PsychoDad's post, Crystal and I have done a similar thing. We were best friends with another couple when we lived in Orlando. One weekend the 4 of us headed up to Daytona Beach to take like a mini vacation. To save money we split the cost of a single room with two queen sized beds. Needless to say, vacationing at that time consisted of heavy drinking and dancing. We all wound up driving down Beach street with both ladies deciding to strip down naked and moon/flash passing motorists. It was pretty funny really. Well we finally wound up back at the hotel, and both of the girls just walked right up to the room naked as the day they were born, laughing and cracking up. We got into the room, and Crystal proceeded to start stripping off my clothes. Her friend and her friends boyfriend just started kissing in their bed. Of course I STILL to this day get turned on just seeing my wife naked, so we started making out pretty heavily under the covers. Next thing we knew, Crystal's friend pulled the covers off, and neither of us being shy, continued what we were doing. Eventually we started going further, and her friend brought out the video camera we had brought, and started filming us. We must have made love for about 30 minutes before the 'happy ending'. We looked over, and her friend had started going down on her boyfriend, so we took up the camera and decided to return the favour. For the next 30 minutes or so we watched/ filmed them. At no time did any of us try to get involved with the others, but I was VERY hott watching and being watched. To this day we STILL have a copy of the video, and watch it from time to time. We are still great friends with the other couple, even though we live an hour apart now, but we never have tried to do this again, but there has been some interesting flirting going on upon occasion between Crystal and her friend.

Thanks. That makes perfect sense.

Another site that I'm on (aside from the other two swing sites already mentioned) is Swing Lifestyle. There are clubs everywhere, you just need to know where to look, and you can just go and have sex with the one you came with. There are all sorts of rooms for every different desire, and people willing to accommodate said desires if so needed. The club in San Francisco that I went to and enjoyed is Power Exchange... their website may be able to help you find clubs in your area as well.