What this forum needs... SEX FANTASIES!

[Halx]

I'll be honest. When I get home tonight, I want to read this thread and get aroused. I want everyone who reads it to start rubbing their loins. So do your best!

Everyone's got tons of sexual fantasies. Fantasies are not always possible to achieve, but they are super-hot to think about. I want you to share one.

I'll start off with a rather odd one of mine, just to get the crazy stigma out of the way. This fantasy is impossible, but the idea of it is really hot to me.

I like my body and all of its little (and big) features. I am the only man I find sexually attractive. I have this fantasy where I am on my knees, sucking myself off. I, being myself, would know exactly what to do, where to lick, where to rub, how to stroke, how to suck. I'm sure the other me would be totally in heaven.

Now, in the past, I've *tried* to come on my own face before. I'll let you imagine the circumstances and positioning, but I'll just say that everything about it was unpleasant. I'm almost certain, though, that being on my knees, doing this to *myself* and knowing exactly how to pleasure, I would enjoy just that. I'd make myself come on my face.

A lot of fantasies are about receiving pleasure, but I like this one 'cause its about giving pleasure and knowing exactly how to do it. Of course it'll never happen, but I dig it anyways.

Lets hear your fantasies - normal or not!

[surferlove007]

I've always had fantasies about a rape-like sex (except not rape of course!)...sounds kind of perverse but...
Where he comes in unexpected, grabs and pushes me against the wall and starts ripping my clothes off exposing my body and just has his way with me wherever, the wall, the floor, basically dominating me completely. Handcuffs or ropes could be included, hot hot hot...

Another one, I'm a big fan of shower sex.
Imagine A much larger shower stall , imagine a 5' x 7' rectangular box with mirrors. The water would be coming out from the ceiling and several sides, making it appear almost like waterfall, there would be a waterproof piece of furniture inside.To go inside with a guy and just have a good romp session would be hot, water everywhere, steam.
The floor wouldn't be tile, it would be heated carpetting of that sort so your knees/feet didn't get scratched up. Boxes for candles would be imbedded in the mirrors in the walls to allow illumination throughout.
Spot for a video camera to record inside also, hot. Special little waterproof doors would shield the objects from the water.
Sounds like heaven.
Makes me want to take a shower now :-p

[Halx]

Now that is hot. The rape thing is very pervasive... I know all too many women who just want to be... *handled.*

Now the shower thing is interesting. Gets me thinking about custom showers.

One thing that really gets me going is sweat. Any hint of moist, shiny skin and I am in full gear. One of the common fantasies I have in my head involve trying to grasp my girl by her hips, and my hands are slipping all over because she's working up a good sweat as we're fucking like mad. Oh, and do I love it when it does happen. Thats one of the reasons why I keep my room almost sweltering hot.

[Shauk]

I may be bordering on "not contributing" here.


but just having any kind of sex at this point would be nice.


just saying....

keep it up guys, haha.

[Toaster126]

Originally Posted by Halx

Now that is hot. The rape thing isn't very pervasive... I know all too many women who just want to be... *handled.*

Did you mistype here? Play rape (for lack of a better term) is one of the most common female fantasies I've heard / read about in my Human Sexuality psych course.

Unfortunately I don't have any sex fantasies except meeting someone who is single, sane, and sexy. Two out of three simply isn't good enough for me.

[Halx]

You are correct - that was a typo.

[Frosstbyte]

My girlfriend and I have had EXTENSIVE discussions about what our perfect shower would be, but I think I'll have to take some inspiration from ghoast's description of her dream shower, too. I think what would be absolutely ideal would be to have a large shower space-5x7 seems delightful that has two walls that are actually walls made of a smooth black stone and have the other two walls be glass. In some crazy ideal world, they'd be a glass that you can change the darkness of-from perfectly clear to totally opaque and the insides of the glass would be a 50% mirror. So you could see something of a reflection when the glass was clear, but when you made the glass dark, the reflection would be much more prominent. Very cool idea to put a video camera and candle holders in the wall. I'm not totally sure what to do with the tile/carpet problem.

To accompany the shower, of course, we'd require a very large tub. It's not exactly a sex fantasy, but taking a hot bubble bath with one's SO is a truly delightful experience at the end of a long day and often leads to blissfully slow sex afterwards.

I have unintentionally come on my face several times. Not totally covered but I've had the first or second spray hit me. Always comes as something of a shock, but my girlfriend likes to laugh at me about it.

My current fantasy is to get to take pictures of my girlfriend. She would spend the whole night dressing up and posing for me and we'd round it out with some action videos. Fortunately, my girl loves her lingerie, so there's tons of material. Too bad it's finals time. Can't wait until January.

[hotandheavy]

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[FallenAvatar]

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WOW.
You've got yourself some good ideas up there. I've got a few but I'm much too tired to write them right now. I will do it tomorrow.

[abaya]

Just wanted to say that hot, steamy, slow-and-sensual shower sex is AWESOME. Even in my old-fashioned, tiny bathtub... we had one HOT session in the shower, a while back. Seriously incredible. I can't wait until we have a decent bathtub and try all kinds of sexiness while naked and wet... Damn, got me thinking, now...

[Moskie]

my fucking god, I started to write this, and it wouldn't stop. this is probably way too long. but i wanted to get everything in there. It'll help me for when it actually happens.

I've had this elaborate fantasy in my head for a few months now. Writing it out should be fun. It involves a girl who I've been involved with recently. I've done bits and pieces of this fantasy to her before, but nothing as elaborate as what I'm going to describe. I had full intentions of doing this to her, but, well... the situation has changed. Anyway, here it goes.

It starts as we come back to my place after a night out, perhaps from a night of dancing at a local goth club. We've been flirting all night, each of us eagerly anticipating a night of passionate sex. After we get into my apartment, I pull her close and kiss her. I pull my lips away, move them slowly to her ear, and tell her, "I'm going to go into my bedroom, and count to 20. When I come back, I want you in nothing but your panties, sitting on my couch." Without saying another word, I let her go, and walk into my bedroom.

Even though I say I would give her twenty seconds, I wait longer. Perhaps a couple minutes.

I walk into the living room, holding a blindfold. I see her wearing her bra and panties, sitting in the middle of the couch, looking innocent and perhaps a little reluctant. I lean down, kiss her for second, then pinch her nipple very hard through her bra. She winces, grits her teeth and breathes a bit unsteady from the sensation, and I tell her, "I said nothing but your panties. You still have your bra on. Take it off." She waits a moment, then slowly reaches behind her back, and unfastens it. I help her remove it, and set it aside. I then put the blindfold over her eyes.

Then, she listens. She hears me walk to the kitchen, open a drawer, and pull something out. I walk back into the living room. She hears me strike a match. Using the matches I got from the drawer, I light candles in my apartment. They'll be used later.

I then walk back into my bedroom. She hears me open a drawer in my dresser. I shift things around inside it, looking for what I need. She hears the metal on metal clinking, what a chain might sound like. I walk out of my room, and set my things next to the couch.

Then she hears me walk close to her. She thinks I'm going to touch her, but instead, she hears me start to clear things off the coffee table, which is directly in front of the couch, and her. I set aside whatever was on it, then she hears the table slide along the carpet as I move it to the center of the room.

I go close to her, put her hand in mine, and tell her to stand up. I guide her to the coffee table in the middle of the room. I tell her to lay down, face first, on the coffee table. I hold her hand and help her lay down. She breathes in deep as the cold wood of the table touches her stomach, her chest and her breasts.

She hears me go to what I set beside the couch and pick something up. I go back to her, and begin to put something on her wrists. Restraints. I then get a rope, which I lace through the hoops on the restraints, and underneath the face of the coffee table, where I tie it to keep her arms in place.

I then straddle her, and sit on her ass. I begin to rub her lower back, lightly at first, gradually more intense. Slowly, I make my way up the back of her ribs. Then to her shoulder blades, and finally her shoulders and neck. This gets her very aroused, as I know exactly how she likes to be touched. I lean in as I rub, so she can feel my breath on her back. As I get up to her neck, I slowly and deliberately get a firm grip on her hair. I pull it back, slowly, forcing her to raise her head and arch her back. I reach my other hand around to the front of her neck, and begin to rub and squeeze her throat, choking her slightly. I've pulled her up so far, that she feels my mouth very close to her ear, my lips barely grazing it. The hair pulling, the slight choking, and my lips on her ear are getting her extremely wet.

I go through these motions for around twenty minutes. She's so aroused, she can't think straight. I stop rubbing her, give a kiss on the middle of her back, and stand up. I begin to rub her ass, and down the back of her thighs. I spread her ass as I work my way down. My hand occasionally grazes between her legs, on her thong covering her pussy.

From time to time, she feels the flat of my hand rubbing one of her ass cheeks, in small, slow circles. My hand pauses for a moment, then I quickly raise my hand, and spank her. I occasionally reach up to get another firm grip on her hair, make her raise her head and arch her back again, and spank her more. This goes on until both her ass cheeks are good and red.

Now I go to my pile of toys, and get my whip. It's small, with many thin laces. I run the edges of the laces down the middle of her back, along the crack of her ass, between her legs. I suddenly pull it back, and give her a solid hit on the back with the whip. Not too hard, but it surprises her. I pause, let her take the sensation, and rub the edges along her back again. I keep this cycle going for a while, until I begin to whip her again and again, one after the other. Not too hard, but it stings just enough.

Next, I undo the ropes, and tell her to flip over. She does so, and I refasten the ropes together. I straddle her again. Her arms restrained at her side, I begin to rub her hips, and run my fingers along her stomach. The sides of her tits. And her nipples.... which are incredibly sensitive. I stop my fingers on one of them, and pinch. Hard. I let go, and give her a moment to recover. I begin the cycle of grazing my fingers along her body, then pinching her nipples, then letting go. I pull them. I twist them. I know her body so well, that I know exactly how far I can go. She finds this immensely erotic, and her pussy is dripping. She has to crane her blindfolded head to the side and bite her bottom lip to contain herself.

I get up again. She hears me walk to the side of the room where the candles are. They've been burning long enough to have a good amount of hot wax in them. I pick one of the candles up and walk back to her. She's breathing pretty heavy, her heart is racing. With my free hand, I gently use my fingers to rub her inner thigh and the outside of her pussy, over her underwear. After a minute, I drip a bit of hot wax onto the middle of her chest. It catches her by surprise, and she gasps, pulling at her restraints, pointing her tits in the air. I continue to gently rub her pussy. I drip more wax on her stomach. Her tits. Her nipples.

Then, I stop. I kiss her on her lips. I take the wrist restraints off her, then the blindfold. I help her stand up. I get her clothes for her. I tell her, "Get your clothes on, and go home." I sit in another chair, and watch her. She's dumbfounded, but she gets dressed. When she's dressed, I go to the door, open it, and wait for her to leave. She does so, and goes home, skin covered in wax underneath her clothes, with a very wet pussy.

[mixedmedia]

Mmmmmm, very nice, Moskie...very, very nice...

Like ghoastgirl said earlier, Halx coined and Moskie elaborated on so well just above...most of my fantasies involve being "handled" in some way...not rape per se, because I am always willing. I consider myself sexually very submissive, but not quite so in other areas of my life. And I do think that's very common among women. Perhaps it has something to do with needing to give up control in some areas of our lives. But I can remember having these thoughts and fantasies for almost as long as I can remember. I seriously think Star Trek corrupted me. Even though it stresses the equality of women in many ways, especially in work roles, take note of the way Kirk "handles" women. Or Khan...I can still remember way back when when I first saw the episode of Star Trek where Khan manipulates that historian chick into helping him take over the Enterprise with his display of erotic dominance. Yes, it is all Gene Roddenberry's fault. Not that I'm complaining mind you...

Guess that's not a fantasy really, just me rambling again...I promise to contribute a real fantasy soon.

[World's King]

Mine very simply involves a 19 year old blonde girl, my closet, and a cage... I want a pet.

[mixedmedia]

I have two kinds of fantasies. Fantasies I would like to live out (and have)...such as the previous one I mentioned. And those I would not.

One of my fantasies that I don't think I would ever want to be real is the thought of having spontaneous sex with a total stranger. That's pretty common, too, especially in porn. It doesn't appeal to me in "real life," but it recurs very often in my fantasies. And sometimes, going about my life, I will see a man that I picture myself engaging in quite an indelicate, spur of the moment bout of insuppressible fucking - it has nothing to do with looks...it's just an unanticipated impulse. I've always heard that men do this alot. I'd be interested to hear if many other women do this, too.

[Deltona Couple]

My most recent thoughts/fantasies involves me, my wife, Sweetpea, Calilivchick, Sugahbritches, and xxsquirtxx.....I don't even think I need to explain....lol.

[cadre]

Originally Posted by mixedmedia

One of my fantasies that I don't think I would ever want to be real is the thought of having spontaneous sex with a total stranger. That's pretty common, too, especially in porn. It doesn't appeal to me in "real life," but it recurs very often in my fantasies. And sometimes, going about my life, I will see a man that I picture myself engaging in quite an indelicate, spur of the moment bout of insuppressible fucking - it has nothing to do with looks...it's just an unanticipated impulse. I've always heard that men do this alot. I'd be interested to hear if many other women do this, too.

I have these thoughts too, you are not alone. Usually it's not so much of a fantasy as just a passing thought.


I'll be back to contribute fantasies when I get more time.

[analog]

Originally Posted by mixedmedia

And sometimes, going about my life, I will see a man that I picture myself engaging in quite an indelicate, spur of the moment bout of insuppressible fucking - it has nothing to do with looks...it's just an unanticipated impulse. I've always heard that men do this alot.

Most men (and by "most", i'm accounting for gay men, and men so whipped by their women that they can't even look at other women) don't see a hot chick and think "DAMN I bet she could really help me with some interior decoration!" ... we see a hot chick and imagine sexual activity with her. I think it's safe to say that "do this a lot" is an understatement. lol

[Konichiwaneko]

All I need is a kiss on the neck, beautiful eyes, and the smell of shampoo on her soft scalp and my fantasies are suited.

tall girl sex also for the win!

Been with pretty much all you want to be with, but the best is 5'10" plus!

[mixedmedia]

Originally Posted by cadre

I have these thoughts too, you are not alone. Usually it's not so much of a fantasy as just a passing thought.

Right! And I've yet to discover a rhyme or reason for when it happens.

Originally Posted by analog

Most men (and by "most", i'm accounting for gay men, and men so whipped by their women that they can't even look at other women) don't see a hot chick and think "DAMN I bet she could really help me with some interior decoration!" ... we see a hot chick and imagine sexual activity with her. I think it's safe to say that "do this a lot" is an understatement. lol

So do you never imagine sex with women that you don't find particularly "attractive"? I only ask because, for me, I have these thoughts about all sorts of men...different ages, races, lifestyles, livelihoods...including men that I don't find attractive. Maybe it's just different for women.

[Jozrael]

Nope, it's for just random people at once. At times, you catch yourself like...did I -really- just think that about that person?

But it's normal. You don't need to be attracted.

I've heard (just hearsay) that the average male thinks about sex about once every 4 seconds and the average female once every 17. There aren't -that- many attractive people out there, so either we're focusing on the same ones repeatedly or pretty much whoever happens to be in front of us when the thought crosses our mind.

[kramus]

This is the text of one of the first emails I sent my lady back in September of '05, before we ever met, or even spoke on the phone - sort of an introduction if you will I think this was the ice-breaker. I sent her a couple more, and then real-life took over and I just don't spend my time doing this any more. But it sure was fun. And such a positive reaction

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You are beautiful in the soft light of the candles. Their subtle scent almost masks your own musky arousal. Laying supine, a pillow beneath your rounded hips, arms above your head, you watch me kneel at your feet. My own chest is tight. I feel the cool night breeze on my naked body as I throb with a hard passion. The presence of you ready to my hand. Your flesh clear and sweet calling for me to surge forward and take you. I will do so when I have done tasting you. And you are already stirring - your belly taut with need.
"Oh beautiful woman," I say aloud, eating you with my eyes. I take your right calf in my one hand and brush your left with the back of my other. You sigh aloud through parted lips as you draw up your legs slightly, opening yourself further to my regard. I move forward and look again upon the length of you. Your tight nipples call for my caress. Your exposed, tender throat stretched as you turn your head from side to side is leading my mind to possible futures to explore. I hear you swallow and my breath escapes me in a rush as I grip myself in tenuous composure. Not yet the knowledge of your questing mouth. I can restrain myself awhile yet.
Taking your ankle and turning your leg further I cup the calf with my right hand. The quiet play of light and shadow make mysteries I want to delve into. Smoothing the rich skin I grip more firmly. Thumb pressing in the hollow beneath your knee I lean forward, my face a hairsbreadth separate from you, and draw your scent deeply into me as I inhale - then let air puff out my open mouth to touch the cool space of your lower thigh. Goosebumps pebble along your thighs, your upper arms, as you stir your hips in questing need. I put my cheek against the sweetness of that length and let my short, soft hair caress you.
Gentle rows of kisses lead up to your centre as I hold your legs still further apart. You reach to grip my head as you raise your own to watch. Your lips are parted, full, ripe with desire. They feel dry and hungry to you and you lick them with a tongue thickened and heavy. You want to pull me towards you but I kneel upright again.
"Not yet, I want you to hold your breasts for me now." I say in a low, hoarse voice. I take your wrists and put your hands to your breasts. You brush your nipples with the tips of your fingers, and thrill down to your core from the touch.Your need is rising to almost unbearable heights. I look into your eyes, dark and liquid. You find my own deep blue eyes draw you inwards. You are losing sense of place. We are joining in a manner beneath thought, beyond reason, linking with mutual knowledge of ecstasy yet to complete. You see the weight of my shoulders - you have felt the undeniable strength in my hands, and yet all you really have had of me is my exquisite, knowing touch on your leg and thigh. My cock is upright and pulsing with my heartbeat. A gleaming droplet catches the candlelight and holds your eye. You know how I want you. You wonder at my restraint. You will soon stop wondering. Awareness of this heats your belly and leaves you with a demanding hunger. You squeeze your breasts tightly and the hard nipples react to your fingernails as you grip yourself. "Please" is the shape your mouth takes, a begging that empties my mind of reason for a moment. Now I kneel with the tops of my thighs propping your own up. The cool curve of your buttocks soon warming against my knees as I again draw in the sight of you.
Running my hands down the flesh of your inner thighs I knead the length of muscle - pushing the heels of my palms into their tender contours and lightly raking my nails back up them again. This is a time where all sensation runs together. You are now moaning with each exhale, gasping with each inhale. Your pupils are enormous in the intimate light that collects around you. You are amazing. You are ready. You are need. And I am there, with hands and eyes upon you. Breathing with you.
Peripherally aware of your smell, your texture and your movement I hear the soft moist sound of your slit as your lower lips swell out and ripen in their helpless response, as you stir your ass against my knees in mute entreaty.
For the first time I touch more than your legs and wrists. With a slow circular motion I smooth the curve of your belly. It jumps to my touch. I reach further around and rest my palms against your hips. Pressing inwards slightly and cupping my hands I feel the bone and flesh of you move. Thumbs aligned along your abdomen I lower my head and kiss your belly. I look again into your eyes. You are all heated need. I am trembling. I lower my face to you and breathe in your scent. Wiping my cheeks against your tender thighs and belly I cup your one thigh with one hand and place the other directly on your mons. I press down and squeeze it lightly, my eyes inches away from your vagina. As I press the pad of your womanhood upwards I see your slit open and the tip of your clitoris peek out. It will not be much longer now. You are almost crying out with need at this point. I adjust my hold on your thigh and as I squeeze again the flesh of your slit opens up exposing your vagina to me. It is damp, and the juices have run down past the bud of your anus to make a darkened stain on the pillow you are rocking on.
This is when I pool my tongue with saliva and in one smooth movement draw it up the length of your ass to above your clitoris. You buck with the surge of unexpected, complete sensation. The pit of your belly is a deep pool of surging currents. As I completely spread you and cup your ass you are beginning the series of orgasms that will wring you for an endless time. I am kissing and nibbling your pussy lips while you cry out. The wet pad of my thumb strokes the tender bud of your ass as I press your mons downwards. You are clutching your breasts. We are now into the next level.
There will be more to come.

[robot_parade]

Ok, I'll play. This is fairly mundane, but I've always wanted to have a girl give me head while having breasts rubbed in my face. Since this would obviously require two girls, I'm sure I could think of other things to do with them, too. ;-)

[mixedmedia]

Originally Posted by robot_parade

Ok, I'll play. This is fairly mundane, but I've always wanted to have a girl give me head while having breasts rubbed in my face. Since this would obviously require two girls, I'm sure I could think of other things to do with them, too. ;-)

Oh! This reminds me, I have very often had fantasies about being with two guys. But this is another one that I just don't feel like I would enjoy that much in real life. I dunno, I'm kind of on the cusp with that one...

Which also brings to mind, do men have fantasies that only seem really hot in their minds? Or is virtually everything you fantasize about just a reality waiting to happen?

[Seaver]

do men have fantasies that only seem really hot in their minds? Or is virtually everything you fantasize about just a reality waiting to happen?

I think that seeing my girlfriend having sex with another man is hot in my mind, but I'm sure there's no way I'd let it actually happen.

[IT2002]

Yes, guys love the stranger sex! Or at least this guy does.

My fantasy? I would meet a couple women that are good friends with each other. A big winter storm hits while we are out having drinks and I can't make it home. They invite me over to stay at their place. I accept. We have some small talk and laughs before we all decide it is time to go to bed. I fall asleep on the Lazy-boy recliner.

Next thing I know am awoken to kisses on my chest and my manhood at the same time. I open my eyes and say, "Hello!" The first lady puts her fingers on my lips and says, "Shhhhhh!" and smiles coyly at me. I nod in understanding and smile like I have won the lottery. We spend the next few hours pleasing each other over and over in many various ways, without saying a word, as they aren't needed.

Or if you don't like that one,

A nymphomaniac billionare who worships the ground I walk on.

[Willravel]

Eating an entire tube of Original Pringles and then goin to sleep. Oh yeah, that's the stuff.

[IT2002]

Originally Posted by mixedmedia

Right! And I've yet to discover a rhyme or reason for when it happens.

It happens to me because I have a penis.

Originally Posted by mixedmedia

So do you never imagine sex with women that you don't find particularly "attractive"? I only ask because, for me, I have these thoughts about all sorts of men...different ages, races, lifestyles, livelihoods...including men that I don't find attractive. Maybe it's just different for women.

I do. I think Ron White hit it right on the head with his comedy routine about seeing women's breasts. "If you've seen one set of breasts, you want to see them all."

Originally Posted by mixedmedia

Oh! This reminds me, I have very often had fantasies about being with two guys. But this is another one that I just don't feel like I would enjoy that much in real life. I dunno, I'm kind of on the cusp with that one...

Do you want the guys to be bisexual or only focused on you?

Originally Posted by mixedmedia

Which also brings to mind, do men have fantasies that only seem really hot in their minds? Or is virtually everything you fantasize about just a reality waiting to happen?

I am not sure what you mean by this. Are you asking if they only fantasize about things that could possibly happen? If so, I would say that we do fantasize about impossibilities. Whether it be twin sisters, mother/daughter(of age), or other taboos of the oedipus nature. If you can think of it, it is on the internet. Nobody is admitting to visiting websites out there that are way out of society's boundaries. Somebody's keeping those websites running.

Or are you asking if we are delusional in thinking our fantasies actually could come true? If you are, the answer is yes.

[Wunderbar]

nevermind.

[mixedmedia]

Originally Posted by IT2002

It happens to me because I have a penis.

precious


*snip*

Do you want the guys to be bisexual or only focused on you?

Uhhhh...I never considered that. I don't think it would bother me...and it's kind of hot now that I think about it.

That's like a whole 'nother fantasy. I must...dwell on it a little.

I am not sure what you mean by this. Are you asking if they only fantasize about things that could possibly happen? If so, I would say that we do fantasize about impossibilities. Whether it be twin sisters, mother/daughter(of age), or other taboos of the oedipus nature. If you can think of it, it is on the internet. Nobody is admitting to visiting websites out there that are way out of society's boundaries. Somebody's keeping those websites running.

Or are you asking if we are delusional in thinking our fantasies actually could come true? If you are, the answer is yes.

No, I'm just asking if you fantasize about things that you wouldn't want to really happen, whether it is taboo or not.

[TH12]

Mixed Media: Yes, I phatasize about things I wouldn't really want, and probably wouldn't enjoy in reality. Mostly, I fantasize about dominating a woman, usually including spanking, and anal sex. But I know that truly loving relationships need equality, and I know that G*d loves His daughters as much or more than His sons, so I don't think I'd really be comfortable taking away my lover's freedom by dominating games. And I know that anal sex isn't half what my fantasies about it are, just a tiny bit tighter and a nice variation. But in my fantasy life, anal is SO HOT! I think because a women really has to surrender to invite her man into her back door. I confess to really enjoying the way women surrender to sex. Surrender is a part of a woman's sexual experience to some degree, and so "taking her" is a part of a man's. Only I get off on it like a power trip. My wife and my ex were both strong women, and I don't feel that I dominated them in reality, except maybe that little surrender in sex. So that power over the pussy king of scene is my fantasy.

[mixedmedia]

Originally Posted by TH12

Mixed Media: Yes, I phatasize about things I wouldn't really want, and probably wouldn't enjoy in reality. Mostly, I fantasize about dominating a woman, usually including spanking, and anal sex. But I know that truly loving relationships need equality, and I know that G*d loves His daughters as much or more than His sons, so I don't think I'd really be comfortable taking away my lover's freedom by dominating games. And I know that anal sex isn't half what my fantasies about it are, just a tiny bit tighter and a nice variation. But in my fantasy life, anal is SO HOT! I think because a women really has to surrender to invite her man into her back door. I confess to really enjoying the way women surrender to sex. Surrender is a part of a woman's sexual experience to some degree, and so "taking her" is a part of a man's. Only I get off on it like a power trip. My wife and my ex were both strong women, and I don't feel that I dominated them in reality, except maybe that little surrender in sex. So that power over the pussy king of scene is my fantasy.

Well, if your lover wanted to play those games, too, then you may find you like to play domination games. It's all in fun and, of course, your lover wouldn't really be giving up her freedom. Albeit, there are folks who enjoy taking it much further, as well, and if it is consensual then more power to them. Sharing that kind of intimacy can be very empowering to both of you and to your relationship.

And anal sex is very hot, dude. And not really uncommon or taboo. If you want to try it, talk to her about it. She may be interested, too.

As long as you have a good grasp of where your partner's boundaries are when it comes to D/s sexual activities you can both have a lot of fun with it.

I feel like I'm taking this thread off-track...sorry.

[hotandheavy]

I fantasize about. Always. I can weave an erotic story very quickly if I see an interesting man. Sometimes the scenario stays with me all day, and by bedtime, I've got all I need to rock my husband's world.

Thank god no one has developed the ability to read minds yet. can you imagine?

[abaya]

Originally Posted by kramus

This is the text of one of the first emails I sent my lady back in September of '05

KRAMUS... Oh, holy fuck... that is the hottest thing I've read in a while. I get off on words VERY easily. Keep it coming, man. Don't make us wait!!!

Originally Posted by TH12

Mostly, I fantasize about dominating a woman, usually including spanking, and anal sex. But I know that truly loving relationships need equality, and I know that G*d loves His daughters as much or more than His sons, so I don't think I'd really be comfortable taking away my lover's freedom by dominating games.

Do you really believe what you are saying? Has your wife (or pastor) told you this verbatim, or is this your own conviction? Because I'd have to say, brother, that anal sex and/or domination games have NOTHING to do with freedom (or being God's children, for that matter). It really comes down to the turn-on... what gets you hot, and what gets your wife hot. That is all there is to it. No morality needed... just two consenting adults. I guarantee you, if God made these bodies, he knew exactly what ALL the parts could be used for, and it would be a shame to not explore the possibilities. Just my opinion.

[Ourcrazymodern?]

The OP touched one of mine right on the head, and thank you very much!
Another one involves being in an unusually comfortable room surrounded by large numbers of unusually attractive people where anything goes. I feel inadequate for not being more expressive: Not one has any clothing and all of them want their turns with everybody else. No inhibitions, just a lot of insatiable lust. It might be a wish for that "collective ecstacy" thing.
And while this is a place I'd like to be, I don't know if I'd go there: I don't seem to have the fortitude to do whatever I'd like anymore.

[absorbentishe]

I'll add a little something to this. A three some, or four some, where all the attention is on my wife, and she is totally into it. That could be dudes and chicks, or dudes, or chicks, this sort of changes. Another is just watching my wife enjoy another man, pleasing her, making her feel special, etc. The final one is my wife having sex with someone else, and me not knowing about it. Her coming home, and telling me all about it, and then reliving it with me.

I guess I'm into the pleasure of my wife.

[MageB420666]

I have lots of fantasies, many of them would be impractical to actually do and some of them just flat out wrong... but thinking of them is fun.

I have actually been able to live out some of my fantasies, one of which was a three some with my girlfriend and one of her coworkers(male). It was pretty basic stuff, but watching another guy play with her and fuck her really got me going.... It especially got me going when she was sucking on his cock while I was fucking her. Too bad the guy had bad hygeine and apparently tasted really nasty(something she didn't let me know until after we left), that put a real damper on doing it again anytime soon, right now I'm still working on getting a threesome going on with another woman involved, something I definitly want to do before I die.

Most of my fantasies to involve taking a woman by force (something I would NEVER do in reality), many of which include lots of rope, lubricant, a fucking machine, butt plugs, candles, needles, and various strangers walking down the street. For some reason the idea of just being able to offer a woman to another man gets me going, must just be a power trip deal.

Originally Posted by World's King

Mine very simply involves a 19 year old blonde girl, my closet, and a cage... I want a pet.

Me too, except I want a red head and brunette too, for variation

[Gilda]

Golden age Hippolyta (Wonder Woman's mother) said it best: The only real happiness for anybody is to be found in obedience to loving authority.

My most intense fantasies tend to revolve around submission and bondage. I fantasize about being a full time sex slave to a loving mistress or couple, to be used for her/their pleasure at their discretion, to be told what to wear and when, what to do and when, and to be punished frequently and harshly, both physically and sexually for any kind of non-compliance.

TH12: As a woman who quite thoroughly enjoys submission, bondage, and is a bit of a sexual masochist, I can tell you that a good D/s relationship is about meeting the needs of both partners. It's OK to feel the way you do--there are many more women out there like me who do want their sexual partners to take a strong hand and enjoy being the object of exactly the type of relationship you describe. There's nothing disrespectful about indulging in activities you both enjoy, so long as it's fully consensual on both ends and you're careful to keep her needs in mind as well as yours.

[snowy]

I've been watching too much Scrubs lately, I fear.

My fantasies of late have been of subduing the mean Dr. Cox via my sexual wiles before finally giving in to his naturally dominating nature, my body shoved up against a glass window in the hospital where I can watch all the comings and goings of those below me.

It's even been happening in my dreams...so weird.

[mixedmedia]

Originally Posted by Gilda

Golden age Hippolyta (Wonder Woman's mother) said it best: The only real happiness for anybody is to be found in obedience to loving authority.*snip*

God, I love that.

When I was younger, I had trouble accepting the fact that I had these sorts of fantasies because I was raised with a strongly feminist ethic. But as I've grown older I've learned that they can easily co-exist. One has nothing to do with the other. Because it all starts with me and my desires, it is not being imposed on me. I found that all I had to do was accept it.

Nice post, Gilda.

[KellyC]

Wow...some of these fantasies are so elaborate and well thought out. Kudos to your imagination.

Mine are fairly simple and straight forward:

-Me sleeping, waking up to her sucking me off and then ride me as I'm half-sleep half-awake.

-Her sleeping, me doing her whilst she sleep. Maybe even put my cock in her mouth as she sucks me off while sleeping.

-Her doing chores around the house, then I sneak up behind her and just have my ways with her. To which she happily obliges, albeit very surprised. Say she's doing doing the dishes, I stealthily sneak behind her and quickly pull down her pants, rub her pussy for a little bit and then just fuck her right there in the kitchen.

-Me coming home. She waits for me at the door. Without saying a word, she unzips my pants and starts sucking me.

-Sex in the woods. Sex by the freeway with cars driving by. Underwater sex. Sex 30,000 ft in the air. Sex on a boat. Sex in a horse carriage in a winter wonderland. Sex in a cabin in the middle of the woods with snow falling down and animals outside peeking in.

-Sex while free-falling from the sky. This is impossible but hey....

-Sex in space!!! I wanna see what it's like to squirt on her face in zero gravity. I wanna see the splooge floating/flying in slow motion to her mouth. Now THAT'S hot!!