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WhenMuffinsAtak · 06-09-2003, 05:34 PM

Do women bleed when you break their hymen? I'm curious, something I should know but don't.

Tom Thumb · 06-09-2003, 07:00 PM

Usually. Not always.

Mr.Deflok · 06-09-2003, 09:13 PM

My first time was with someone who was a virgin, she bled. It was quite scary because I had kinda of kept oblivious to the finer details of the bleeding prior to having sex and she actually bled a fair amount. All in all after the bleeding what comes next is definately worth that moment of fear.

GoldenOuroboros · 06-10-2003, 04:16 AM

My girl was a horse rider and still is.. hehe.. So yeah no bleeding for her. But we were both still virgins. It was good, but bad.. but still good

rundmv · 06-10-2003, 07:00 AM

My first time was with a virgin. There was a noise when her hymen broke (kinda like when you break the airtight seal on a jar). There was some blood on me afterwards. I didn't see how bad she bled, I was too shy back then to look "down there".

Slims · 06-10-2003, 12:31 PM

If you are super gentle and take your time going in (like twenty minutes), and use lube if necessary, then you shouldn't hurt her, and it shouldn't bleed. At least not as long as she can use a tampon.

You just have to take enough time to stretch her out, and to get her to relax. Oh, and communication is key, have her tell you how she is feeling.

I took the virginity of one of my girlfriends. She had tried to have sex with someone else previously, several times, but it always hurt so bad she made them stop before any penetration was achieved. I didn't give up, and I went so slow that it didn't hurt her at all.

Besides, if you don't hurt her, then you can have sex again right away. And again, etc.

*Nikki* · 06-10-2003, 12:55 PM

I didn't.

Wait.....I am still a virgin

annie1 · 06-10-2003, 05:48 PM

i didnt bleed when i had sex the first time either

Conclamo Ludus · 06-10-2003, 06:56 PM

Hymen can be broken previously. I broke an ex in accidentally with just the digits I am typing with. We were both in a lot of shock over it. I was pretty young and totally unprepared for a vision like that. She saved the situation by pretending it was no big deal.
"Oops" I said.

gibber71 · 06-10-2003, 07:37 PM

The first time I had sex,I didn't break her hymen,but I almost broke both her legs.Does that count?

miykael · 06-10-2003, 07:55 PM

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ludus: that's hilarious. =)
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oscar0308 · 06-12-2003, 04:57 AM

i've been with 2 virgins and neither bled. i think its a common misconception that a virgin has her hymen intact.

Sparhawk · 06-12-2003, 05:41 AM

Oops Indeed!

06-09-2003, 05:34 PM	#1 (permalink)
WhenMuffinsAtak Banned	The first time... Do women bleed when you break their hymen? I'm curious, something I should know but don't.

06-09-2003, 07:00 PM	#2 (permalink)
Tom Thumb Crazy Location: In a self portrait	Usually. Not always. __________________ My name is marketing. Now buy my product.

06-10-2003, 04:16 AM	#4 (permalink)
GoldenOuroboros The Cheshire Grin... Location: An Aussie Outback	My girl was a horse rider and still is.. hehe.. So yeah no bleeding for her. But we were both still virgins. It was good, but bad.. but still good __________________ Can you see me grin grin grrriiiiinnnning?!

06-10-2003, 12:31 PM	#6 (permalink)
Slims Eccentric insomniac Location: North Carolina	If you are super gentle and take your time going in (like twenty minutes), and use lube if necessary, then you shouldn't hurt her, and it shouldn't bleed. At least not as long as she can use a tampon. You just have to take enough time to stretch her out, and to get her to relax. Oh, and communication is key, have her tell you how she is feeling. I took the virginity of one of my girlfriends. She had tried to have sex with someone else previously, several times, but it always hurt so bad she made them stop before any penetration was achieved. I didn't give up, and I went so slow that it didn't hurt her at all. Besides, if you don't hurt her, then you can have sex again right away. And again, etc. __________________ "Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill "All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." Seven Pillars of Wisdom, T.E. Lawrence

06-10-2003, 06:56 PM	#9 (permalink)
Conclamo Ludus Modern Man Location: West Michigan	Hymen can be broken previously. I broke an ex in accidentally with just the digits I am typing with. We were both in a lot of shock over it. I was pretty young and totally unprepared for a vision like that. She saved the situation by pretending it was no big deal. "Oops" I said. __________________ Lord, have mercy on my wicked soul I wouldn't mistreat you baby, for my weight in gold. -Son House, Death Letter Blues

06-09-2003, 09:13 PM	#3 (permalink)
Mr.Deflok Blood + Fire Location: New Zealand	My first time was with someone who was a virgin, she bled. It was quite scary because I had kinda of kept oblivious to the finer details of the bleeding prior to having sex and she actually bled a fair amount. All in all after the bleeding what comes next is definately worth that moment of fear.

06-10-2003, 07:00 AM	#5 (permalink)
rundmv Insane	My first time was with a virgin. There was a noise when her hymen broke (kinda like when you break the airtight seal on a jar). There was some blood on me afterwards. I didn't see how bad she bled, I was too shy back then to look "down there".

06-10-2003, 12:55 PM	#7 (permalink)
Nikki ~~~~~~~ Location: Charleston, SC	I didn't. Wait.....I am still a virgin

06-10-2003, 05:48 PM	#8 (permalink)
annie1 Insane	i didnt bleed when i had sex the first time either

06-10-2003, 07:37 PM	#10 (permalink)
gibber71 Loser	The first time I had sex,I didn't break her hymen,but I almost broke both her legs.Does that count? Last edited by gibber71; 06-10-2003 at 07:39 PM..

06-10-2003, 07:55 PM	#11 (permalink)
miykael Upright	. ludus: that's hilarious. =) . __________________ . l i m m u w d .

06-12-2003, 04:57 AM	#12 (permalink)
oscar0308 Crazy Location: New England	i've been with 2 virgins and neither bled. i think its a common misconception that a virgin has her hymen intact.

06-12-2003, 05:41 AM	#13 (permalink)
Sparhawk Dubya Location: VA	Oops Indeed! __________________ "In Iraq, no doubt about it, it's tough. It's hard work. It's incredibly hard. It's - and it's hard work. I understand how hard it is. I get the casualty reports every day. I see on the TV screens how hard it is. But it's necessary work. We're making progress. It is hard work."