mbchills

I jerk off about once, maybe twice a day. i have a high sex drive so i figure it's normal. but i'm curious..

has anyone stopped? i'm curious what happens, i'm sure the first week or two are hell, but what about after?

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goddess_otu

Supply and demand, my friend. If you do it less, you'll need to do it less.

ratbastid

Why bother quitting? It's perfectly normal. If it's not interfering with anything else... go get 'em.

Sweetpea

I tried stopping... it lasted about 2 days and then I broke down. I only stopped to see how long i could go without...

I wouldn't worry about it. It's part of a healthy life, enjoy.

sweetpea

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DaElf

I have also tried stopping because I was lasting too long in bed and I was getting irritated with the 2 hour sex sessions but I still can't (dont want to? ) stop.

Charlatan

We had a competition on here a few years ago to see who could stop masturbating and for how long. You were allowed to have sex just not masturbate... I think it was Phred Green's idea and that being if you didn't masturbate, you would have more intense sex.

I think I lasted something like three or four months before I gave in...

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SugahBritches

Well, I never did it until a few years ago! LMAO! However, I find that when I need to, I do. And if the boss ain't in the mood, I gotta have release somehow.

Now, if we had a contest, I'd last longer than Charlatan. For as long as the boss will give it up at least a few times a week, I can go a long while. I think it's only because I don't really have to do it, it's just something I like to do.

Gonth

I've gone 3 months before. Like goddess said, as much as I did it before and after that, usually once a day, it didn't even occur to me that I was missing anything. I could stop now and after a week or so I probably wouldn't even think about it.

Not that I'm going to. ^_^ wwwaaayyyy to much fun.

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Dilbert1234567

yeah... i lasted about 16 hours

seriously, its good for your heart

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I think I'd have better luck giving up oxygen.

Lady Sage

I usually only do it to get rid of a headache or to help myself sleep... since I have been off hormones however my sex drive has kicked up a few notches and it seems like a good idea a few times a week...

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I agree...why stop? You dont want to get all backed up. Think of it as a "backup plan"

doncalypso

After two to three weeks your body will adjust to not masturbating so much and you'll be alright. But remember that the first two to three weeks are hell when you go cold turkey though. Trust me, I know this for personal experience.

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Deltona Couple

I tried to stop masturbating once...It was the worst 10 minutes of my life!

I say as long as it doens't interfer with your normal sex life, why worry about it?


Hey Sweetpea.....if you would like some help stopping, we would like to volunteer our assistance!

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Prince

I've never intentionally stopped. There are times when my sex drive is quite low, and I just don't do it, or if I am getting laid a lot (yeah...right). I'd never quit doing it on account of some religion or whathaveyou. Abstinence really has no value for me, once the cherry's popped.

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I quit maturbating about 5 or 6 times a week. It's no big deal. Usually, right after I cum. It's the best time to try and quit. Just clean up and then go do something else.

yabobo

Myolcoxsaflopin..... so I give it a tug or two once a day just
to see if there is any life in it!

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doncalypso

The longest I've ever gone without masturbation was two months---sixty days and sixty nights months without masturbation or sex.

It got really tough towards the end because I was so horny all the time that it interfered with my normal thought processes. Furthermore, I found out the hard way that "blue balls" really does exist, and it was painful for me to walk or sleep on my side because anytime my testicles hit my thighs it would be extremely painful.

Despite all the pain and discomfort, I'm trying to see how much farther I can push myself. I'm currently shooting for 90 days and 90 nights without any sex whatsoever, but I barely make it to 30 days before I give in and masturbate.

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Philangicality

I was reading about this earlier today.

You can masturbate too much.

This is from herballove.com

"Note: Masturbation is a healthy sexual behavior. Like other behaviors, when over practiced or addicted it can lead to both psychological and physiological imbalances.
The side effects of such changes to the body include:
Fatigue. Feeling tired all the time
Lower back pain
Stress / Anxiety
Thinning hair / Hair Loss
Soft / Weak Erection
Premature Ejaculation
Eye floaters or fuzzy vision
Groin / Testicular Pain
Pain or cramp in the pelvic cavity or/and tail bone"

Hope it helps.

There is also some test to fill out with age, health level, and number of times masturbating a week.

I put in my info and it said I am slightly over masturbated.

I know people are gonna say that it is natural, as long as you can do it do it... blah... blah... blah...

The truth is for me I have noticed after masturbating I am less motivated to do anything. I do not click as well with women after masturbating. In fact I snap at them sometimes for no reason at all.

I am not saying stop completely, but keep it under control. I'm shooting for about 3 times a week.

I did notice however when I did stop masturbating for like 3 weeks it was much easier for me to find women to get me off instead. Now they weren't quality people that I wanted to remain in my life, but I got my nut off and put it behind me, just like when I masturbated.

I also notice when I abstain from masturbation for a period, and then decide to start up again, I go overboard and have a slight addiction where all free alone time leads to masturbation.

In short I believe the key is to masturbate in moderation and at a regular interval. Not on a whim and whenever your mind tells you to do so.

Deltona Couple

Personally I would like to see the data they came up with and what kind of control they used. I masturbate pretty often, but hell, some of their listed "side-effects" I think come from the fact that I work my ass off every week, so THAT is why I am tired...lol

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Xera

why in the world would I ever want to quit masterbating? I think the longest I've ever done without was about 3 weeks after giving birth. I have an active sex life and an active masterbation level both.

I find that I am less irritable when I am having several orgasms a day.

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snowy

Agreed.

I think I need one right now.

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sasKuach

I agree with Deltona Couple. I used to crank one out before going out to a party or interacting with girls in order to "mellow myself out". Well, it works, but I just become a quiet, boring log. Motivation also goes out the window.

Recently, I aim for about once a week, but I'm experimenting with holding out longer to see the effects on my personality. It truly is a Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde scenario for me; I find myself a lot more sociable and funny when I it's been a couple of days.

Mainly, I just don't like to do it. For me, it's just settling.

digme

I went about a month one time. I was on vacation that whole time. The change in routine made it so I didn't even think about masturbating at first. One day it dawned on me that I hadn't since I left home, so I decided to go the whole vacation. Toward the end it was really difficult. Anything remotely sexual would get my mind racing.

MathGuru

I masturbate a lot when I'm away from my wife and much less so than when I'm at home... I just do it when I feel I need to, and that's the way it pans out usually. I'm a mathematician, so I'm surprised I haven't done a statistical analysis on it... but that's probably a good thing. It's a natural bodily function, guilt for which is completely unnecessary but all too common. Just do it, man. And for God's sake, don't stop... that's all we need is more men in the world who haven't properly vented their frustration! (I say that as a man... I know how cranky we get!)

bunny1321

I don't get why guys make this such a big deal. If you don't really want to quit then don't kid yourself and say you want to but can't. If you really wanted to stop and don't have a real problem you can with a little will power. Who wants to stop masturbating anyway?

Ourcrazymodern?

Thanks, bunny! Isn't masturbation between a person and theirself?

beavstrokinoff

I've stopped, but then I'd start again the next day. Now that I'm 40ish I can go 3-4 days without masturbating depending on how much sex I'm getting.

My question to you Mbchills is, "Why would you ever want to stop?"

bliss

when you stop youll experiance withdraw and whant to do lots more if you get past a month youll prabably get blue balls painfull or glued shetes or wet dreams thats natrall the sperm dosent last forever in you it needs to be relesed and replenish as time gos on without masterbating and sex lets say 3, 6monthes youll notice the fequency if blue balle or wet deams go down this is becuse your body thinkse it dosent need to produce as much as before and thats probably true p.s. relachiships with lovers shuld be based on anthing but sex, sex is just to express yous love to them not to get yours so if a relationship ends do to lack of sex it was no good to begin with.

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Best. Run-on. Sentence. Ever.

Martian

It makes me feel like I did when I still did drugs.

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FallenAvatar

This subject has come up around here numerous times. As stated above I know there was a contest for it. I didn't win. If you stop doing it eventually you will need to do it less.

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Tully Mars

I guess when Jerry Seinfeld approaches me and bets me whether I can be "master of my domain" longer then him, Kramer, Elaine and George I'd give it a shot. Until then I figure several times a week is going to continue.

And I'm with other's on this- why do you want to stop? I've had bad sex, was married to bad sex. Think it was her middle name, of course she didn't change it to that until ten years into the marriage. Would have been nice to know that, say, ten years prior. But I've never had a bad orgasm, ever.

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Milnoc

I was forced to stop masturbating when my doctor put me on Flomax to help expel a kidney stone. One of the drug's side-effects is retrograde ejaculation. The ejaculate would back up into the bladder instead of being expelled through the penis. And it HURTS! So I had to go cold turkey until I was finally off the drug.

It was one of the worst months of my life. And if I was in a relationship at the time, it would have been one of her worst months as well!

MathGuru is right about being cranky. You really do need to release it at your own rhythm. During that painful period of my life, any form of sexual stimulation was pure hell because I couldn't follow through with it!

levite

I have a very high sex drive, and when I am not in a relationship, I almost always crank one out on a daily basis. Even when I am in a relationship, I usually crank one out once a week or so. I couldn't imagine really quitting, or why I would want to.

When I was a bit younger-- mid-20s-- I did try quitting for about six weeks or so, in an experiment with a more ascetic form of Jewish observance. I found out that I am not at all made for asceticism, and that if I go for six weeks without giving the weasel a heimlich, I get unbelievably irritable, have trouble concentrating, can't stop thinking about sex (the dirtier the better), and end up walking around with a constant hard-on.

My uncle says, "If God didn't want you to jerk off, your hands would grow right out of your shoulders." I agree with him. Masturbation is awesome.

And as Woody Allen says, "Don't knock masturbation: it's sex with someone I love."

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Dude51

I'm currently on week 9 of no tugging. I did it as an experiment to see what would happen with my high sex drive. The wife knows what's going on and so far we've upped our frequency, but not kinkiness (she might be initiating more recently because she knows what's going on). Have I gotten noticibly more HJs and BJs just to relieve me? No. However, I've noticed that I'm always thinking about sex when around women at work or at parties. I have found myself taking more time for personal grooming as I think I'm using that as an outlet for my sexual energy.

Also, when my wife's not around in the evening, I find myself kinda lost because I used to use to schedule some ME time into my daily routine. Now, I find myself not knowing what to do (and not getting the daily routine done) and I'm thinking that if I just get it over with I can get on with doing something useful now that I've taken care of myself.

Am I more horny now? Yes.
Am I getting more sex? Slightly, yes.
Am I turned on by any random girl? Yes, which isn't necessarily a good thing.
Am I edgier and have a shorter temper? I think maybe.

Anyway, it's a weird experiment that may end when I go away for business. I don't want to be super horny while I'm away from the wife.

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awesome quote. back in 10 mins

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dlish

get a job. itd stop ya from spending the whole day looking at porn online

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Tully Mars

Meh, sounds like work.

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