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Milnoc 05-13-2008 03:45 AM

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Originally Posted by lotsofmagnets
awesome quote. back in 10 mins ;)

Why the rush? :D

lotsofmagnets 05-13-2008 03:46 AM

what can i say? i´m easily pleased :D

invalidiuser 05-14-2008 07:12 PM

I didn't read the whole thread but to answer your question as to how many times. It epends if my partner wants to give it up or not. Maybe twice or three times a week. Sex maybe twice or three if at that for real se.x. I know, sad that even when you have a partner your not able to tget as much action as I want.

cmc 05-14-2008 07:49 PM

A good topic MB --- hmm ... I've too have tried and unretired a number of times.

Once - I decided to use my left hand (I'm right handed of course) - but that
didn't work - I just felt like I was cheating on my self. For now - go for it !

ibis 05-18-2008 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by goddess_otu
Supply and demand, my friend. If you do it less, you'll need to do it less.

That has to be the stupidest thing I've heard in a long time.

Jampot 05-20-2008 07:42 AM

why would anyone not want to masturbate?

Halx 05-20-2008 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by ibis
That has to be the stupidest thing I've heard in a long time.

Hi. I see you've been here for a while. I would have hoped you could have GROWN UP in those 4 years. Please use mature communication skills when conversing on my site. Thank you.

ring 05-20-2008 10:48 AM

To build up at least a couple of days worth of Mojo.

Stopping for a spell can give your body (and mind)
a time to concentrate on other creative outlets.

A steady diet of anything can become tiresome.

Jenna 05-20-2008 10:53 AM

My boyfriend tried to stop before we met, he said he lasted about 2 weeks and then when he was taking a piss, it just came out... he said it as the biggest waste of an orgasm.

I could stop masturbating, but I don't want to! I do it probably on average, once a week, so not too often.

hunnychile 05-20-2008 01:58 PM

Quit?!! ARe you crazy - I'm just getting good at it!

Guys knew something wonderful & healthy that we girls should have learned in our early teens too!

BURFORD 09-22-2008 03:53 PM

Masturbating
 
ay do you reckon masturbating can make you go bald

Jozrael 09-22-2008 04:01 PM

...no.

curiousbear 09-22-2008 04:15 PM

I was 23. I was on a religious fasting getting ready for a pilgrimage. I was on abstinence for 52 days. Semen will just get out every 4 or 5 days. And once I even happen to orgasm with out any stimulation.

Coincidentally it was during the fast I met my girl. It is 9 years now.

Now a days I can hold it maximum 3 or 4 days.

BTW, you can avoid masturbation, but if you dont ejaculate often, its not good for your prostate!

Jozrael 09-22-2008 04:23 PM

I don't think there's a health effect whatsoever to masturbating/not masturbating. Sauce on the last statement?

dlish 09-22-2008 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by BURFORD (Post 2529812)
ay do you reckon masturbating can make you go bald

definately. the same way it makes you go blind.

most people here touch type on their keyboards

Anormalguy 09-22-2008 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Jozrael (Post 2529839)
I don't think there's a health effect whatsoever to masturbating/not masturbating. Sauce on the last statement?

I'm not motivated to search the net right now, but the medical data is out there. My urologist said that ejaculating at least 3-4 times a week helps to keep the male plumbing healthy. I forget the name of the gland in the testicles.

curiousbear 09-22-2008 09:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jozrael (Post 2529839)
I don't think there's a health effect whatsoever to masturbating/not masturbating. Sauce on the last statement?

I never said that. I said frequent ejaculation is good for the prostate.
-----Added 23/9/2008 at 01 : 23 : 21-----
Quote:

Originally Posted by Anormalguy (Post 2529929)
I'm not motivated to search the net right now, but the medical data is out there. My urologist said that ejaculating at least 3-4 times a week helps to keep the male plumbing healthy. I forget the name of the gland in the testicles.

That is right! It is the Prostate gland. It is not in the testicles, just a little near. This one produces the seminal fluid to carry sperms on the eternal voyage

Anormalguy 09-23-2008 09:01 AM

No, I don't mean the prostate gland.

Epididymitis - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

I had this in my left testicle, which is what lead to my hospitilization and care by a urologist. He told me that ejaculation about every other day keeps the epididymis "cleaned" out. In my case he suggested ejaculation several times a week as a way to help reduce the risk of re-infection.

There is another reason why he suggested regular ejaculation. My epididymitis left me with a tender spot on my left testicle, caused by scar tissue in the epididymis. It was rather awkward trying to tell the urologist that the tender spot hindered our (wife & I) foreplay because I love to have my nuts sucked hard & stretched (I'm lucky because my wife is happy to oblige!). He said that cumming regularily, either by having sex or masturbating, would help to ease some of the tenderness, & that we would have to learn just how much pressure I could handle before the pain became too great.

curiousbear 09-23-2008 12:31 PM

Thank you Anormalguy, I learnt something today

jorgelito 09-23-2008 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by dlish (Post 2529925)
definately. the same way it makes you go blind.

most people here touch type on their keyboards

What's a touch type keyboard? Do I need one too? Do they make one for Mac? :confused:

dlish 09-23-2008 05:02 PM

see.. poor jorge uses a voice recognition software to type for him.

hope they find a cure for u soon mate. or just quit floggin the log

Makedde 09-25-2008 02:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mbchills (Post 2140768)
I jerk off about once, maybe twice a day. i have a high sex drive so i figure it's normal. but i'm curious..

has anyone stopped? i'm curious what happens, i'm sure the first week or two are hell, but what about after?

I was always of the impression that one had to be in the mood for masturbation in order to enjoy it. That said, I masturbate perhaps once every two weeks, more in the week before I get my period - then I can do it perhaps twice a day or more!:eek:

curiousbear 09-25-2008 08:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Makedde (Post 2531486)
I was always of the impression that one had to be in the mood for masturbation in order to enjoy it. That said, I masturbate perhaps once every two weeks, more in the week before I get my period - then I can do it perhaps twice a day or more!:eek:

For me doing it 'in the mood' happens once a week or so. Frankly all the other times, it is mostly to releive the temper (hard-on, restlessness) or some times even boredom. So the mood depends so much the cycle !

jorgelito 09-25-2008 05:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dlish (Post 2530537)
see.. poor jorge uses a voice recognition software to type for him.

hope they find a cure for u soon mate. or just quit floggin the log

Who said that? Who's there? I can't see anything...

Quit floggin' the log?

From my cold dead hands...

loquitur 09-26-2008 06:57 AM

Back when I was young 'un I was pulling the pud a minimum of 3 times a day, sometimes 5 or six. I also was celibate (cerebral types who go to all-boys high school and aren't jocks tend not to get laid). Heavy masturbation days really did a number on the ol' pecker - if one day I masturbated six or seven times, the next day the skin was raw, and though I still needed to jerk off it was painful to do it. Sheesh.

Now that I'm older and real life gets in the way of sex or masturbation, at times I can go days before I feel the need. I'm always up for sex, but if there's shit going on in life and wifey isn't in the mood or is tired or sick, sure, I'll masturbate. But the old sex drive takes up much, much less mental energy than it used to. There's too much else going on.

Disco Cat 09-27-2008 02:31 PM

Up until February of this year I never had a girlfriend and never had sex. I had never masturbated in place of any of that simply because I never considered it. At this point, as odd as it might be to read, I don't really know how to masturbate. I'm not able to arouse myself by myself.

My sex drive seems to be normal; it doesn't take much to start me up and I am able to have sex several times a day without any problem. I wouldn't say the sex I have is any more intense than the average person, though. If anything, it's less intense, because I don't seem to be as sensitive around my penis as a lot of people are or claim to be.

My girlfriend has left the country for an extended period of time, and while it has only been one month so far, I have gone from sex several times a day to no sex or masturbation at all without any real withdrawal.

As bliss mentioned earlier in the thread, it's not a risk in any way, because your body tends to take care of itself when you won't give it a hand (pun intended). It just comes out on its own while you sleep.

RangerJoe 09-27-2008 03:26 PM

I'm waiting on W.K. to come in here and make a comment. I'm surprised he hasn't yet.

I did a quick search on over masturbating, and came up with this: What is Over Masturbation - The difference between healthy and unhealthy masturbation

Quote:

The topic of over masturbation, what gets called chronic masturbation , can be a confusing one. While there is a lot of sex talk in our culture, masturbation is usually left out of the conversation. As a result we don’t learn very much about masturbation, and as teens and adults those of us who enjoy masturbating may wonder if we are over masturbating or how much masturbation is “normal” and healthy.

What is over masturbation?
First things first. The vast majority of masturbation is completely healthy and positive. There is no data for this, but anything aproximating "over masturbation" is very rare. There is no number or quantity of masturbation that is healthy or unhealthy. Masturbation isn’t like candy or eggs, there isn’t a "recommended daily allowance", it means different things to different people, and we all use masturbation differently, in positive and negative ways. So this question needs to be answered on an individual basis, keeping in mind that very few of us actually masturbate in ways that are harmful to ourselves.

If I am over masturbating, will I have to stop masturbating altogether?
No credible health care professional who is working in your best interest would ever tell you to stop masturbating forever. A healthy sexual life includes masturbation across the lifespan, and stopping for a week or two doesn’t mean you have to stop forever. If you feel like your masturbation is a problem you may want to take a break from masturbating for a while and take some time to think about what is going on for you. But you should never feel like taking a break means dropping masturbation from your sexual repertoire. If someone tells you that masturbating is wrong or you need to stop it, they are probably doing so in their own interests, not yours.
But, the link I found more interesting was the main link : Masturbation - Information, Tips, Techniques

Techniques? Yeah, I know what my bedtime reading will start with. :suave:

Zeraph 09-28-2008 05:22 PM

I usually do it every other day or so. I stopped for a few weeks once, and socially I felt a bit numb. It was weird. Kind of hard to explain much more beyond that.


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