HA!! I guess this post finally answers my question as to WHY my husband doesn't look, watch, or read porn. :lol:

I don't.

Not gonna lie, I have in the past. I try not to. I feel like I'm cheating on my gf.

She looked at porn until recently, then decided not to (I put no pressure on her, though it made me happy). She's totally cool with me looking at it if I want to. I'd just rather not.

Am I the first person to answer this way?

Well, yeah, I think you are. :D I think you are the first to say you feel guilty about it actually. But, I don't think you are alone in this type of thinking though. And just because you aren't as "free thinking" as some here are, doesn't mean you are wrong in how you are thinking. If it feels "wrong", then don't do it. Nothing wrong with that. You are WHO you are, and don't let anyone take that away from you. We all have our different opinions and there ain't nuttin' wrong with being different. ;)

If I had a girlfriend and some kind of sex life, I could see feeling that way in the future. One of my friends older brothers growing up said "Race car video games aren't fun anymore once you drive a real car." And I could see how that could happen with porn and sex.

I have found that is true for the first couple of years in a relationship, but there does come a point where having sex is too much (time, work, etc). Thats when you start to look at porn again.

When I was single I looked at porn whenever I had downtime (hence my screenname).

I've since come into a great relationship, so now the rate has dropped to once a week or less.

edit: And the reason for the drop is not due to feeling like I'm cheating on her, but because she's damn cute and has a sex drive equal to mine.

After a couple of years??? Dammit man! :lol:

I personally find it a challange and worth the effort after 26 yrs. **shrugs her shoulders** But, that is me and I seemed to have hit my 4th gear and working up to a fifth maybe. However, they do say neutral will happen at sometime, but I sincerely hope that is at least another 10 yrs away!

Well, big V here, and I intend on keeping it that way for awhile. Just how I roll.

Where are those exibition pics???

I think that looking at porn and masturbating is the same for men and women... The big difference is frequency... Everyone has watched and watches occasionnaly and everyone masturbated and masturbates occasionnaly. No one is different!

My best friend has never looked at porn in his life, I believe. And I don't do it anymore, I've just broken down for a single month and a single week relapse.

Masturbates? I don't personally know anyone who doesn't, but that doesn't mean they're not out there. Just...you probably won't find them on this forum ^_^.

just be happy that porn is available hehehehe to answer the question probably just a few if none are not watching porn

Fun question. I'd guess that 2/3 look at naked people having sex (aka xxx). I'd guess 4/5 of men look at naked pictures once a month or more.

That's if you only count nudity and not mainstream stuff like Victoria Secret and swimsuits and rated R movies. That would get you to 95% or more.

And that's not counting looking lustfully at women in person or thinking about past lovers. That might be 100%.

There's lots of things that can really cut into your porn time, like workaholism.
And for a lot of people, maybe love and guilt. Perhaps religion, for some. And certainly old age, poverty, imprisonment, active military duty and hospitalization have an impact.


On your corollary, naked people make my wife feel insecure and angry. That's even if she's with me and reaps the "benefits". Even implied sexuality between people with their clothes on or a novel with sex in it offends her. I guess everyone has hangups. (But try working a good story in if you want to get a reluctant lover more comfortable with it. It seemed to help ...)

all of us do . how many women would own up to that................? answer...............NONE

Actually, the large majority of my female friends that I'm close to are honest about that.

And a lot of them do. I'd guess about 1/2 to 3/4, closer to 3/4. And they own up to it with no embarrassment whatsoever.

And, as said above, not all of us do.

Ummm....I think the question should be how many woman dont look @ porn, because all men do...

Treewoods, I have no idea. I'll be honest, I have no idea. I'm just asking. I asked the boss, because most folks ask, but he says he doesn't do the porn thing. I asked him because I was ASKED by you folks. I have NOTHING to hide! He says, "Why do I have to post here?" I told him you don't have to but these guys are asking dear, I have to KNOW! He says, "I don't give a shit what they think dear! Why must I ask?" I say, "Well, I need proof that you are NOT just saying you aren't just posting that you are saying you are looking at porn. He says, "Are you shittin' me dear?" I say, "No honey. You have to tell these folks that you aren't lookin' at porn." He says, "Tell these damn folks to GET A DAMN LIFE! I don't have time to post to these people, will ya?" I grin and say, "Well honey, I don't know if they believe me or not." He says, "I don't give a **** if they do or not! You post to these people, I don't!!! Tell them to f**Kin' a d*amn life, ya hear???!!!"

That's all I can say folks. I LIVE WITH HIM>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>YOU DON'T! :D

Treewood: Trees, I look at porn more than my husband does. Men or women. I have no idea what that describes me to be, but I'm just sayin'..................

Out of curiousity, is it normal for people to make unilateral statements about the actions of the entire race without reading the single page of thread there was already to see that there was already an example proving them wrong?

I dunno, it's just happened several times in this thread, doesn't really matter to me - but I try to read an entire thread before posting if it's only a page or two long.


Is that normal, or is normal behavior to just read the OP and post your answer?

Curious ^_^.

<<<<< look, i've been losered

Just also out of curiosity...you mean gender?

Awesome, can I be Losered too? :D

I haven't met many guys who don't look at porn, but I have and I do believe them. Most of those guys said it was for religious reasons, and that they were often tempted.

I'm considering doing it now, because I was raised in a very intense religious environment, and leaving it I'm slowly shedding those beliefs which aren't actually mine but which were drilled into me. I'm not sure whether this belief is mine or was forced on me, but as more time goes on, I'm starting to believe that it's not mine.

S'ok to change, and s'ok not to. Just waiting a little bit :).

But, there are still those of us who don't, regardless of my personal beliefs ;)