bella214

I was looking for some tips and techniques to give my hubby some mind bending oral. Just anything to spice it up a little bit. I love giving it and of course he loves receiving it…it’s just gotten a little boring. So guys…what do like? Girls…any tricks? Thanks!!!

Toaster126

Everyone is different. You'll just have to woman up and ask him. Although most can agree that teeth should not be involved.

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Devoid

My wife does some great stuff orally. The things that stand out the most are minding the stepchildren, and teasing. Teasing all around it really gets me sensitive, and ready to explode before she ever actually touches my cock. Good luck.

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Seaver

My GF is a master at using her saliva as lube. She gets her mouth and both hands involved... it's amazing.

She goes as far as she can with her mouth, with her hand leading the way. She twists her hands in a corkscrew motion with her one hand on my cock, and her other hand gently tickles my balls.

Dont forget to use your tongue as much as possible, and suction.

What NOT to do:

1) NO teeth. I know your jaw gets sore, but a tooth scrape is like us biting on your clit. It hurts, bad, and will reset us back to 0.

2) Try not to give up and take a break. Once again it's like us going down on you, then stopping for a bit, then going again. At best it slows us down, often it'll basically reset us to 0.

3) Swallow or spit, just let us cum in your mouth. If you dont it's like us going down on you, getting you to the point of orgasm... then finishing you off with our fingers only. Yeah we still cum... but what the hell is the point of all the oral if that's how we end up?

4) Dont give up after the first blast and think that's us cumming in your mouth. Our best orgasms ever are from good blowjobs. That means we'll blow at minimum 4-5 times after a good one. If done right (not stopping what you're doing), each successive shot is more enjoyable than the one before. You'll might even see your hubby convulse as much as you do.

5) No teeth... just wanted to reiterate that.

6) Before you start (when you're still teasing), tell him how wet going down on him makes you. Tell him how you want to feel his cum fill your mouth up (even if you dont like it), just go on with stuff like that. Just like you dont want to feel like him going down on you is a chore, he doesn't want to feel like that when you do.

Blackthorn

Hmmm... ya ortta checks ya linkages matie!

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VirFighter

Seaver could not have said it better really.

Each guy will be a little different in what he likes, just like every girl is. So it never hurts to ask and watch reactions closely.

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ngdawg

Lightly press a finger around his asshole(and in it if he is so inclined) and move it from between there and his balls in a loving stroke while sucking and licking. Also, use both the top and bottom of your tongue just under the tip-top is rough, bottom is smooth. Go slow and short to start, ever moving downward and increase the suction as you go. Tease a bit. If you do need to 'take a break', rub his now wet tip around your nipple, then get back to the bj.

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snowy

Some guys REALLY HATE THIS though, so be prepared for a potentially violent reaction, or better yet, ask your guy first.

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Seaver

Seriously... I'd leave the room. Maybe if she asked and gave me a long time to warm up to it... but dont just go there. Otherwise your hubby might bend you over for what you think is doggy and just jam himself in your butt without warning (or lube).

Cervantes

Cant be stressed enough, some men REALLY hate this, especially when the woman doesn't even bother to ask about if first.


On to the tips,

Suction, practice up a really good suction skill for when you pull it out. Absolutley amazing.

Underside of the head, as well as the underside of the shaft is very sensitive, a light but constant circular movement with the tongue at these spots while suction is applied is magic.

The balls are very sensitive, be sure not to be carefull fondling and sucking on them.

Lots of saliva, make sure it is wet and slick, use your hands to spread it all over the shaft.

If you haven't practiced before and built up good control of your gag reflex do not try to deep throat, gaging is not arousing (at least not for any male I have ever spoken about oral sex with).

Spit or swallow, can't be stressed enough. To finish him off with your hands is saying louder than words that you find him disgusting.

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ngdawg

Well that's why I said if he's so inclined. And emphasize 'lightly'. It's a prostate stimulation and if you're really sensitive or have 'issues', it's not going to be the greatest thing, but I've had no complaints yet and lots of extra 'mmmm's....

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longbough

if neither of you have reservations ... deep rimming can be a great pleasure ... for either partner.

ngdawg

Doesn't even have to be deep. Finger-wise, just the very tip of the index finger encircling the anus is usually enough unless the guy is into more. There's nothing wrong with a quick 'like it?' between sucks If you don't ask, they might not want to say they don't like it out of fear of hurting feelings, but it's how you learn how to please.

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Cervantes

I don't know.. touching that area is waay sensitive (mentally) for some guys, so I'd advice to ask before even going there. Better safe than sorry.

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longbough

Just let your finger glide towards his anus and play with the outer part. He'll get the message. And he'll either A) tighten his anus telling you he's not that comfortable, B) relax his sphincter and moan invitingly or C) sit up and say, "What are you doing?"

Or you can just discuss it in advance. It's the same way us guys approach the issue of anal-play with women.

Irishsean

Teeth are not always bad, I know, I know, its a complete reversal of my previous statements, but my mind has been changed. Previous oral experiences have either ended up with me in the hospital, or curled up in excruciating pain.

My wife begged me to try it, and even though I'd had bad experiences, I let her try and wow! She does this thing where she nibbles down the base starting at the head, and ends up licking and sucking on my balls, and it feels intense.

Gentle biting and nipping can be fun, but in moderation.

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Sage

My greatest help in giving realy good oral has been Sweeten'd Blow- it tastes good without being icky, provides great lube for me to get my hands involved, and the lube lasts a long time. I take a little in my mouth, swish it around to dilute it, then go to town!

I think a lot of the turn on for oral is the guy knowing he's getting something special. Guys want your attention, and giving head is a great way to let your guy know that he's getting your undivided attention. I like to lead Martel in the bedroom, have some candles going, that kinda thing. Blindfoling your guy for part of the proceedings (like in the beginning) can be really hot, because it gives him a bit of a sensory overload.

Kiss him, lick all over his body, rub his feet- get his juices going before you ever get to the "main course." If he likes nipple play- play with his nipples! Excite his whole body (part of the teasing that was mentioned earlier). Use fun props like a feather, or a soft silk scarf, or your hands to rub his body and playfully rub his genitals- it'll excite his sense of touch and make him more sensitive to the blow job.

As to technique- I use my hands and my tounge a lot which makes it easier to go a long time. I also like to get really messy- using a lot of spit, getting everything really lubed and such (this is a lot easier if your guy will trim his pubic hair- or better yet just shave it off). Long slow licks with the tounge are appreciated, as well as kisses and licks all over the general area. If your guy likes his balls played with, play with them! Take them in your mouth, suck on them like a Cadbury's egg, that sort of thing

Giving head is the best when you're into it, too. When you're doing it because you love your man and want him to feel good, it becomes something that you two are doing together instead of something you're doing to him- and that really makes it stellar and special. Love him and show him you love him while you're giving him head, and it'll be out of this world!

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