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high_jinx · 08-01-2006, 09:59 AM

Im going away to a 5 day music festival where everyone is camping out the whole time. Just wondered if anyone had any suggestions on spotting the girls that are there for a fling as well and on methods of going from 0 to 60 w/ them in the limited time allotted.

Jinn · 08-01-2006, 10:40 AM

They're the ones flashing the band members when they play? Sorry, I got nothin. I didn't realize the ones wanting flings looked any different than the ones who didn't.

Five days sounds kinda long for a hit-it-and-quit-it, too.. what if you see 'em around? I guess you could be proactive and mention that you've got extra room in your sleeping bag / tent if she needs it to every girl you see?

Out of curiousity, why the fervor?

Mantus · 08-01-2006, 11:51 AM

This isn't an easy topic. Some general "hints" wont do jack for you. How good are you at picking up girl in bars/clubs/coffee shops? Do you have any experience with women? I'll try to help if I know more about the level you are at.

high_jinx · 08-01-2006, 12:31 PM

im confident around girls and know how to build on chemistry. i just usually take a more time consuming calculated approach to dating at home. in this scenario i thought it would be fun to find a fling playmate and lack experience in that dept...

JustJess · 08-01-2006, 01:03 PM

There is no "trick" or "quick pickup" or "identifiers". If a girl is down for the quick and nasty, she just is. And you'll know it pretty damned quick. Just be ready to flirt at all times, pick up some physical chemistry clues and some body language. These things are not... written in a rule book somewhere. You can see interest in a person's eyes, the way they touch you more than necessary, the way they seem to be magnetically drawn to your physical presence. And they don't back down when you kiss them.

So be forward and be prepared to catch some forward moves too. You'll be fine. We're out there if you're paying attention.

08-01-2006, 09:59 AM	#1 (permalink)
high_jinx Psycho Location: venice beach, ca	pickups/hookups at the festival scenario Im going away to a 5 day music festival where everyone is camping out the whole time. Just wondered if anyone had any suggestions on spotting the girls that are there for a fling as well and on methods of going from 0 to 60 w/ them in the limited time allotted. __________________ -my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.

08-01-2006, 10:40 AM	#2 (permalink)
Jinn Lover - Protector - Teacher Location: Seattle, WA	They're the ones flashing the band members when they play? Sorry, I got nothin. I didn't realize the ones wanting flings looked any different than the ones who didn't. Five days sounds kinda long for a hit-it-and-quit-it, too.. what if you see 'em around? I guess you could be proactive and mention that you've got extra room in your sleeping bag / tent if she needs it to every girl you see? Out of curiousity, why the fervor? __________________ "I'm typing on a computer of science, which is being sent by science wires to a little science server where you can access it. I'm not typing on a computer of philosophy or religion or whatever other thing you think can be used to understand the universe because they're a poor substitute in the role of understanding the universe which exists independent from ourselves." - Willravel

08-01-2006, 12:31 PM	#4 (permalink)
high_jinx Psycho Location: venice beach, ca	im confident around girls and know how to build on chemistry. i just usually take a more time consuming calculated approach to dating at home. in this scenario i thought it would be fun to find a fling playmate and lack experience in that dept... __________________ -my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.

08-01-2006, 01:03 PM	#5 (permalink)
JustJess Unencapsulated Location: Kittyville	There is no "trick" or "quick pickup" or "identifiers". If a girl is down for the quick and nasty, she just is. And you'll know it pretty damned quick. Just be ready to flirt at all times, pick up some physical chemistry clues and some body language. These things are not... written in a rule book somewhere. You can see interest in a person's eyes, the way they touch you more than necessary, the way they seem to be magnetically drawn to your physical presence. And they don't back down when you kiss them. So be forward and be prepared to catch some forward moves too. You'll be fine. We're out there if you're paying attention. __________________ My heart knows me better than I know myself, so I'm gonna let it do all the talkin'.

08-01-2006, 11:51 AM	#3 (permalink)
Mantus lascivious	This isn't an easy topic. Some general "hints" wont do jack for you. How good are you at picking up girl in bars/clubs/coffee shops? Do you have any experience with women? I'll try to help if I know more about the level you are at.