Kissing after oral sex... - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

nmm · 06-21-2006, 05:22 AM

What are your views on it...

I don't mind at all kissing my girl after a bj, doesn't bother me the least, even if I don't really want to taste my cum and she is not bothered kissing me after i gave her oral sex...

is there anyone that would not kiss after receiving oral sex? If yes, why not?

Halx · 06-21-2006, 05:53 AM

Hot! Kissing is hot and the messier and sloppier it is, the hotter it is!

mixedmedia · 06-21-2006, 08:03 AM

I concur! Kissing is good anytime......and especially hot when swapping more than just spit.

Doos · 06-21-2006, 08:16 AM

There's just that texture after she's gone down....its great

VirFighter · 06-21-2006, 08:59 AM

I have no problems kissing her after she goes down on me, we even done it a few times with her mouth still full

She is a little hesitant to kiss me after I go down on her though. If I'm just doing clit work, she is ok, but if she's really wet and I've been using my tongue heavily she does not care for it.

Wasn't this question addressed on Sex and the City? I believe their resolution was that guys should always be willing to kiss women after receiving a blowjob, but men should never kiss a woman after going down on her or something like that.

nmm · 06-21-2006, 10:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by VirFighter

I have no problems kissing her after she goes down on me, we even done it a few times with her mouth still full

She is a little hesitant to kiss me after I go down on her though. If I'm just doing clit work, she is ok, but if she's really wet and I've been using my tongue heavily she does not care for it.

Wasn't this question addressed on Sex and the City? I believe their resolution was that guys should always be willing to kiss women after receiving a blowjob, but men should never kiss a woman after going down on her or something like that.

Yes I remember it was the subject in on of the Sex and the Cty episode, when one couldn't believe how the guy was good when he was going down but she had a trouble kissing him after when he had is mouth all wet and everything...

ShaniFaye · 06-21-2006, 01:06 PM

Dave and I both REALLY enjoy kissing after oral, doesnt matter who its been done on, it turns us both on....besides it lets me know I taste pretty damn good

Devoid · 06-21-2006, 01:31 PM

My wife will kiss me after I go down on her, but I just can't do it. I'd rather not taste my own juice. I'm open to a lot of stuff, but not that. I can't pinpoint the reason, it just kind of grosses me out.

joemc91 · 06-21-2006, 01:38 PM

Hey, if she's going to let me kiss her after going down on her, why should I deny her the same? I'm all about it.

Sho Nuff · 06-21-2006, 04:25 PM

If I kiss a woman after oral sex it shows that I really care about her. I never kiss a woman after random head. Then again, I rarely kiss a woman I dont care about...period.

Infinite_Loser · 06-21-2006, 04:28 PM

I did it once. I didn't hate it nor did I love it. Therefore, I suppose that makes me indifferent.

Gilda · 06-21-2006, 04:38 PM

No problem here going either way. Kissing is good after performing oral or receiving it.

Gilda

CaliLivChick · 06-21-2006, 05:04 PM

Kissing after giving, he enjoys... I think he likes the fact that it's dirty and naughty, and "forbidden", at least by society at large.

Kissing after receiving, if I taste okay, then I'm game for it. He sometimes enjoys me more than I do... if I don't taste as good, he'll suck on my nipples, and that takes most of the taste out of his mouth.

ktthequeen · 06-21-2006, 05:16 PM

I never really thought of it as a "taboo" thing...until I saw the SATC episode.

...and I've done it. can't say it's any particular sort of turn on, besides regular kissing...

cookmo · 06-21-2006, 06:05 PM

I'll do it either way....Except if we have been tossin salad!

MEAD · 06-21-2006, 06:07 PM

My girl and I do it. I don't mind and she doesnt seem to at all.

thespian86 · 06-21-2006, 06:35 PM

See, my girl and I had our greatest sexual romping ever tonight (brag! Brag! BRAG!) and usually she is very touchy about it but in the moment she was pulling me inside her and pulling my lips to hers (after I had been wokring for awhile quite deligently orally) and we made love quite passionately and kissed similarly. But afterwards, after the euphoria had gone away, she was back to kissing me lightly with pursed lips until I had washed. I don't mind kissing her after shes gone down though. We call it "brushing our teeth"

savvypup · 06-22-2006, 02:58 AM

Love it! I think it's great knowing what you taste like and that you enjoy it.

Martian · 06-22-2006, 03:27 AM

I reckon if she's gonna let me spooge in her mouth I'd be a bit of a wuss not to. I mean, it's clearly not hurting her and it came outta me in the first place anyway. I wouldn't go out of my way for it, but I'm not going to kick up a fuss either.

I've had mixed reactions going the other way, though. Some girls don't care, some go nuts for it and some are totally against it. It's been my experience that the girls that are more squeamish in general are the ones that tend to be against it.

Clark · 06-22-2006, 05:17 AM

My wife loves it. I don't mind.

MySexyAssJ · 06-22-2006, 03:33 PM

i don't mind kissing my guy after he's gone down on me... and he doesn't mind kissing me after i've gone down on him.

i think when the intimacy is there.. it shouldn't matter.

water_bug · 06-23-2006, 09:11 AM

I don't think I've ever had a guy try and kiss me after I have gone down on him. As far as kissing someone after they have gone down on me, I suppose if I was caught up int he heat of passion I would be all for it, but if I think about it I might say," No way!"

hossified · 06-23-2006, 09:43 AM

wow....a lot more people say they 'do' partake in this.....than I thought. Funny spin on it though....as a male....would you taste your hand kids, after pulling one off??? Or as a female, would you 'lick the leftovers' after a self-romance session? I am sure the response will be quite opposite to what what have seen so far in this thread....if not, no biggie......just putting a different spin on it is all....

dd3953 · 06-23-2006, 09:45 AM

i agree with most (if not all) of the posts that have come before mine: kissing after oral is a hot plus. and very much enjoyed by me and my lovers of the past.

water_bug · 06-23-2006, 09:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hossified

wow....a lot more people say they 'do' partake in this.....than I thought. Funny spin on it though....as a male....would you taste your hand kids, after pulling one off??? Or as a female, would you 'lick the leftovers' after a self-romance session? I am sure the response will be quite opposite to what what have seen so far in this thread....if not, no biggie......just putting a different spin on it is all....

Sorry, licking the left overs as you put it is not for me.

mixedmedia · 06-23-2006, 10:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hossified

wow....a lot more people say they 'do' partake in this.....than I thought. Funny spin on it though....as a male....would you taste your hand kids, after pulling one off??? Or as a female, would you 'lick the leftovers' after a self-romance session? I am sure the response will be quite opposite to what what have seen so far in this thread....if not, no biggie......just putting a different spin on it is all....

Uh, yes I would....most especially if someone is watching.

cookmo · 06-23-2006, 11:32 AM

I masturbate for him often, and he loves it when I taste myself. But, I wouldnt really get off on watching him taste himself.

NotAnAlias · 06-23-2006, 04:10 PM

Both ways for me and my SO. I love a kiss after she's gone down on me, and she seems to enjoy when i kiss her after a bit of tongue plumbing.

nmm · 06-23-2006, 04:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cookmo

I masturbate for him often, and he loves it when I taste myself. But, I wouldnt really get off on watching him taste himself.

Girl tasting herself is exiting indeed... I make my partner taste herself or make her taste her often... She enjoy seeing masturbate, but don't think she would enjoy me tasting myself...

yankeefatboy · 06-23-2006, 06:03 PM

Hell no, not a problem with kissing after giving or receiving. In the heat of the moment, kissing after analingus is also hot!!!! At my age, nothing is out of the question!

HoneyPot · 06-23-2006, 06:34 PM

I think kissing after oral is hot! I don't really mind it at all. Its kind of interesting how I don't mind the taste of myself....hmmmmm?????

savvypup · 06-23-2006, 11:57 PM

I don't have a problem tasting myself after a little solo romp or after being watched, but don't really know how I'd take my male partner doing the same to himself.

absorbentishe · 06-24-2006, 06:01 AM

My wife has never brought me to climax that way. If we do, it certainly isn't an issue. She has never stopped me when I'm done on her, nor have I. I think it's pretty hot though, the mixing of the juices. Oh man am I horny now.

Toaster126 · 06-24-2006, 12:51 PM

I don't want to taste myself, so I don't whenever I think of it. I'm perfectly happy with a double standard - I kiss people after going down on them and they don't care one bit.

rmarshall · 06-27-2006, 08:04 AM

I don't mind kissing. My girlfriend sometimes tries to wipe off my face as the beard is usually soaked with our juices.

Halifax · 07-02-2006, 08:54 PM

Nope, no problem. If she gets tired while giving oral she will take a break for a moment and kiss. Rarely does she do so afterwards, but we have a few times. I've actually found it to be a bit of a turn-on for me!

Bazan_Kor · 07-07-2006, 01:15 AM

I dont mind it, sometimes a bit strange to taste yourself but she does it so i dont see why i shouldnt as well. Shes sometimes apprehensive when I've been down on her but she gets over that pretty quickly usually.

korE · 07-09-2006, 09:23 PM

It never really bothers me. Sometimes she doesn't mind if I kiss her after I've gone down on her, sometimes she does. It depends on the mood of the sex we are having. She knows I really like it when she kisses me after I've been down there, so If we are just "f***ing" and not "making love" she'll let me, otherwise she won't.

edit: Bleeped out my word, I'm new here and didn't know if I could swear in threads or not!

SAM821 · 07-10-2006, 05:59 PM

yea, of course... it doesnt bother me... I dont even think about it.. and I always do the same to her when I go down on her!

KungFuGuy · 07-11-2006, 08:33 PM

my first girlfriend had no problems kissing after oral, didn't matter who was going down on who. If I came in her mouth I'd want her to swallow or spit first though. same as when I was going down on her.

my current GF though won't give me a BJ at all and it makes me cry

06-21-2006, 05:22 AM	#1 (permalink)
nmm Tilted	Kissing after oral sex... What are your views on it... I don't mind at all kissing my girl after a bj, doesn't bother me the least, even if I don't really want to taste my cum and she is not bothered kissing me after i gave her oral sex... is there anyone that would not kiss after receiving oral sex? If yes, why not? __________________ Nihilistic Mad Man... Gallic Hedonist... Freak of Nature...

06-21-2006, 05:53 AM	#2 (permalink)
Halx Please touch this. Owner/Admin Location: Manhattan	Hot! Kissing is hot and the messier and sloppier it is, the hotter it is! __________________ You have found this post informative. -The Administrator [Don't Feed The Animals]

06-21-2006, 08:16 AM	#4 (permalink)
Doos Crazy Location: South Africa	There's just that texture after she's gone down....its great __________________ Don't be alarmed, I'm an African. Conscience is what hurts when everything else feels good. Last edited by Doos; 06-21-2006 at 08:22 AM..

06-21-2006, 08:59 AM	#5 (permalink)
VirFighter Insane Location: Raleigh, NC / Atlanta, GA	I have no problems kissing her after she goes down on me, we even done it a few times with her mouth still full She is a little hesitant to kiss me after I go down on her though. If I'm just doing clit work, she is ok, but if she's really wet and I've been using my tongue heavily she does not care for it. Wasn't this question addressed on Sex and the City? I believe their resolution was that guys should always be willing to kiss women after receiving a blowjob, but men should never kiss a woman after going down on her or something like that. __________________ "The South is gonna boogie again" - Disco Stu

06-21-2006, 01:06 PM	#7 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	Dave and I both REALLY enjoy kissing after oral, doesnt matter who its been done on, it turns us both on....besides it lets me know I taste pretty damn good __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

06-21-2006, 08:03 AM	#3 (permalink)
mixedmedia has all her shots. Location: Florida	I concur! Kissing is good anytime......and especially hot when swapping more than just spit.

06-21-2006, 01:31 PM	#8 (permalink)
Devoid Psycho Location: Floating amongst the ether	My wife will kiss me after I go down on her, but I just can't do it. I'd rather not taste my own juice. I'm open to a lot of stuff, but not that. I can't pinpoint the reason, it just kind of grosses me out. __________________ We're here to steal your pornography, and sodomize our vast imaginations. - Inignot

06-21-2006, 01:38 PM	#9 (permalink)
joemc91 Insane Location: Chicago	Hey, if she's going to let me kiss her after going down on her, why should I deny her the same? I'm all about it. __________________ I prefer desert wines to dessert wines. Dry and red

06-21-2006, 04:25 PM	#10 (permalink)
Sho Nuff Addict Location: Harlem	If I kiss a woman after oral sex it shows that I really care about her. I never kiss a woman after random head. Then again, I rarely kiss a woman I dont care about...period. __________________ I know Nietzsche doesnt rhyme with peachy, but you sound like a pretentious prick when you correct me.

06-21-2006, 04:28 PM	#11 (permalink)
Infinite_Loser Junkie Location: Lake Mary, FL	I did it once. I didn't hate it nor did I love it. Therefore, I suppose that makes me indifferent.

06-21-2006, 04:38 PM	#12 (permalink)
Gilda 32 flavors and then some Location: Out on a wire.	No problem here going either way. Kissing is good after performing oral or receiving it. Gilda

06-21-2006, 05:04 PM	#13 (permalink)
CaliLivChick In Transition Location: Sanford, FL (between Daytona and Orlando)	Kissing after giving, he enjoys... I think he likes the fact that it's dirty and naughty, and "forbidden", at least by society at large. Kissing after receiving, if I taste okay, then I'm game for it. He sometimes enjoys me more than I do... if I don't taste as good, he'll suck on my nipples, and that takes most of the taste out of his mouth. __________________ Don't trust anything that can bleed for a week and not die. Oh wait, that's me... nevermind... you can trust me.

06-21-2006, 05:16 PM	#14 (permalink)
ktthequeen Insane Location: Earth	I never really thought of it as a "taboo" thing...until I saw the SATC episode. ...and I've done it. can't say it's any particular sort of turn on, besides regular kissing...

06-21-2006, 06:05 PM	#15 (permalink)
cookmo Insane Location: Ohio	I'll do it either way....Except if we have been tossin salad!

06-21-2006, 06:07 PM	#16 (permalink)
MEAD Insane Location: South Florida	My girl and I do it. I don't mind and she doesnt seem to at all. __________________ Here are some phrases I'd like to be able to say, in all honesty, before I die. "That's it, send out the ninjas!" "So then I had to kill my way to the second floor."

06-21-2006, 06:35 PM	#17 (permalink)
thespian86 change is hard. Location: the green room.	See, my girl and I had our greatest sexual romping ever tonight (brag! Brag! BRAG!) and usually she is very touchy about it but in the moment she was pulling me inside her and pulling my lips to hers (after I had been wokring for awhile quite deligently orally) and we made love quite passionately and kissed similarly. But afterwards, after the euphoria had gone away, she was back to kissing me lightly with pursed lips until I had washed. I don't mind kissing her after shes gone down though. We call it "brushing our teeth" __________________ EX: Whats new? ME: I officially love coffee more then you now. EX: uh... ME: So, not much.

06-22-2006, 02:58 AM	#18 (permalink)
savvypup Crazy Location: Want to run away? Follow the light	Love it! I think it's great knowing what you taste like and that you enjoy it. __________________ ciao bella!

06-22-2006, 03:27 AM	#19 (permalink)
Martian Young Crumudgeon Location: Canada	I reckon if she's gonna let me spooge in her mouth I'd be a bit of a wuss not to. I mean, it's clearly not hurting her and it came outta me in the first place anyway. I wouldn't go out of my way for it, but I'm not going to kick up a fuss either. I've had mixed reactions going the other way, though. Some girls don't care, some go nuts for it and some are totally against it. It's been my experience that the girls that are more squeamish in general are the ones that tend to be against it. __________________ I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said - Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame

06-22-2006, 05:17 AM	#20 (permalink)
Clark Crazy Location: Pittsburgh	My wife loves it. I don't mind. __________________ Dyslexic please excuse the spelling.

06-22-2006, 03:33 PM	#21 (permalink)
MySexyAssJ Tilted Location: Los Angeles	i don't mind kissing my guy after he's gone down on me... and he doesn't mind kissing me after i've gone down on him. i think when the intimacy is there.. it shouldn't matter. __________________ Once bitten, Twice shy.

06-23-2006, 09:11 AM	#22 (permalink)
water_bug Tilted Location: Rhode Island	I don't think I've ever had a guy try and kiss me after I have gone down on him. As far as kissing someone after they have gone down on me, I suppose if I was caught up int he heat of passion I would be all for it, but if I think about it I might say," No way!"

06-23-2006, 09:43 AM	#23 (permalink)
hossified face f$cker Location: canada	wow....a lot more people say they 'do' partake in this.....than I thought. Funny spin on it though....as a male....would you taste your hand kids, after pulling one off??? Or as a female, would you 'lick the leftovers' after a self-romance session? I am sure the response will be quite opposite to what what have seen so far in this thread....if not, no biggie......just putting a different spin on it is all....

06-23-2006, 09:45 AM	#24 (permalink)
dd3953 Psycho: By Choice Location: dd.land	i agree with most (if not all) of the posts that have come before mine: kissing after oral is a hot plus. and very much enjoyed by me and my lovers of the past. __________________ [Technically, I'm not possible, I'm made of exceptions. ]

06-23-2006, 11:32 AM	#27 (permalink)
cookmo Insane Location: Ohio	I masturbate for him often, and he loves it when I taste myself. But, I wouldnt really get off on watching him taste himself.

06-23-2006, 04:10 PM	#28 (permalink)
NotAnAlias Tilted Location: Auckland, New Zealand	Both ways for me and my SO. I love a kiss after she's gone down on me, and she seems to enjoy when i kiss her after a bit of tongue plumbing.

06-23-2006, 06:03 PM	#30 (permalink)
yankeefatboy Addict Location: northern california	Hell no, not a problem with kissing after giving or receiving. In the heat of the moment, kissing after analingus is also hot!!!! At my age, nothing is out of the question!

06-23-2006, 06:34 PM	#31 (permalink)
HoneyPot Crazy Location: Nunya	I think kissing after oral is hot! I don't really mind it at all. Its kind of interesting how I don't mind the taste of myself....hmmmmm????? __________________ Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder.

06-23-2006, 11:57 PM	#32 (permalink)
savvypup Crazy Location: Want to run away? Follow the light	I don't have a problem tasting myself after a little solo romp or after being watched, but don't really know how I'd take my male partner doing the same to himself. __________________ ciao bella!

06-24-2006, 06:01 AM	#33 (permalink)
absorbentishe Boy am I horny today Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!	My wife has never brought me to climax that way. If we do, it certainly isn't an issue. She has never stopped me when I'm done on her, nor have I. I think it's pretty hot though, the mixing of the juices. Oh man am I horny now.

06-24-2006, 12:51 PM	#34 (permalink)
Toaster126 Extreme moderation Location: Kansas City, yo.	I don't want to taste myself, so I don't whenever I think of it. I'm perfectly happy with a double standard - I kiss people after going down on them and they don't care one bit. __________________ "The question isn't who is going to let me, it's who is going to stop me." (Ayn Rand) "The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." (M. Scott Peck)

06-27-2006, 08:04 AM	#35 (permalink)
rmarshall Addict Location: Kingston,Ontario	I don't mind kissing. My girlfriend sometimes tries to wipe off my face as the beard is usually soaked with our juices. __________________ "Do not resent growing old. Many are denied the privilege" Irish proverb

07-02-2006, 08:54 PM	#36 (permalink)
Halifax Upright Location: Republic of Tejas	No problem Nope, no problem. If she gets tired while giving oral she will take a break for a moment and kiss. Rarely does she do so afterwards, but we have a few times. I've actually found it to be a bit of a turn-on for me! __________________ Philosopher-in-Training “The present writer…writes because for him it is a luxury which becomes the more agreeable and more evident, the fewer there are who buy and read what he writes.” —Søren Kierkegaard Last edited by Halifax; 07-02-2006 at 09:10 PM..

07-07-2006, 01:15 AM	#37 (permalink)
Bazan_Kor Upright	I dont mind it, sometimes a bit strange to taste yourself but she does it so i dont see why i shouldnt as well. Shes sometimes apprehensive when I've been down on her but she gets over that pretty quickly usually.

07-09-2006, 09:23 PM	#38 (permalink)
korE Upright	It never really bothers me. Sometimes she doesn't mind if I kiss her after I've gone down on her, sometimes she does. It depends on the mood of the sex we are having. She knows I really like it when she kisses me after I've been down there, so If we are just "f***ing" and not "making love" she'll let me, otherwise she won't. edit: Bleeped out my word, I'm new here and didn't know if I could swear in threads or not!

07-10-2006, 05:59 PM	#39 (permalink)
SAM821 Surviving Hurricanes Location: Miami, Florida	yea, of course... it doesnt bother me... I dont even think about it.. and I always do the same to her when I go down on her!