VirFighter

Guys,

Any tips for getting ready for another round of fun after you've already spent your load once?

The situation arose the other day where my girlfriend and I had great sex (I used some new polyethylene condoms that were great) and then afterwards there was plenty of making out, fingering and it was obvious she was still in the mood and wanted some more.

I gave it some time and I could get aroused again but I would seem to lose it after a short time. This cycle would kind of continue until I just got her off with my fingers and we called it quits.

We don't usually go again (I usually orgasm last) but I would like to go for a second or maybe even a third round when the situation presents itself. Any recommendations from the gang here? I understand that this could just be an isolated incident and that there could be a lot of other factors at work... but I'm just looking for general tips. Would kegel exercises help with this?

Just as a last thought, the condoms I used had spermicide on them, the first time I've used any with that, does it have some adverse side effects that I'm not aware of?

Thanks.

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SAM821

Once you blow your load, it usually takes some time "a rest period" before you can get hard again, it really varies. With me, Its been as long as 20+ minutes, and as soon as 3-5 minutes. It really depends on a lot of factors. I think the best help I got was when after I was done and cleaned up, I was immediately orally pleasured. It took a couple of minutes and I was primed up again. You just need to wait to get the blood rushed to that area again. Also, I know exactly what you mean by getting it hard for a sec and then losing it, That will happen if you dont get all the blood flowing there, You need to be solid, because if you let up for a second you will lose your stiffness!

Also, I've HEARD that the best way (and only way as far as I know) to Stay hard after Round 1 is Viagra or something of that nature.... If someone knows a natural alternative, please enlighten me too!

JStrider

sometimes If as soon as I cum If i switch to a fresh condom really fast and keep going before it gets soft I can keep going... and Even more rare I can do it twice and after that second time its like I dont cum... just keep going and going...

sometimes it works sometimes it doesnt...

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madp

Viagra, Cialis, and Levitra all work like a charm. I like Levitra the best because it lasts for up to 24 hours. Your doctor will usually be more than happy to let you have a few free samples.

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tres

Dude...... Congrats on having a women that is compareable to the enegizer bunny... I am the type that can go and go..and wish my SO had some more..... she's usually the tired one....

After your first round.. why not try doing other things to her while you rest..... and then let her get you back in the game after that... you get a little down time, and she won't even notice the difference.

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rmarshall

Being an old fart (50), I sometimes need a little help. I tried Viger-25. You don't need a prescription and they're about $40 for 12. My sweetie always knows I took one after the first load and I either, don't get soft or get hard within a minute or so. They'll last well into the morning after too.

ASU2003

Could you just take half of a Viagra?

I guess I am a freak, I can orgasm at least 10 times without getting soft, but I've never been with another person. So, I'm not sure how well it will work.

I'm not sure if this will work with condoms, or if you need to change them after each time. But, what I would try is masturbating with a vibrator or something else that will provide more stimulation than normal. And train yourself to follow this pattern (normal stimulation, orgasm, 5 second pause, high stimulation, orgasm, 5 sec pause, high stimulation, orgasm, 5 sec...) The glans will get way to sensitive, so hopefully your frenulum area will be able to handle it. They are different types of orgasms though. Mentally, think about the sensations, not the goal of reaching orgasm.

I probably should try to find a girl to experiment with in real life.

analog

Medical note: Sustaining a single erection for more than 4 hours is unhealthy for the tissues in the penis. Blood only has so much oxygen in it, and with extended erections the blood in the penis isn't circulating back out, it's staying in there the whole time, which means the tissues will use up all available oxygen and begin to suffer. The lack of oxygen causes damage to erectile tissues and the formation of scar tissue- and can eventually lead to a permanent loss of function. Note that this is for a single, sustained erection- if you have an erection for 2 hours, then lose it, then form another erection, the clock pretty much resets with the new erection. The reason for this is newly oxygenated blood has flowed inside the penis to supply the tissues again.

As for the topic, the "recharge" period is different for everyone. It can be instant, take 5 - 20 minutes, or even an hour or more. I believe most fall in a 5 - 30 minute range, but longer isn't necessarily unheard of. If it's more than an hour or two, talk to your doctor to be sure there isn't another factor that is causing the delay. Psychological arousal can also play a role in the recharge period.

Some men find that after starting a relationship, their recharge time decreases. I know that for myself, the recharge time can be up to 10 minutes at first, but goes to almost zero once i've been with a girl for a little while. Psychology plays a substantial role, even in males, in sexual arousal.

Redlemon

When I'm done, I don't feel like going further. I get it right the first time.

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doncalypso

After sex wash your dick off with soap and water and have her give you some head... that should get your soldier standing at attention soon enough.

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WhiteKoopa

Washing your dick with soap isn't the best idea, I suppose it would give it a soapy taste. There's no real need to wash it, unless she doesn't like the taste of semen (which she should >_>).

GoldenOuroboros

Oral definetly, I unfortunately come before she does.. when we were on holiday I asked her to go down on me, yeah it's abit sensitive but it works great

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Rodney

Everybody's different. When I was younger (I'm at the half-century mark) I could go again in a few minutes, with a little stimulation with my sweetie. But I knew guys who could just do it the once and had to wait a good long while.

Guys above the age of 21 or so who can go routinely go three times in an hour are fairly rare, although I'm sure somebody here will shout "me, me!" I tried it a few times, and though I could sometimes keep it hard on the third try back in those days, there really wasn't anything left to give, and it was more like work than anything else.

Chemicals will help, of course, but if you're under 30 and want to try those, I'd consult with people here about dosages or you might end up with the dreaded four-hour hardon.

Speaking naturally, the best thing for extra stamina is to have taken in a lot of high protein, high-energy food earlier in the day. Protein, baby, with good carbs and not a little fat. Eating a heavy meal right before sex is not a good idea, but having serious reserves on board does help with stamina and your ability to come more than once in a short time. For me, sex and hunger are a bad combo.

VirFighter

Thanks for all the tips and the sound advice.

I think I would like to try some type of herbal supplement or viagra-type drug... however how would someone like my age go about getting it? Is it by prescription only? Also I assume dosage amounts should be way less than the normal. Can anyone provide some guidance on this subject?

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