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balinksi · 06-12-2006, 07:07 AM

Speaking from experence. Several things to remember when dating a lady with a child

1.You must love children and must be ready to not only spend time with the child mom but the child itself.

2. The child will and should come first in the ladies mind. You have to be prepared for missed dates etc. You have to be ready to move on the fly with things. For instance your romantic dinner could turn into pizza at her place because the child is sick etc.

3. I hate to say this but you have to find out about the child's father. If the father is envolved in the child's life and if the lady is on speaking terms etc. This situation can cause alot of problems. Especially if their breakup is realitivly fresh and if her ex is a jealous type

My relationship with the lady I dated who had a child was a good relationship. The sex was great, she was a really nice person, we found out though after about six or eight months we were not compatiable. I did spend some time with her daughter and felt bad when I did finally break it off with her mom but it was a decision that had to be made.

06-12-2006, 07:07 AM	#41 (permalink)
balinksi Upright	Speaking from experence. Several things to remember when dating a lady with a child 1.You must love children and must be ready to not only spend time with the child mom but the child itself. 2. The child will and should come first in the ladies mind. You have to be prepared for missed dates etc. You have to be ready to move on the fly with things. For instance your romantic dinner could turn into pizza at her place because the child is sick etc. 3. I hate to say this but you have to find out about the child's father. If the father is envolved in the child's life and if the lady is on speaking terms etc. This situation can cause alot of problems. Especially if their breakup is realitivly fresh and if her ex is a jealous type My relationship with the lady I dated who had a child was a good relationship. The sex was great, she was a really nice person, we found out though after about six or eight months we were not compatiable. I did spend some time with her daughter and felt bad when I did finally break it off with her mom but it was a decision that had to be made.