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Infinite_Loser · 05-07-2006, 12:18 PM

Basically it's like this. Sometimes my girlfriend will start to make moves on me (Touching, kissing, dirty talk, teasing etc. etc.) to let me know she's on the mood for some lovin', but when I go to make a move she claims that's she's not in the mood and/or gets mad at me for only being interested in sex. Of couse, there are times when I don't make a move at her and she gets mad at me because she deems herself as undesirable. Well, I'm not a damn mind reader. I try talking to her about it but she just denies ever doing it. It's like a lose-lose situation.

Anyway, it's really starting to piss me off. I can't tell what she's thinking and when I try to talk to her but to no avail. So yeah, any insight would be appreciated.

la petite moi · 05-07-2006, 12:25 PM

Your girlfriend sounds like me, sadly. Girls love flirting, and they love when their significant other flirts back- WITHOUT it having to end in sex. At least, that's how it is in my case.

visotech · 05-07-2006, 01:16 PM

Whenever this happens you might as well flip a coin on wether you should have sex or cuddle...for her its a win win situation, for you, you'll never understand whats in her head

ratbastid · 05-07-2006, 02:00 PM

I've been married almost 11 years. When you figure women out, do me a favor--PM me and explain them, okay?

Seriously, the mystery is part of why they're so interesting to us. I get bored with things I understand completely.

Sultana · 05-07-2006, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by la petite moi

Girls love flirting, and they love when their significant other flirts back- WITHOUT it having to end in sex. At least, that's how it is in my case.

Yeah, I know. But sometimes it helps to define flirting. Me walking nekkie across the room to grab clothes after a shower is not actually me signaling that I want to be the three-inch target of a buffalo stampede, heh.

Sharon · 05-08-2006, 02:21 AM

Try giving her mixed signals back, and pull back after flirting with her... i.e. kiss her, then instead of going further, just stop and continue talking, until she makes another move. Drives me absolutely crazy, and before I know it I'm practically devouring him.

05-07-2006, 12:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
Infinite_Loser Junkie Location: Lake Mary, FL	Mixed signals: I don't understand women Basically it's like this. Sometimes my girlfriend will start to make moves on me (Touching, kissing, dirty talk, teasing etc. etc.) to let me know she's on the mood for some lovin', but when I go to make a move she claims that's she's not in the mood and/or gets mad at me for only being interested in sex. Of couse, there are times when I don't make a move at her and she gets mad at me because she deems herself as undesirable. Well, I'm not a damn mind reader. I try talking to her about it but she just denies ever doing it. It's like a lose-lose situation. Anyway, it's really starting to piss me off. I can't tell what she's thinking and when I try to talk to her but to no avail. So yeah, any insight would be appreciated.

05-07-2006, 12:25 PM	#2 (permalink)
la petite moi Filling the Void. Location: California	Your girlfriend sounds like me, sadly. Girls love flirting, and they love when their significant other flirts back- WITHOUT it having to end in sex. At least, that's how it is in my case.

05-07-2006, 01:16 PM	#3 (permalink)
visotech Insane Location: San Diego, CA	Whenever this happens you might as well flip a coin on wether you should have sex or cuddle...for her its a win win situation, for you, you'll never understand whats in her head

05-07-2006, 02:00 PM	#4 (permalink)
ratbastid Darth Papa Location: Yonder	I've been married almost 11 years. When you figure women out, do me a favor--PM me and explain them, okay? Seriously, the mystery is part of why they're so interesting to us. I get bored with things I understand completely.

05-08-2006, 02:21 AM	#6 (permalink)
Sharon Coy, sultry and... naughty! Location: Across the way	Try giving her mixed signals back, and pull back after flirting with her... i.e. kiss her, then instead of going further, just stop and continue talking, until she makes another move. Drives me absolutely crazy, and before I know it I'm practically devouring him.