I took it as pulling out and having her finish you off rather than that. There isn't much for the girl to swallow if she's just sucking it off of you.

What about after anal sex? Do you want the guy to cum on your butt cheeks or do you want him to cum inside you then?

depends on the guy ;)

sweetpea

Inside.

sweetpea

:thumbsup:

Sounds good to me

I'm both pro and anti. Cumming on my wife (body or face) seems really hot, right up until the moment that I do it. Then, as soon as I'm done, it's just a mess that needs to be cleaned up. I guess I like the idea better than the execution. I've stopped with facials, and only with a "tit job" that goes to completion do I cum on my wife anymore.

To cum on my face or not to cum on my face?
 

I am going to sound like the biggest prude compared to the rest of the ladies out here but to be fair I am only 19 and have only been in the big world of sexual deviance for a year and a half. My present boyfriend is an amazing lover (as far as I can tell) and I love making him cum inside of me, I don't like the idea of facials or swallowing though, I prefer a good sink spit and Listerine afterwards. My previous boyriend however thought, because both of us were virgins, that I would just love getting the shit sprayed all over my person. One time he was trying to cum on my chest, aimed high and got me right in the eye. My contact was bonded to my cornea. To make a long story short I don't think men and women would have those kind of ideas if it wasn't for the increase in pornography lambasting us daily. I love feeling dirty, not degraded. :crazy:

I agree that the hottest thing in the world is a woman passionately wanting her man, and her man in return doing every thing he can to please her. The closest I've gotten to giving a facial was a time when I pulled out with the intent to finish on her back, but one shot landed on the side of her cheek. We were both standing in the shower so it was a bit shocking the range I got. But the visual was SO hot!

I actually prefer when she's doing the coming on me. ;)

I don't find cumming on my woman's face a turn on and I usually don't like facial porn. But, if she had the attitude of little tippler I think it would turn me on incredibly. If she wanted it, and it would make her even hornier, I would do it without thinking twice.

I have done it before..in the heat of sexy moments i do not care about mess, if i love a guy nothin degrades me..i usually feel in control during sex..and cum usuallly tastes nice..i will say usuallybecause i have had some whom taste weird..for want of better words.

i *love* watchin a guys face when he cums..thats all that i really would say matters!

Oddly, of all the things we've done, I don't think he's ever given me a facial. Hmmmm. I don't know if it's something he wants to do. :confused:

I laughed out loud on that one. I can just imagine someone jacking off behind a couch and then blowing it all over your GF's face out of nowhere. Ha ha ha ha!!!!!! That would be so gross.

I can sorta see how it would be erotic, but I don't get why you'd want to do it physically. Physically speaking, going off in my GF's mouth or vagina is waay more pleasing than with my hand or her hand. Any erotica-ness would be negated by the mere fact that it wouldn't feel as good as regular oral or vaginal sex.

My exwife let me do it, but my girlfriend doesnt, bummer. Anyways, I would rather cum on a girls face than anyother place on/in her body. I might be an ass for thinking this way, but I think it's degrading, and I like it that way. Its almost like a game for me to see how messy I can get her face.

Well hey, at least you're honest. :lol: Not that I share your opinion, but there's something to be said for just 'fessing up to why it turns you on. (Have you told your girlfriend this?)

I'm in the pro-facial and anti-facial category, depending on circumstances. I'm not a big fan of facials in porn because they're so cheesy and the girl doesn't always seem to be too into it, but in real life neither my wife or I have a problem with it and it's just another (infrequent) part of our sex life. Probably 95% of the time I usually come insider her (either pussy or ass) if I'm fucking her, or I come in her mouth if I'm jerking off or she's going down on me, the other times I'll shoot it somewhere on her like her face or tits. We do a lot of D/lg play so sometimes it is a dominating act, but it's always consentual and enjoyed.

The "Oooooooh yeah, take it bitch!" of the porn facial needs to fucking die, though.

I don't like the degrading aspect. Dominance is different from degrading. I don't find facials very appealing, and while I'll do it for you (btw for the reading public, livewirerc and I are married) it's not something that turns me on.

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To be honest, I don't even like looking at facials, I think it is a sick perverse way of a man showing dominance over a woman. I think it belittles the woman and I just can not be attracted to that in any way shape or form.

Granted some women and men get into that, but there are far better ways.

I am divided on the issue of facials..I think that there is a certain aspect of degredation in the act when it is presented in mainstream porn. This I am not a fan of. I think that it can do alot to damage a woman's self image, and reinforce a negative perception of women in the psyche of certain men. This is especially true with the younger crowd I guess. Porn is really pushing it these days.

However, I'm a young guy and I won't deny that I enjoy seeing the occasional facial, it's meant to be visually stimulating. As long as you can look at these things and know that they are as much a fantasy as any hollywood movie I think its ok. If you maintain a respectfull attitude in your relationship with a woman, be they wife or girlfriend or whatever I dont think that there should be any issue with the whole facial thing. Its meant for sexuall enjoyment, harmless fun and thats all.

The only major issue with facial porn I have is the near constant lack of enjoyment on the part of the model. That is not the right approach to take in my book. Pornstar or not, all sex acts should be enjoyed by both parties. Or failing that the man should do something of equal value for the woman.

just my 2 cents lol.

This was a good link to revive. I never knew how much men loved facials until an old lover sent me some real hot videos of ones that got him off. I've never had one but I would have with him just because it looks so messy, hotly erotic and "bad". But I admit I've wondered if the degradation part would be hard for me to accept.

I won't know till I finally try it. Maybe someday....Good thing that I have a wild spirit and love freaky sex!

How do other ladies feel about it? If your man needs to do it, are you happy to play along or does it piss you off becuase it's either messy or gives "weird vibes"?

If she enjoys it and finds it sexy, then so do I and we have a great and hot time.

If she doesn't like it or sees it as demeaning, then it makes it very unsexy for me and so not worth doing i.e. it's just one big turn off for everyone.

Anything can be seen as demeaning.. whether it actually is or not, depends on the intentions of the people.

You can give out of love and receive out of love.

You can give out of lust and receive out of lust.

You can give out of resentment and receive out of resentment.

You both make it what it is.

Facials? Been there, done that a few times but not at the top of the list of my favorite things. Yes it's sexy and it's cool to see a guy orgasm, but he'd better make sure she has had a few orgasms first...or have the stamina to do the deed again for her.

It's all good. Enjoy it!

Giving a facial is not important to me. If she asks for it then I am fine with doing it, but it is not something I desire doing.

I'm a female, and I love facials. Well, I love having a load blown on me. If I had a choice, I'd be whimpering, begging for him to come inside of me and have him pull out, tell me I don't deserve it, and blow on my face or pussy. Preferably the latter. But face is second best. Falling asleep with several loads on your face/back/chest is also great. Forgetting to shower in the morning... well, it happens.

I'd be incredibly disappointed if I had a partner who wouldn't come on me.

I have to say I was very much pro-facial until I did it. The visual was great, but I much rather like cumming inside my wifey or have her swallow.

Haven't found anything to beat that feeling, yet. :thumbsup:

I am an anti-facial man, it is not sexy for me. I can see both sides of the debate, some women see it as sexy and some see it as degrading. I am indifferent to it in porn, it doesn't turn me off or on.

I have never given a girl a facial (on purpose) but I have cummed all over the rest of the female form. Tits, back, chest, stomach, legs, whatever I happen to hit when I pulled out. I've cum on a girl's chest before as a request, but I don't get any more pleasure out of it beyond the pleasure I get from slinging some baby batter out of my liberation cannon. I don't pull out for fun, I pull out for the fact I don't want a podling busting out of her body 9 months later.

I've done a bit of things in bed I found no pleasure in because the girl I was having sex with wanted it. BDSM, spanking, pain (giving and receiving), dirty talk, I don't get into these acts (Let's be honest here, I'm pretty vanilla when it comes to sex). The other side of this coin is the fact that I will do almost anything for the female allowing me to take my beef bus site seeing around tuna town.

Bascially, I don't get into it, but I'll do it if the girl wants it.

i love cumming on a girl's face
but
not if she's not into it, then it kills the mood
i do however, love it when a girl begs me to cum on her face
fuck yeah

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i'm just pro filth basically
i wanna cum on her face i want her to squirt on mine
i want a constantly revolving line up of bedsheets and kitchen towels

I don’t find any consensual sex acts to be degrading. If everyone has agreed, then it’s a go-ahead. I am a pro-facial female, only because I am a rare visual female (yes, we exist) and like to see the end product. I don’t find it empowering, as much as polite, to accept sexual requests from your partner that are not beyond your comfort level. This one is no big deal to me. Nothing is a bigger turn off to me than those who find body fluids to be icky or who get up to shower immediately. I find cum to be a positive extension of a person and think it is insulting to wince or flee if you get a little in your hair.

I want a partner who doesn’t give a shit what it takes to get off.