It does feel better without a condom... but the stress about the possibility of pregnancy kinda dampens the enthusiasm a little.

This point pretty much sums it up.

And there wouldn't be as many of these procedures done annually....so you are obviously not alone.

once you have sex with no condom, youll never go back. at least for the guy, sex with a condom is like a prison. not even the thinest, most lubbed up, get the feeling condom can compare.

True..... true. I couldn't have said it better.

I'm going to echo everyone else and say that it feels much better without, that is, sans rubber. But at the same time we stupidly had sex without one on and before she went on the pill once. Let me say that even though I pulled out Long before I came we spent the next week shaking and saying "So... no period huh? Thats... *pukes up shards of own pelvis*" Yeah... don't take the risk, use a condom, no matter how great it feels. With a condom you last longer and you still feel great.

So I have been on birth control for several monthes. My boyfriend and I started going without a condom about a monthe after I had been on it (safety measures to make sure the bc was in full effect). But it is incredible. It is soooo much better without a condom. He really enjoys it as I love it too. The only thing I recommend is having a serious talk about stds, that is if he has had a sexual history with other people, just be safe about things; you know the usual. But I love it and will never go back. The only downfall is when you first go on it because he will have to get "use to things feeling so much better." My boyfriend had to work up a tolerance so he could last. I would suggest maybe trying sex two or three times in one day when you first try without a condom. It may take two or three times in a day before you are able to orgasm because chances are he won't be able to last long enough to please you at first.

Good luck with it all! :)

i think that most women probably don't notice a difference, but i personally think it's better without. you can feel the body heat and skin-to-skin contact better, which imo is a turnon. but anyway, you can get condoms built for better pleasure if you can't/don't want to get on the pill...

Hmmmm Well I've had unprotected sex, but I've never had someone actually cum inside me. I still have yet to experience that. The few times 'it' was naked...IT FELT SO F-ING GOOD!!!!! AAAHHHHHH Sure there are consequences, so just be careful with your ass! :)

two girls i know have gotten pregnant on the pill and they were both tramatic experiences

Just noting that most girls that get pregnant while on the pill do not use it correctly! There are a number of factors to take into consideration while using it. It is the same as with any medication. Follow directions exactly as instructed and contact your doctor with any irregularities that cause concern. I've known many girls that said they thought something wasn't an issue.

Also, in this situation, why was it such a traumatic experience? Being pregnant of having the child? I know age and future can play an important role. But then again, I think it's bullshit for a parent to beat their child and force them into a situation they do not need to be in when an abortion should be the legitimate response.

I got snipped several years back and I can say that its much better for both of us without the condom. And we don't have to worry about unwanted pregnancies

Well we do use condoms (...sometimes) and of course we like it A LOT better without them! Having said that we are married, have one child and plan to have more so messing around on occasion without protection is not a big deal for us, but I'm sure you know the risks of not using some sort of BC.
I was on the pill before and had a lot of complications and now I'm afraid of trying other things so at least for right now condoms is the only way to go. (Even though it feels better without I still fully enjoy myself and I don't really care at the time)