11-23-2003, 01:13 AM | #1 (permalink) |
Psycho
Location: Tampa
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What's keeping you Alive
I know some people are driven to suicide because they think they lack anything worth living for, but I was wondering what motivates people here to go about thier day-to-day lives. For me it's the hope that in the future, I'll be enlightened spiritually and that I'll create something beautiful. Sounds corny but it comes from the heart.
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11-23-2003, 01:29 AM | #2 (permalink) |
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I am kept alive by revolt against the absurd (and this came before reading any Camus or other philosophy).
I realized that the fundamental problem of suicide couldn't be answered with "yes" when I was in 7th grade because it didn't get rid of the problem of not having a greater meaning to my life. Killing myself said "I don't know why I'm alive and it isn't worth it". Staying alive said "I don't know why I'm alive but I'm willing to keep searching because I don't know if it is worth it." After reading "The Myth of Sisyphus" by Camus this put my rudamental philosophy is clear terms. If Sisyphus can engage in absurd meaningless activity for all eternity and be happy because he is doing it in scorn of his fate, then I can be happy doing things I choose for myself. So, the short answer. Living in the face of knowing that existence is absurd gives me the power and strength to get through each day. My creativity and passion for making the most of my opportunities is key to making my life meaningful on a day to day basis. Now the idea of anything greater than myself governing for me a destiny or such I find abhorable... I'd much rather be on my own with no given answers. I'd like to create my own answers, one at a time.
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11-23-2003, 02:48 AM | #3 (permalink) |
Sexy eh?
Location: Sweden
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It verry simple for my part. Both life and death has no spiritual meaning to me. The thing with life is that you can create a meaning to it yourself. Since death is the end of life you are not able to create a meaning to it. Living is pointless in the grand view of things but death is even more pointless so I choose life and enjoying the things that makes me happy about living. Death is the ultimate end, it is comming all too soon, no matter what I do.
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11-23-2003, 04:56 AM | #4 (permalink) |
Insane
Location: Within the Woods
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The thought of revenge and the fact that you can't undo death.
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11-23-2003, 08:29 AM | #7 (permalink) |
I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot!
Location: Upper Michigan
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My daughter is one big thing that keeps me going in my every day life. I know what I can do for her is better than many of her other choices. In no way do I envision myself as the perfect parent but I do care for her so very much and try my best.
So often I do what I do each day because it needs to be done. I don't worry about who should be doing it. I do know that if I was gone so much would get left undone and my girl would be loved by one less person. I make myself useful and ultimately needed by what I do.
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11-23-2003, 09:58 AM | #9 (permalink) |
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If my life became too pointless or hopeless, I could easily justify suicide. I'm not going to pretend that my life serves any higher purpose - I don't believe in fate or predestination, and I don't believe in a punishing God. As it stands, I'm doing things that I enjoy and I still have hope that I'll do great things in my future. But if that hope is extinguished I reserve the right to remove myself.
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11-23-2003, 10:35 AM | #10 (permalink) |
Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash
Location: oregon
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my will to live comes from the hope for greater things.
the hope for love. for laughter. for happiness. for peace. for self-actualization and knowing that i have these things with me in my grasp right now. i choose to live because life is full of choices and i believe in free will. i think people are much happier if they believe they have control over things than if they thought everything was fated to them. everything is a choice. learn how to choose mindfully and consciously.
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11-23-2003, 08:49 PM | #16 (permalink) |
The sky calls to us ...
Super Moderator
Location: CT
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Refusing to keep living would be giving up and quitting. I believe in the forces of Good and Evil in a karma-like system, and just letting the evil take over and beat me would be the most cowardly thing I could do, and if there's one thing in life that I can be positive I am not and do not want to be, it's a coward.
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11-23-2003, 10:52 PM | #17 (permalink) |
can't help but laugh
Location: dar al-harb
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if you can't find anything that makes yourself happy, you always have the capacity to make someone else happy. thats a reason to stick around.
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If you will not fight when your victory will be sure and not too costly, you may come to the moment when you will have to fight with all the odds against you and only a precarious chance for survival. There may even be a worse case. You may have to fight when there is no hope of victory, because it is better to perish than to live as slaves. ~ Winston Churchill |
11-23-2003, 11:11 PM | #18 (permalink) |
Banned
Location: UCSD, 510.49 miles from my love
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my g/f is what makes me smile in the morning, live my day, and go to sleep at night.
I was never afraid of dying, and I still aren't really, its just now I do more to try and avoid it, whereas before I never cared. |
11-24-2003, 06:09 AM | #20 (permalink) |
Illusionary
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getting as much done for my soul growth in this life, thereby getting closer to the next level...whatever that may be. Who knows , in a couple more lifetimes I may be an avatar and not need to come back here.
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11-25-2003, 04:48 AM | #21 (permalink) |
Tilted
Location: Athens, Georgia classic city my ass....
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The most tangible thing that keeps me going is my dog/son/little man. He's a black lab that was near death when he came crawling out of the woods and found me. He was about 6 months old and had been shot with birdshot, you could see every rib, he had open sores where he had been left in a muzzle, and was covered in ticks and mange. He's 5 1/2 now and still has horrific nightmares which require me to wake him and he suffers from seperation anxiety. We're like peas and carrots.
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11-25-2003, 10:59 AM | #23 (permalink) |
The Cover Doesn't Match The Book
Location: in a van down by the river
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The curiosity of what might happen tomorrow.
...and pizza
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11-25-2003, 01:53 PM | #24 (permalink) | |
Psycho
Location: Tampa
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11-25-2003, 04:19 PM | #25 (permalink) | |
Psycho
Location: Somewhere just beyond the realm of sanity...
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All i know is that no matter where i am in life i derive joy from my present state of being, as every day is a new day, and i love living it. however the more i get into my life the more i find the workings of some ultimate being... Which sucks, because as a former atheist i lost some of the feeling of being without bound. Not that i buy into one particular church, nor do i see evidence anywhere around me that any earthly gospel has it all figured out, but i've seen enough proof that there has been divine influence in our universe to make me a believer. Life rocks even when it sucks, not my philosphy just how i see things. Dunno how to make people see things they way i do, but if i could there would be a lot more positive people.
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11-25-2003, 04:32 PM | #26 (permalink) | |
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Location: Tampa
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11-25-2003, 06:59 PM | #27 (permalink) |
Crazy
Location: Nova Scotia, Canada
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People have asked me, as an athiest why do I bother living without a given purpose.
Truthfully, as far as I know living has no purpose (aside from the purpose you give it blah blah blah.) My usual answer is: if neither life nor death have purpose, and death will come regardless, what reason would one have to hurry it?
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11-26-2003, 09:06 AM | #28 (permalink) |
Addict
Location: Harlem
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I live because I still find a lot of things fascinating and enjoyable. If I were even incurable bored Id probably die without even having to kill myself.
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11-26-2003, 09:18 PM | #32 (permalink) | |
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11-27-2003, 03:26 PM | #34 (permalink) |
lost and found
Location: Berkeley
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I love book, music, movies, and other forms of entertainment. I love exploring these artistic mediums and sharing what I've found with others. I turned a co-worker on to Bill Hicks and Elliot Smith recently. I think quality literature, film and performance are what keep me constantly interested in society.
As a journalist, I contribute my own observations and work to help people make their own choices and to spur debate. But what really turns me crank right now is thinking about all the social possibilities available to me once I finally move into an apartment in the city. I wonder what lovely lady is going to catch my eye--what she'll be like, what she'll sound like, etc. There is nothing more important than the bonds people make with each other.
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11-27-2003, 04:40 PM | #35 (permalink) |
Free Mars!
Location: I dunno, there's white people around me saying "eh" all the time
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I live cuz I love programming so much that I wanna have sex with Java...
*gets a werid feeling that everybody is looking at him* What!?
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12-02-2003, 01:15 AM | #40 (permalink) |
Crazy
Location: Anchorage Alaska
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You know, I think my family and friends and music is was keeps me alive. I have had some very sh!tty days in my 19 years of existance. I've been in trouble with johnny-law, have had my share of ups and downs with relationships. But being able to talk to friends and family then being able to listen to music to relieve anger works great...
ALSO Little Nemo... "Just keep swimming" ...etc that is the best advice EVER!!!!
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