raeanna74

I know this sounds nuts. I have had nightmares about it though and I can't seem to shake the imaginations that I keep coming up with. I've discovered bits and pieces of the history of this house since we've moved in. Mostly from neighbors. My sense of foreboding is that (I know I"m crazy) there's something about the location or house that could cause us trouble, not really the same kind but perhaps something will go wrong. Yeah it's probably just my anxiety about the responsibility of owning a home now. Here's what I've learned about the former owners.

There have been over 3 owners in the past that the neighbors have known and none of them have lived here for over 4 years each. The seller we purchased from was Fanny Mae so we have no direct connection to the last residents. Two days after moving in I came home to a yellow note on the front door. It said that a County Sherriff has been by to serve a supeona. I have received letter for the former resident (and sent them back to the sender) from County Victims Witness protection program, Juvinile rehab something or other, and County Courthouse something or other. It's disconcerting at the very least to see these addresses on my mail until I read the person who they've sent it to and realize it's not me. The neighbors have told me that the last father figure who lived here was in jail up until recently. This is disconcerting and we've made sure that the locks are changed. Not that we SHOULD expect him to return here anyway since he's no longer an owner but who knows with criminals. Apparently the reason he was jailed was because he had molested he teenage daughter who is supposedly now around 18 years old. One of the neighbors said that even though she was here for several months before the last family had to move that she NEVER actually meet the mother who lived here and that the woman always seemed cranky and unfriendly. Who knows what stress she may have been under but still. Yes their problems are theirs not ours but with the multiple previous owners being unable to maintain possession of their home for more than 4 years and then the obvious upset from having government mail in the box or police at the door... I can't help but feel uneasy.

Is there anything you can say to help rid me of the feeling of dread? Perhaps any tips on making sure our family is safe?

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Willravel

My advise is that you not worry. Just make sure you have good strong doors and deadbolts, and that's all you can do. If you are still worried after that, try to get in contact with the police about your safty. Don't let your worry take over.

mrdarcy

Stop visiting the Tilted Paranoia thread would be a good place to start.

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raeanna74

lol Actually I rarely come here or post here. It's just been upsetting to learn what I have about the former owners. ALMOST makes me feel like there's something about the house itself that causes the "insanity." I know logically that can't be but it's hard for me to shake the "Feeling" by myself.

Also if I were to express my concern to the police, what in the world would I tell them? I've not been expressely threatened by former residents. I'm just fearing what I've imagined based on information I've received.

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rfra3645

pot marryjane hell maybe even crushed rids (ritlin)....

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weapon26

I wouldn't worry at all. I've known many people who have lived in houses less than 4 years. Considering the thread, your title made me believe you discovered your house was built on indian burial grounds. Then I would say get out.

Fire

remember this- whatever happened there before, it is now YOUR house- I tend to agree with the idea of "bad vibes" but I also feel that these can be countered- throw a housewarming party- fill the place with "good vibes" , and as important, your vibes- make the place yours- some friends have had simmilar probs, and this kind of thing seems to drive whatever bad "residue" is creating the feelings of foreboading- concerns about former owners are legitimate, so changes of locks and such are a good idea-

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neutone

Hold a bad vibration expulsion ceremony. Create a ritual of it, with 'magic' flowers candles and music. I'm not suggesting sacrificing goats or anything, or even violating your own personal religious beliefs, but making a symbolic event will hellp you rid yourself of the feeling of doom. I had that feeling, it built up over 2 weeks and culminated with the wheel of my 1966 Kharman Ghia (car) falling off, my car rolling on a busy highway and flying off the road. I had a scratch on a shoulder. I don't believe that I was clairvoyant as much as I created the event itself through negative thought. Disempower your fear. Good luck.

Drider_it

heck couldnt hurt to have a local pastor, or priest bless the house.. even if the majority dosent belive in god or such.. worth a shot. im so alone here heh

anyways.. locks keep honest people out.. if they/him/she/it wants in they will get in.. find a local security system company get your house covered and tanked and not worry..

me i keep several large swords, daggers, large blunt objects, and guns handy for any fool that tries a felony home invasion.. and yeah if they do that you usually by law have every right to stop them by any means nessary in the united states.. just make sure they arent outside when you do this.. not saying you should harm another human being but still the same.

who knows maybe some undetermined force exists that lets off negative vibes constantly to either grow from them or just to exist in that fassion. if so there is always a solution. just search.. did i mention a priest?

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