04-29-2004, 10:33 PM | #1 (permalink) |
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Location: Texas
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Songs for a Funeral
Music is an incredibly important part of my life, it always has been. I'm young, married, and childless right now, so I don't have a will. But I *do* have a CD with songs for my funeral on it. The wife says it's the height of morbity, I think it's just common sense for me. I update it occasionaly, mostly to add a new track or two, but not often.
It's incredibly personal, prehaps one of the most intimate and thought provoking things I've done, so I won't be sharing the complete track list, but I will give a few snipets: Last Stop:This Town by the eels. Boss DJ by sublime and I'm currently in a debate to add the Firefly theme song...if it was over 60 seconds, it would make it in a heart beat, but as it is... Anyway, guess I'm just curious as to if anyone else has done this or not. If it's not to morbid for you, I'd highly suggest it as an excercise, if nothing else.
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04-30-2004, 05:38 AM | #3 (permalink) |
Crazy
Location: thailand
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tom waits - i dont wanna grow up
some explosions in the sky some dirty three calexico - not even stevie nicks... low - sunflower neutral milk hotel - in an aeroplane over the sea rjd2 - ghostwriter the entirety of jim o'rourke - eureka and the last track of jim o'rourke - im happy and im singing and a 1 2 3 4 wilco - ashes of american flags something like that.. |
04-30-2004, 09:16 PM | #6 (permalink) |
Who knows what evil lurks in the hearts of men?
Location: right here of course
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There is always Highway to Hell or Knocking on Heaven's Door depending on the person being buried of course
for my more serious answer, definitely a jazz tune(s) - A New Orleans style wake is my idea of a grand exit.
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04-30-2004, 10:12 PM | #7 (permalink) |
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Radiohead - Bullet Proof (i wish i was...)
Radiohead - Street Spirit (fade out) They Might Be Giants - Dead The Mars Volta - Televators Townes Van Zandt - Waiting 'Round to Die The Beatles - Good Night Sufjan Stevens - Oh God, Where Are You Now? The Smiths - Rubber Ring Porcupine Tree - Heartattack in a Layby Porcupine Tree - Collapse the Light into Earth Opeth - Black Rose Immortal (THAT would make a BAD FUCKING ASS funeral) Modest Mouse - The Stars are Projectors Modest Mouse - The Cold Part Interpol - Say Hello to the Angels Interpol - Hands Away Hopesfall - Escape Pods for Intangibles Glassjaw - Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Silence Glassjaw - Must've Run All Day Glassjaw - When One Eight Becomes Two Zeroes Glassjaw - Convectuoso Gillian Welch - I'm Not Afraid to Die Gillian Welch - Revelator Gillian Welch - I Dream a Highway Chevelle - One Lonely Visitor Bright Eyes - Don't Know When But a Day is Gonna Come (that's a pretty anticlimactic song for a funeral though, based on lyrics) Blindside - Silence Belle & Sebastian - Fuck this Shit (a very pretty instrumental) At the Drive-In - Hourglass At the Drive-In - Non-Zero Possibility At the Drive-In - Napoleon Solo I think all these songs would set a unique and different feel but at the same time be appropriate.
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05-02-2004, 06:29 PM | #12 (permalink) |
Lennonite Priest
Location: Mansfield, Ohio USA
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Days by the KINKS
"Thank you for the days Those sacred days those endless days you gave me I'm thinking of the days I won't forget a single day believe me and though you're gone You're with me every single day believe me......... And Scattered by the KINKS off their last original material release "Phobia"
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05-02-2004, 09:29 PM | #13 (permalink) |
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Location: New Mexico
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The Man Who Sold the World - Nirvana
Hurt - Johnny Cash Tonight, Tonight - Smashing Pumpkins Beautiful World - Rage Against the Machine
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05-02-2004, 11:25 PM | #15 (permalink) |
Huzzah for Welcome Week, Much beer shall I imbibe.
Location: UCSB
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Flock of Seagulls - Sailing Away
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05-03-2004, 07:44 AM | #16 (permalink) |
Insane
Location: Land of milk and honey - Wisconsin
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I don't want any songs played at my funeral. I want there to be utter silence during the funeral itself. I will have spent my entire life dealing with noise...I'd like some quiet, in my death.
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05-04-2004, 01:30 PM | #18 (permalink) |
Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash
Location: oregon
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probably some weird neo-classical like amber asylum.
and tonight, tonight by the smashing pumpkins time is never time at all. you can never ever leave, without leaving a piece of youth.. that quote will always stay with me
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05-08-2004, 05:26 PM | #19 (permalink) |
Psycho
Location: Sinaloa, Mexico
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This would be my funeral mix, I know it seems a little weird:
2pac - Pour out a Little Liquor Nas - Hate Me Now Pantera - Yesterday Don't Mean Shit Pearl Jam - Black Queen - Another One Bites the Dust Staind - Epiphany Three 6 Mafia - Is Anyone Out There? Bone Thugs N Harmony - Crossroads Lupillo Rivera - Tragos Amargos Oasis - Champagne Supernova Outkast - So Fresh So Clean Metallica - Fade to Black Guns N Roses - November Rain Memphis Bleek - They'll Never Play Me Lord Zeppelin - Kashmir Method Man - Judgement Day Zamfir - Lonely Shepherd
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05-10-2004, 01:48 PM | #24 (permalink) |
The Northern Ward
Location: Columbus, Ohio
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I was at a funeral once where an old mans wife passed on. They were married for 40-50ish years, higschool sweethearts.
He played the song he wrote for her to win her over back before they were dating in highschool. It was quite moving.
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05-10-2004, 01:52 PM | #25 (permalink) |
Flavor+noodles
Location: oregon
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LOL another one bites the dust lol
I was thinking some thing like I'll be missing you, you know from Puff daddy maybe that would be cool hummmm I dont know what else I would want,hehehe maybe some thing that would bother ppl when they heard it.
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05-10-2004, 08:35 PM | #26 (permalink) |
In transition
Location: north, no south abit, over to the right, getting warmer...there!
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Just two rules in my books. Do not play "I will remeber you" by Sarah McLachlan. And do not play "I hope you had the time of your life(good riddance)" by Greeday. These songs are sooo overplayed. Every funeral, every graduation I hear these. Me no likey anymore.
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05-11-2004, 11:32 AM | #27 (permalink) |
Drifting
Administrator
Location: Windy City
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10,000 Miles by Mary Chapin Carpenter
2 songs from the Devil's Own Soundtrack
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05-11-2004, 04:55 PM | #30 (permalink) | |
Indifferent to anti-matter
Location: Tucson, AZ
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05-12-2004, 10:28 AM | #33 (permalink) |
Dubya
Location: VA
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Having been to way more than my fair share of funerals, I'd have to say Taps by a lone bugler, or Amazing Grace by a lone bagpiper are the best, and most appropriate, and never overdone.
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05-12-2004, 09:08 PM | #34 (permalink) |
Oh dear God he breeded
Location: Arizona
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Well, for mine, all my friends know that I am a big Sisters of Mercy fan, so just through one of their CDs on and let it go at that. Kevin Gilbert's "Song for a Dead Friend" is a great one if you want everyone there to have a nervous break down right on the spot though. That song HURTS...
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05-15-2004, 04:49 AM | #36 (permalink) |
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Location: Tokyo
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anything by the Bay City Rollers, or KC and the Sunshine Band.
i'm thinking, thats the way i like it (KC+Sunshine Band) when they're all entering the church or wherever they hold it (hope its not in a church, maybe i should specify that)... then, i only want to be with you (Bay City Rollers) when they're all leaving to see my body go down the chute on its way to being cremated. after that, there will be get down tonight (KC again) as they leave. fun all round.
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05-15-2004, 11:14 PM | #38 (permalink) | |
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Location: Florida
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She told me he once went driving around in one of their hearses with the windows down blasting "Another One Bites the Dust". I hadn't yet met him at the time, but I instantly approved of him right then and there. |
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05-17-2004, 12:38 AM | #39 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: San Jose
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Vincent (Starry Starry Night) by Don McClean. A good aquaintence of mine took his own life, and his father sang this song at the funeral. It was easily the most emotional moment I have ever witness or will likely witness again.
Other good songs include: John Frusciante - Song to Sing When I'm Lonely Slowreader - Anesthetic For The Amputee Postal Service - There's Never Enough Time and, of course Kansas - Dust In The Wind |
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