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Coll Storm · 07-06-2004, 09:10 PM

Protecting the innocent.

maleficent · 07-07-2004, 05:08 AM

I'm missing something to the story but I'm not sure what...

Is she in any sort of 12 step program? One of the steps is to make amends to those you believe you have wronged. That's almost what this sounds like.

Jesus Pimp · 07-07-2004, 05:59 AM

How old are you?

la petite moi · 07-07-2004, 08:06 AM

Well, you're thirty-four and she's nineteen- she probably started to think about that HUGE age difference. Maybe you guys just didn't click, in her mind. Don't stress about it. She was your friend, but not a great friend because she couldn't deal with long distance and all that.

Astrocloud · 07-07-2004, 09:51 AM

I'm not really getting the whole story. Do you live in Boston? Did you travel far to hang out with her? Is there really an age difference?

Personally from the little that I gather thusfar -I think that she is lonely and could use your friendship. Be a little more forward and don't let her blow you off unless she says "go away".

Cynthetiq · 07-07-2004, 01:12 PM

move on... it's been over 90 days. let sleeping dogs lie.

ratbastid · 07-07-2004, 05:28 PM

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Originally posted by Cynthetiq
move on... it's been over 90 days. let sleeping dogs lie.

I'm with C on this one. The statute of limitations has passed. Accept her apology and move on.

Journeyman · 07-07-2004, 06:47 PM

I don't get it. She climbs into bed with you, and then freaks out and doesn't talk to you for a year, then apologizes for hurting you?

Just thank her for her concern and ask her what really happened.

Jackebear · 07-08-2004, 02:43 PM

Just say "no worries...I hope your doing well and good luck to you". Finished. She obviously isn't your soul-mate and you have no big feelings for her, so don't worry so much.

Have fun in Boston.

Coll Storm · 07-09-2004, 09:42 PM

Protecting the innocent.

braindamage351 · 07-17-2004, 07:33 PM

She dumped you but didn't have the balls to make a clean break. That's what it seems like to me at least.

Manic_Skafe · 07-17-2004, 09:00 PM

Sounds like she was feeling you out before, didn't like what she felt and was dodging you. She probably felt remorse and wanted to come clean. In any case, you should make sure there's as much distance between you and her at all times.

She sounds rather heartless to me.

07-06-2004, 09:10 PM	#1 (permalink)
Coll Storm Crazy Location: Boston	Confused in Boston. This time life related, not work. Protecting the innocent. Last edited by Coll Storm; 08-18-2006 at 11:10 AM..

07-07-2004, 05:08 AM	#2 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	I'm missing something to the story but I'm not sure what... Is she in any sort of 12 step program? One of the steps is to make amends to those you believe you have wronged. That's almost what this sounds like. __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

07-07-2004, 05:59 AM	#3 (permalink)
Jesus Pimp The Original JizzSmacka	How old are you? __________________ Never date anyone who doesn't make your dick hard.

07-07-2004, 01:12 PM	#6 (permalink)
Cynthetiq Tilted Cat Head Administrator Location: Manhattan, NY	move on... it's been over 90 days. let sleeping dogs lie. __________________ I don't care if you are black, white, purple, green, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, hippie, cop, bum, admin, user, English, Irish, French, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim, indian, cowboy, tall, short, fat, skinny, emo, punk, mod, rocker, straight, gay, lesbian, jock, nerd, geek, Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent, driver, pedestrian, or bicyclist, either you're an asshole or you're not. What's the best nation in the world? DO-NATION!

07-08-2004, 02:43 PM	#9 (permalink)
Jackebear Insane	Just say "no worries...I hope your doing well and good luck to you". Finished. She obviously isn't your soul-mate and you have no big feelings for her, so don't worry so much. Have fun in Boston. __________________ Life's jounney is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well-preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn-out shouting, "Holy sh*t! What a ride!" - unknown

07-07-2004, 08:06 AM	#4 (permalink)
la petite moi Filling the Void. Location: California	Well, you're thirty-four and she's nineteen- she probably started to think about that HUGE age difference. Maybe you guys just didn't click, in her mind. Don't stress about it. She was your friend, but not a great friend because she couldn't deal with long distance and all that.

07-07-2004, 09:51 AM	#5 (permalink)
Astrocloud Apocalypse Nerd	I'm not really getting the whole story. Do you live in Boston? Did you travel far to hang out with her? Is there really an age difference? Personally from the little that I gather thusfar -I think that she is lonely and could use your friendship. Be a little more forward and don't let her blow you off unless she says "go away".

07-07-2004, 06:47 PM	#8 (permalink)
Journeyman Like John Goodman, but not. Location: SFBA, California	I don't get it. She climbs into bed with you, and then freaks out and doesn't talk to you for a year, then apologizes for hurting you? Just thank her for her concern and ask her what really happened.

07-09-2004, 09:42 PM	#10 (permalink)
Coll Storm Crazy Location: Boston	Protecting the innocent. Last edited by Coll Storm; 08-18-2006 at 11:12 AM..

07-17-2004, 07:33 PM	#11 (permalink)
braindamage351 Insane	She dumped you but didn't have the balls to make a clean break. That's what it seems like to me at least.

07-17-2004, 09:00 PM	#12 (permalink)
Manic_Skafe More Than You Expect Location: Queens	Sounds like she was feeling you out before, didn't like what she felt and was dodging you. She probably felt remorse and wanted to come clean. In any case, you should make sure there's as much distance between you and her at all times. She sounds rather heartless to me. __________________ "Porn is a zoo of exotic animals that becomes boring upon ownership." -Nersesian