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neddy65 09-01-2003 05:42 AM

If I had it all to do over again.....
 
I would have found a way to finish my degree AND support my new family.

you get the idea, now lets here some regrets..... or not:D

Spidey 09-01-2003 06:24 AM

Holding back feelings for a few girls back at high school. Not putting as much effort into school related things. Regret not taking up singing earlier in life.

But as robbie williams puts it
NO REGRETS
THEY DON'T WORK

Cynthetiq 09-01-2003 06:46 AM

I don't have any yet, knock wood.

Nefir 09-01-2003 07:04 AM

I regret being such an unsociable dork in school. I could have made alot more friends than I did. And of course holding back feelings for that special girl too. *smacks self*

I regret being lazy with my classes and screwing up my average. I could be in alot better a college than I am now, but thats what happens when my adult future is dictated by decisions made as a kid.

I think thats all for now.. I am sure i have more.

skinbag 09-01-2003 07:32 AM

I regret not knowing what to do with myself, both then and now..Career anyone?

kurty[B] 09-01-2003 07:39 AM

I regret thinking I had a well to do job graduating from high school, and because of this thinking college wasn't necessary at the time.

Got layed off, didn't have enough experience nor schooling to get an equivalent paying job, and have been making up for it since, but that gave me the initiative to go to school decide what I'd really like to do in live, and well be more responsible with both my work and my schooling. If I went to college right after high school I probably would have fucked up my classes like a good amount of my friends did.

So, not really sure I regret those decisions.

Rodney 09-01-2003 03:24 PM

....I'd have bought a 500 shares of Microsoft back in '84, cheap, and sold 'em in '99. I'd be a modest millionaire.

Thought about it, didn't do it.

anti fishstick 09-01-2003 04:26 PM

i don't regret anything because they always turn into learning experiences.

nowthen 09-01-2003 04:53 PM

Really Robbie was right: regrets don't work! Learn what lessons you can if you fuck up, move on, don't repeat the same mistakes twice!

Jonsgirl 09-01-2003 05:00 PM

You can learn from mistakes and still regret them. God knows I do.
If I had it to do over again, I'd never have been unfaithful.

Flippy 09-01-2003 09:57 PM

I would not have spent so much time on IRC. It ate up so much of my time that I could have used on much more productive things. Oh well, I'm off it now, and hopefully will be for a while.

EDIT: I probably should explain that I was totally addicted to IRC for a while - to the point where it was creating arguments with my parents and, I wasn't doing a lot of the things I now would like to do... like enjoy the outdoors, and work out.

sexymama 09-02-2003 05:46 AM

I would have divorced years before knowing that people's basic personalities don't change and things would not improve.

yoshi 09-02-2003 10:37 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by skinbag
I regret not knowing what to do with myself, both then and now..Career anyone?
Me too and finishing college

jbrooks544 09-02-2003 04:20 PM

This is a great subject! My main goal in life is to not have any regrets. My only regret is that I smoked for so many years. It would be nice to be around long enough for my kids to grow old with me... I'll stop soon, I swear!

Sure there are always small things that you might have wanted to do differently, but it is a great goal to look back and say that you don't regret a thing - take me now!

bundy 09-02-2003 05:56 PM

i wouldn´t have gotten so caught up in my last two relationships.... that was three years, in which i hardly even saw my best mate.

feels like i´m still catching up socially with my friends...and plus, it wouldn´t have hurt so much when they ended.

any other regrets?

nope.

Splice 09-02-2003 06:11 PM

My regret is that I sat too long on the sidelines and watched life pass me by. I was waiting for something exciting to come by and whisk me away. Now, I'm in the process of changing all this. In about 2 weeks, I should find out. All I know is that things are going to be VERY different. Man, I am soooo EXCITED! :D

Battlefield 09-02-2003 10:11 PM

would have put more effort in University...instead I just coasted through--a lazy loner. And not a day goes by that I don't regret it and wish I could be 18 again with who I am now.

laxative 09-03-2003 12:58 AM

I'd wear a rubber.

neddy65 09-03-2003 05:52 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by laxative
I'd wear a rubber.

:D Heehee, not wearing one got me that new family I mentioned in the start of this Thread :lol:

Dano069 09-03-2003 07:18 AM

I regret not being more outgoing in grade and high school. Limited my dating options severely. I also regret not holding onto my friends. I also regret that they didn't want to keep in touch with me and the wife. Their loss really, but still, it hurts.

absorbentishe 09-04-2003 05:11 AM

I wish I would have gone away to school. I wish I would have finished school in 4 years. That's about it for me.

jimk 09-04-2003 09:15 AM

wish i would've finished college. i dropped out to "experience life" (party). now it's a goal of mine to go back & finish up someday, but every year that goes by makes it harder - i'm going to be a 55-yr old junior by the time i get around to it.

World's King 09-04-2003 12:17 PM

I'd wanna be taller.

yournamehere 09-04-2003 04:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by jimk
wish i would've finished college. i dropped out to "experience life" (party). now it's a goal of mine to go back & finish up someday, but every year that goes by makes it harder - i'm going to be a 55-yr old junior by the time i get around to it.
That's my story, too.

People born in the year I started college graduated the same year I did - I "took a semester off" in '73, to hitchhike around the country, and didn't go back to school until '90. Finally graduated in '94.

I blame alcohol. In those 21 years, I managed to drink a whole lifetime's worth. And then some.

O.K. - truthfully, I don't blame alcohol - I blame myself.

jimk 09-05-2003 03:50 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by yournamehere
Finally graduated in '94.


nice finish, man........i hope to catch up to you someday!!

viejo gringo 09-06-2003 01:23 PM

---with age does not come wisdom, only experience--

If I had it to do all over again??? Yea, but I don't know if
my heart could take it---but at least I would go with a
smile on my face---:D

yournamehere 09-06-2003 01:46 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by jimk
nice finish, man........i hope to catch up to you someday!!
Thanks, <b>jimk</b> - and good luck to you.

Each year it gets harder to go back - so do it <b>now</b>
You've got plenty of time to get ready for spring semester.
Don't wait for a "good reason" - do it for <b>yourself</b> - you're a good enough reason, right?

The only good thing about "Gee, I wish I would have . . . " regrets is that you can still do them if you're determined enough.

Minx 09-08-2003 09:20 AM

When I ended my marriage I would have made the ex move out (it was my house) instead of me leaving. Then...I'd still have my property. *sigh*

bender 09-08-2003 10:47 AM

Regrets....I've got a few, but then again to few to mention.
If you have lived and don't have any regrets then I would think that you haven't lived at all.


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