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Anormalguy · 08-15-2009, 08:05 PM

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Originally Posted by soma

Update time!

This girl and I hung out today. We were getting along well early on, but I offered the alcoholic slurpee suggestion and she seemed very very hesitant. We ended up not doing it, but things still went ok with just a little picnic and walk on a beautiful day. When I think about when I was under 21, I'd probably feel as much hesitation as her.

Cool!

allaboutmusic · 08-16-2009, 01:54 AM

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Originally Posted by soma

I'm very much in favor of super casual initial dates, but I'm starting to have second thoughts.
I went to grab a drink with my brother and told him I took a girl to a grocery store for a second date. He was a bit floored.
I think if I see this girl again, I'll take her out to a proper dinner.

Super casual dates have always worked well for me, but I always make sure we have a GREAT time. Being silly, teasing, behaving like kids is an important part of my game on a super casual date.

soma · 08-16-2009, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by allaboutmusic

Super casual dates have always worked well for me, but I always make sure we have a GREAT time. Being silly, teasing, behaving like kids is an important part of my game on a super casual date.

I totally agree about the silly/teasing/behaving like kids part. It's really cute though, this girl is a little shy and whenever I jab her with a joke, she just takes it, which is no fun. It only works if the girl has at least a little fight in her, right

allaboutmusic · 08-16-2009, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by soma

I totally agree about the silly/teasing/behaving like kids part. It's really cute though, this girl is a little shy and whenever I jab her with a joke, she just takes it, which is no fun. It only works if the girl has at least a little fight in her, right

As long as you make sure you aren't tearing her to pieces I think you'll be fine. Save that for the ones that spar back, that's a hell of a lot of fun.