04-30-2006, 11:57 AM | #1 (permalink) | |
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Being Present
Somehow, I ended up on a mailing list, that occassionally, depending on my state of psychosis for that moment, has an interesting article in it... Today's article was on being present... The author is a "life coach", so my cynical side says take this all with a grain of salt...
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Do you find yourself being "present" and do you find it helps to achive that piece of mind that I think so many are searching for... Does my saying, even to myself, I notice I'm pissed as all get out right now and I want to throw things actually help to improve one's state of mind... or does supressing it and not allowing myself to be pissed and throwing some people/things out actually make the situation worse. How often are you in the present, and do you find it helpful for your state of mind? Or is this a bunch of self-help psych 101 related hooey?
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04-30-2006, 03:38 PM | #2 (permalink) |
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I think projecting how you think things may turn out in the future is a common and expected thing to do. Although you can't predict, I like to prepare myself for the 'wot ifs' in life even if they don't happen.
Plus we learn from past behaviour or events so to keep these lessons that are good examples close would only be natural. Sure, we can attempt to live the present with no obstructions or outside influence, but would we not go around in circles reliving the past then? Otherwise, wouldn't you have done the past differently too? I'm off the track now aren't I. See! - circles.
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Living in the present also means taking the time to do such things as looking introspectively and retrospectively during the times to do so, such as when doing a post mortem on a project, looking back at a situation that went awry, where you took the wrong turn in the directions, etc. Quote:
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04-30-2006, 04:23 PM | #4 (permalink) |
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The more important an event is the less I am in the moment up until the event. If the event has the potential of changing my life drastically I cannot live in the moment until it passes. Once it's passed it's not nearly as disruptive to my state of mind.
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04-30-2006, 06:13 PM | #5 (permalink) | |
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05-01-2006, 02:17 AM | #6 (permalink) | |
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