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Old 03-03-2006, 11:16 AM   #1 (permalink)
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The Health/Relationships Thread

http://www.forbes.com/lifestyle/heal...out531357.html
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Hard Marriages Can Harden Arteries
03.03.06, 12:00 AM ET

FRIDAY, March 3 (HealthDay News) -- Matters of the heart do, in fact, affect the heart.

A new study shows that hardening of the coronary arteries is more likely in wives when their husbands express hostility during marital arguments, and more common in husbands when either he or his spouse acts in a controlling manner.

"Women pay more attention to that friendliness vs. hostility quality, and are more concerned when it's out of line than are men. Men are more interested in issues of control in their lives," explained study author Tim Smith, who is to present the findings Friday at the American Psychosomatic Society meeting in Denver, a conference that deals with the influence of psychological factors on physical health. Smith is a professor of psychology at the University of Utah.

Some 150 healthy married couples, mostly in their 60s, were recruited through newspaper ads and a polling firm, paid $150 to participate, and received a free CT scan to look for calcification in the arteries that supply the heart muscle.

Each couple was told to pick a topic that was a sore subject in their marriage. They were videotaped sitting in comfortable chairs facing each other as they talked about their problems -- money, in-laws, children and so forth.

Graduate students then coded the conversation indicating the extent to which the conversation was friendly vs. hostile, and submissive vs. dominant.

For example, comments like, "You can be so stupid sometimes," or "You're too negative all the time," were coded as hostile and dominant. A warm, submissive comment would be, "Oh that's a good idea, let's do it."

Even while being taped, the couples engaged in some "quite pointed" arguments, said Smith. "Behaving in this way in this six-minute sample is also associated with couples telling us that this happens a lot for them," he said. Some couples were so hostile researchers suggested they go to counseling.

Two days after their discussion, each couple underwent a CT scan of the chest at the University of Utah's Center for Advanced Medical Technologies. Doctors used a standard scale to score each person's level of coronary artery calcification.

"We went looking for the fact that different aspects of the marriage might be important to men's and women's heart health, and I was pleasantly surprised that it was so clear," Smith said.

The researchers factored out traditional risks such as weight and cholesterol levels, and personality indicators that are known to trigger disease. The results said "something about the quality of their relationships," Smith said.

The notion that the tenor of a marriage affects one's health did not come as a surprise to Matthew Silvan, a psychoanalyst and director of Psychocutaneous Medicine at St. Luke's Roosevelt Hospital's department of dermatology in New York City. He specializes in psychology's role in skin diseases.

"The link between the mind and body is something I believe in strongly, and see all the time," he said. While studies such as this one need to be looked at carefully and in general need more supporting data, Silvan said he wasn't surprised men and women react physically to their marriages in different ways.

"For a long time people thought of the mind and body as separate," he said. "And more and more they see they aren't separate. The two mutually influence each other, and the more we study disease the more we have a comprehensive approach to illness."

The idea, said Smith, is to do the smart, healthy things. The most important factors for heart health are diet and exercise, and avoiding tobacco. But, he said, people have to pay attention to their relationships, too.
Basically, men don't like controlling women and women don't like angry men. An variation on this theme tends to stress out our cardiovascular system.... Hmmm.
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Old 03-03-2006, 11:50 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Ah, but the opposite is also true! A sympathetic partner actually increases back pain. Whereas a partner who is a pain in the ass...

http://www.findarticles.com/p/articl...ch/ai_97994341

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A study by German psychologist Herta Flor of the University of Heidelberg found that a spouse's reaction can affect how much pain a person with chronic back pain experiences. The study compared two groups of people with chronic back pain. One group consisted of people with 'solicitous spouses' who reacted to signs of discomfort by getting medicine and waiting on them. The second group had 'non-solicitous spouses' who gave the pain less attention; they tried to provide a distraction or left the room.

The subjects' backs were electrically stimulated to induce pain while an EEG recorded brain wave activity. Patients with solicitous spouses showed three times as much brain activity as those with non-solicitous spouses if their spouses were present. Interestingly, the high brain activity decreased when the solicitous spouse left the room. Patients with solicitous spouses were also more likely to display overt signs of pain.

Herta Flor said that spouses need to become aware of how they respond to partners who suffer from chronic pain. She suggests that they distract partners from the pain (by encouraging them to go for a walk, for example) rather than reinforcing the expressions of pain by attending to them. Dr. Eugene Melvin, pain specialist in Orlando, Florida, agrees. Robyn Suriano of The Orlando Sentinel quotes Dr. Melvin as saying: "A spouse can be overly supportive almost to the point where they're enabling the pain. Just a little bit of pain on the patient's part can cause a severe over-reaction to the point where they don't let the patient do anything for themselves. It becomes a vicious cycle."

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Old 03-03-2006, 12:41 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Ah, but the opposite is also true! A sympathetic partner actually increases back pain. Whereas a partner who is a pain in the ass...

http://www.findarticles.com/p/articl...ch/ai_97994341
I this this reaction all the time with children in my office.

The wimpering stops when mommy leaves the room.
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Old 03-03-2006, 02:28 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I this this reaction all the time with children in my office.

The wimpering stops when mommy leaves the room.
I don't think knocking the kid out with laughing gas is such a good idea though


If this article is true, I better make sure spouse's insurance is current...and get some for myself. This could be a true fight to the finish. In the meantime, I've gotta fix my back.
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