platypus

Is it just me, or do others prefer bonking with the lights on?

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platypus

Well, it appears my first attempt at creating a poll has failed. Blah!

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paddyjoe

Ok, just so you know you're not a total failure, I also prefer them on. Dim though.

troit

It truly depends on my mood -- there are days when I want to watch the action develop and there are days when I want to explore andt to imagine (remember) what her body looks like.

I can see how this is a different type of issue for some though and believe it may deal with how comfortable both partners are with their own and their partners bodies. I know a couple of years ago when I wasn't in the best of shape I preferred to have the lights off or even would wear a t-shirt ... If that's not motivation to get back to the gym.

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Scorps

On man


If she happens to be ugly then nights out.

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platypus

Pain Train if she hears you say that it <b>will</b> be lights out!

Maybe that explains your nick. ;-)

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SaltPork

on...definitely. That way you can see the parts.

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cchris

Soft lighting is the go for me.

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G_Whiz

Most of the time, ON is the only way. It's wonderful to watch the reactions.

Sometimes, OFF just to be different.

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Go_AVS

either way is fine. If they are off, I would at least like the windows open or some candles so there is a little ambiance.

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SexyCat

on is always the best...unless you are gonna go to sleep right afterwards

WhoaitsZ

lights on.

stan the man

strobe light always the strobe

if you are thinking of trying this make you sure you check medical history of your partner

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Spinach_Indeed

Either way is fine, but I prefer lights on

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Peetster

Bright lights allow the cameras to capture the images better.

I wish. ;-)

Sparky

Lights on definitely, so I can see all her glory.

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Mad_Gecko

Candlelight or Daylight....

Telly light is too distracting, no shit I once got shoved off 'cause she caught me watching the footie game...

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hrdwareguy

depends...I haven't found a way to turn the sun of though

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kipperoo3

I like them on, but only dimly. That's why I have christmas lights strung up in my bedroom!

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zfleebin

I always turn em on and then my girlfriend dims em while I am not lookin. I think she thinks Im ugly

JoeyB

Enough light so I can see what's going on and enjoy the view, but not so much light that you feel like you're in aisle #3 at Wal-Mart.


Unless, of course, you're actually doing it in aisle #3 at Wal-Mart.

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bundy

i always like to see exactly whats happening. so lights on.

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Mario

lights on

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Hit it!

Mario

unless you have a clapper, and then they go on and off and on and off etc. etc.

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It's a 106 miles to Chicago. We've got a full tank of gas, half a pack of cigarettes, it's dark and we're wearing sunglasses.
Hit it!

YzermanS19

Lights dimmed is nice. Sets the mood, and lets you see

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alpha phi

It mostly depends on the situation.
in the livingroom blinds open ....lights off
blinds closed ....lights on
in the bedroom whatever the lights are when we start..........unless we get more KINKY!....Then lights ON!!!

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Loup

Ding Ding Ding Ding
We have a winner!

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warrrreagl

On.

I wonder what sex is like for blind people....

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Zotz

On.....dim

louiedog

I wonder what sex would be like if touch was the only sense you had.

MikeyChalupa

Off, but with moonlight coming through the windows so she has a soft blue glow to her hair and face, silhouetting her curves and softening her features...

Ah, hell, I'm married now. Lights on.

-Mikey

davidc209

i'm with mad_gecko on this one...
candle light or daylight.

Regular lights on aren't nearly as romantic as the flickering glow of several candles nearby.

Atropos4

Having sex in the living room with the blinds open in the middle of the day is always fun

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degrawj

i like to be able to see my partner, but not necessarily in the blaring light. candle light is good, and so are lamps. or during the day time with the draperies closed and the sun shining through. :-)

sierra2774

I prefer a candle lit atmosphere. Not too dark, just enough to see what is going on.

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annie1

off or pretty dark for me.

splck

depends...normally with some candles if we've had a nice dinner and drinks.
Out in the blazing sun on a blanket after hiking up a mountain is a bit of a thrill

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nice line eh?

scapegoat

Lights on for sure, so i can see all of my beautfiul girl

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Minx

Either or is fine by me, depends on the mood I think. Although I do love watching him when we're doing it!

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