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orangegirl · 12-23-2005, 07:59 AM

I bought some lingerie a few weeks ago to surprise my boyfriend. It's been a hectic few weeks, but I think that tonight's the night to break it out.

Question - How exactly do I do this? Just slip away to the bathroom and put it on when he's getting ready for bed? Wait till he's in the other room? Run upstairs, light a few candles, put it on and call him upstairs?

I'm clueless.

cellophanedeity · 12-23-2005, 08:45 AM

I've been wondering the same thing orangegirl.

I don't really have that knack for the romantic that most women seem to have...

The third option seems best really, where you go upstairs alone, pretending you're doing something, light some candles then call him up to you. Seems nice and romantic!

Meditrina · 12-23-2005, 09:03 AM

I have done the 3rd option in the past, it always seems to work. Just relax and have fun with it.

Sultana · 12-23-2005, 09:13 AM

Heh, I think the 3rd is the most practical.
In the past I have been known to wear lingerie under my clothes all day for a surprise...but most lingerie is not made for longer-than-2-minute wear.
As me how I know. Ouchie!
Plus you get the sexy questions, "Why do you look so lumpy?" LOLOL!

rlynnm · 12-24-2005, 11:17 AM

I honestly don't think a guy would care too much HOW you secretly put the lingerie on, as long as he gets to see you in it.

shesus · 12-24-2005, 11:37 AM

I agree that the guy won't care too much. I used to dress and crawl under the covers like everything was the same and then when he climbed in bed he got a surprise. Now, we enjoy shopping together. That way we both get things we like. Then he helps me dress and undress. Fun foreplay is always involved in this part. There isn't a surprise, but it's still fun.

I think that anyway you do it will be fine...men just like to see their women sexy

Talking about this is just getting me excited. I love sexy stuff.

/me is so glad she packed her corset for the x-mas trip home

rlynnm · 12-24-2005, 11:52 AM

corsets are magical things.....

Delivery Girl · 01-20-2006, 08:49 PM

You know...I am so glad this was brought up. I have no clue how you even go out to purchase such things. I've bought one piece that said "one size fits all" um...yeah right!

Biscuit Buns · 01-20-2006, 09:42 PM

If it's sexy panties and bra (or even corset or something close to the body), I like to wear them all day (or at least for a few hours) under some really frumpy and/or plain clothes. Start messing around or undress in front of whomever is on the receiving end and you've got the whole element of surprise.

DG, it's tough when there really are no nice places in town to get stuff. I get all mine online or when I go down south.

snowy · 01-20-2006, 11:42 PM

Personally I go for the element of surprise. My boyfriend doesn't really care for lingerie (he'd rather just get me naked) but when I do wear it, he's appreciative. Whether he likes it or not I keep buying it

because I like to be sexy for me.

Biffaloo420 · 02-19-2006, 04:55 PM

I don't really think a guy really cares where or how he gets to see it....He'd rather just see it come off!

percy · 02-20-2006, 09:49 AM

I haven't done this to often but what has worked wonderfully is some heavy petting, tie your man loosely to the bed, leave his pants on and shirt off, quickly jump into something sexy and then tease him until he's begging for more. Usually works on b'days, anniversaries. And if you want to wear it again, better take it off yourself.

12-23-2005, 07:59 AM	#1 (permalink)
orangegirl Upright	lingerie - first timer needs help! I bought some lingerie a few weeks ago to surprise my boyfriend. It's been a hectic few weeks, but I think that tonight's the night to break it out. Question - How exactly do I do this? Just slip away to the bathroom and put it on when he's getting ready for bed? Wait till he's in the other room? Run upstairs, light a few candles, put it on and call him upstairs? I'm clueless.

12-23-2005, 09:03 AM	#3 (permalink)
Meditrina Junkie Location: LI,NY	I have done the 3rd option in the past, it always seems to work. Just relax and have fun with it. __________________ "Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles." ~Alex Karras

12-23-2005, 09:13 AM	#4 (permalink)
Sultana Falling Angel Location: L.A. L.A. land	Heh, I think the 3rd is the most practical. In the past I have been known to wear lingerie under my clothes all day for a surprise...but most lingerie is not made for longer-than-2-minute wear. As me how I know. Ouchie! Plus you get the sexy questions, "Why do you look so lumpy?" LOLOL! __________________ "Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come." - Matt Groening My goal? To fulfill my potential.

12-24-2005, 11:17 AM	#5 (permalink)
rlynnm Psycho Location: so cal	I honestly don't think a guy would care too much HOW you secretly put the lingerie on, as long as he gets to see you in it. __________________ The hardest thing is to be honest with yourself, especially if that means completely redefining the world you've come to know. Don't look too hard, I'm right in front of you.

12-24-2005, 11:37 AM	#6 (permalink)
shesus Fancy Location: Chicago	I agree that the guy won't care too much. I used to dress and crawl under the covers like everything was the same and then when he climbed in bed he got a surprise. Now, we enjoy shopping together. That way we both get things we like. Then he helps me dress and undress. Fun foreplay is always involved in this part. There isn't a surprise, but it's still fun. I think that anyway you do it will be fine...men just like to see their women sexy Talking about this is just getting me excited. I love sexy stuff. /me is so glad she packed her corset for the x-mas trip home __________________ Whatever did happen to your soul? I heard you sold it Choose Heaven for the weather and Hell for the company

12-23-2005, 08:45 AM	#2 (permalink)
cellophanedeity Heliotrope Location: A warm room	I've been wondering the same thing orangegirl. I don't really have that knack for the romantic that most women seem to have... The third option seems best really, where you go upstairs alone, pretending you're doing something, light some candles then call him up to you. Seems nice and romantic!

12-24-2005, 11:52 AM	#7 (permalink)
rlynnm Psycho Location: so cal	corsets are magical things..... __________________ The hardest thing is to be honest with yourself, especially if that means completely redefining the world you've come to know. Don't look too hard, I'm right in front of you.

01-20-2006, 08:49 PM	#8 (permalink)
Delivery Girl Upright	You know...I am so glad this was brought up. I have no clue how you even go out to purchase such things. I've bought one piece that said "one size fits all" um...yeah right! __________________ Catch 'em if you can! Delivery Girl

01-20-2006, 09:42 PM	#9 (permalink)
Biscuit Buns Four of Wands Location: Somewhere entirely too hot.	If it's sexy panties and bra (or even corset or something close to the body), I like to wear them all day (or at least for a few hours) under some really frumpy and/or plain clothes. Start messing around or undress in front of whomever is on the receiving end and you've got the whole element of surprise. DG, it's tough when there really are no nice places in town to get stuff. I get all mine online or when I go down south. __________________ A hard man is good to find. ~Mae West

01-20-2006, 11:42 PM	#10 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	Personally I go for the element of surprise. My boyfriend doesn't really care for lingerie (he'd rather just get me naked) but when I do wear it, he's appreciative. Whether he likes it or not I keep buying it because I like to be sexy for me. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

02-19-2006, 04:55 PM	#11 (permalink)
Biffaloo420 Upright Location: Machesney Park, IL	I don't really think a guy really cares where or how he gets to see it....He'd rather just see it come off!

02-20-2006, 09:49 AM	#12 (permalink)
percy Addict	I haven't done this to often but what has worked wonderfully is some heavy petting, tie your man loosely to the bed, leave his pants on and shirt off, quickly jump into something sexy and then tease him until he's begging for more. Usually works on b'days, anniversaries. And if you want to wear it again, better take it off yourself.