Nancy

Hey Ladies!

I've been wondering for some time now exactly how long it takes for the average women to get off. I have absolutely no idea about it myself. I mean I know that some of my chick friends masturbate frequently and we discuss the subject now and but it has never occured to me to ask them about their individual elapsed time. Even if I did I'd only know how long it took those two and that wouldn't give me a realistic idea about the average elapsed time for women. So I thought I could start a poll in here and find out once and for all!

Personally I get off within 5 minutes - 7 tops. Physically I would be able to go on for an hour or more but I'm a very impatient person so whenever I am randy I want satisfaction as quickly as possible

How about you?

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Sage

can we have a "less than five minutes" option? When I'm really aroused, it takes me about two seconds, but if I'm starting from "scratch"... yeah, about five minutes

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Nancy

^^same here

The "around 5 minutes" is for the around 5 or less people

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I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.

Seeker

Nancy... Sage... I think we are just shocking, aren't we?

I get taken care of a couple of times (first within 5 and second soon after), then I can go at his pace... I can go from zero to done within the first 5 mins too. (or is that an overshare )

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maleficent

my answer is not available...

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Squishor

I can usually take care of business in five minutes or less, if I put my mind to it. That doesn't mean that's what always happens, but it certainly could.

little_tippler

I can take care of myself in about 5 mins, less or more, depending. I'm curious to see how this poll progresses...if most girls vote for around 5 mins, then obviously many boyfriends out there have a lot to learn!

edit: and yes I CAN make my guy come in about 5 mins if I put my mind to it!

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*Nikki*

If I am doing it myself it takes less then five usually.

However now that I am taking meds for other issues, it takes WAY longer.

Supple Cow

I voted for 5 minutes, but that's with my vibe... my record is 11 seconds. With sex, it's closer to 10 minutes before my first one, as it progresses a little more slowly.

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StormBerlin

It's usually around five minutes for me as well. Even quicker with a vibe. I'm one of those impatient girls, I don't do well with holding out.

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settie

If I really want to, and am extremely randy and want to do one quick, less than 5 minutes is possible. But I enjoy making it last sometimes. Well, not for a long time like an hour, but at least longer than 5 minutes. So I chose 10-15, cause I like going from start to finish slowly, and cause I love the end result: a more powerful orgasm.

Sweetpea

10 minutes, five mintues with a vibe.

I usually get off twice though . . . so.... 20 minutes for both

during sex though . . . i like to get off right away, first 15 minutes . . . fuck for awhile and then get off again at the end together . . .



Sweetpea

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MsNobody

It takes about 5 minutes for the first,then it goes much faster for the others, usually I have 2 but I have had up to 5, and thats only if he can keep up his end of things.

ngdawg

I've gotten off in 2 minutes flat alone plenty of times, but usually I take about 10. With spouse at the wheel, it seems like forever!!!

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Lead543

It's been so long I wouldn't know.


(Damn living an hour away from my better half)

cellophanedeity

It takes me under five minutes... and it actually takes less time with my love than with a vibe.

Then after the first, the rest just keep coming.

Hash_Browns

Myself, def. under 5. With hubby, it all depends on what we are doing I have to be on top, but if we start the other way around, then I'd say at least 30 mins. before we switch and I take care of business.

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Ella

Under 5 mins with my vibe...anywhere from 5 mins to 20 mins with my man, depending on my (and our) mood(s) and the positions we're in.

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Sugar&Spice

By myself, I could do it in probably under three minutes if I really wanted to. With my boyfriend I am usually ready in about 10 minutes. Then if he hasn't, he can just flip me over on my stomach and that only takes about another three minutes.

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Druidess

I can do it quicker by myself than I can with anyone else.... I think that I have made myself numb to human touch with too much vibrating.

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sexymama

I ditto many of you -- by myself about 2-3 mintues. With Lebell it depends on how aroused I am before we actually fuck.

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Sugarmouse

depends how long i want to stay at it and who im tinking of!!!

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sapphire

If Im by myself it can take less then 5 minutes but if Im with a guy it takes a lot longer

Minx

How did I miss this earlier??

Anyhooo....when taking care of myself - usually under the five minute mark. It doesn't take much to get me all hot and bothered and then not much longer to come after that.

With a guy, it's different. It all depends on what you are doing. Sometimes you can drag it out a bit but more often than not I want to jump on him, get off and then play for a while. I have no problem with coming quickly and then doing so again...over and over and over! It's not so much how quickly you come.....I think it is much more important how much fun you have doing so!

I see a definite trend here that most of us ladies come quickly. A lesson to the men out there perhaps?

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jenn17

So it feels funny this bing my second post, but oh well. . .
I can do it in under 5 if I want to but 9 times out of 10 I like to be in the 10-15 min range. For enjoyments sake, you konw?

mandy

well, i heard that women can get off in under 5 mins if you really really hot but while having sex it can take up to half an hour if you start up cold:-)

lokijeep

Hmm, I'm with Jenn17 on this- I like to drag it out a bit, even with the vibe. Of course, if it's just before I go to bed and I'm tired, sometimes I never do- I fall asleep first LMAO

snowy

I like to drag it out a bit, so about 15 minutes by myself.

Sex, however, is like insta-orgasm. I get off more on having my gspot stimulated, so if he slides fingers into me or we start doing it, I come. Same goes for if I use my vibe on my gspot--instant.

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Peacefool

Druidess - Same here. I was going to post but it would be a waste of time, now!

Sugarmouse

depends who i amthinkin about...and how many times i have cum already1!

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jillian

by myself.. robably less than a minute if im in a hurry... with a man... usually 1 within a few seconds then another then it will take at least 5 for a big one

raeanna74

So long as I'm able to get the daily worries out of my mind I can get off in what seems like seconds. It doesn't matter if it's a result of self stim or actual sex. If my mind is in the right place I'm off - and multiple times at that usually.

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Jenni_bell

By myself about a minute or two, with someone else provided that I don't have to waste time with instruction about 5-10 minutes. Just keep it steady boys.

5757

By myself 5 min. or less. With my man 30 min. or more : ( Im with Druidess! I think I may have made myself numb as well! ha!

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emang

with tools it takes me less than 5 mins. i like it better with my hands though... my clit tends to get a bit numb with a vibe (or is it just me?)

Peapod

I don't really time myself... I think I go for 10-15 mintues... just for fun.