05-25-2003, 08:12 PM | #1 (permalink) |
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Gay men
I read in a magazine that more and more women are finding men on men sex is erotic and a total turn on. Im glad its not just me cause I find it so hot, even though Im a straight female. I mean guys can find lesbians hot, so why cant we find gay men hot?
Theyre Great as friends and its hot to see two guys play..am I right or not? Theories and stories are welcome! |
05-25-2003, 08:56 PM | #2 (permalink) |
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Very kinky stuff , i used to shaer a house with 2 guys and they were gay as.Great cooks too!. One night we were all drunk and i asked if i could 'watch'. At first theu said no but then later they called out for me to come in.. wow what a turn on.It was surprisingly gentle and loving in a masculine kinda way.... i'd love my currrent to try but have yet to mention the subject although when he plays with my ass i am tempted to bring it up.
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05-27-2003, 05:05 PM | #3 (permalink) |
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This is definately one of my most favorite things to watch. I am not sure why it turns me on so much, but it does.
I think it is perfectly normal.....I just wish I could get two guys to do it for me, so I can watch nice and closely...
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05-27-2003, 09:01 PM | #4 (permalink) |
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Sorry, but it's never really been hot for me. I can understand why guys are attracted to girls, and <blush> I can understand why some girls are attracted to some other girls (all those soft curves...), but I just don't get the guy/guy thing.
Please excuses the bluntness that follows: I just don't understand why a guy would pass up a soft, warm, wet pussy that rarely needs artificial lubrication to go for another guy's butt. I might be interested in a curious sense, just to see how it happens, but that would be it. Sorry, not a turn-on for me. |
05-28-2003, 07:26 PM | #6 (permalink) |
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I have always wanted to watch. Mainly because I was curious to see a guy show emotion to another guy.
Did anyone check out the alphabet in the full monty? Very erotic. As I have gotten older, right now, one of my best buds is gay, but he so does not like being touched. Now his boyfriend, he can be touched. I find it amusing.
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05-28-2003, 07:30 PM | #7 (permalink) |
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Oh, and the question about passing up a warm pussy that rarely needs lube, etc....
I needed lube with my ex. I just was so not interested in sex with him that I dried up. However, I have since solved that problem <veg> and the first time I had anal sex I was surprised that lube was NOT needed as I had heard it would be.
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05-29-2003, 07:32 AM | #9 (permalink) |
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I was really surprised at how much I liked to watch two men together.
I had a very erotic evening with my bf and one of our male friends. It literally couldn't have been planned out better... We all met up for drinks one night and got pretty drunk. We decided to go stay at one of my girlfriends' apartment since it was very close and we didn't need to be driving. We got back to the apartment and we were still feeling antsy, and my gf went to sleep, so me and the bf and our friend went down to the hot tub. We all jumped in naked and were just hanging out, we were all sitting pretty close together and my boy was kissing on me and told our friend to join in. Next thing I know, I've got my boyfriend on the steps of the hot tub and told him to lean back and close his eyes, our friend went down and started giving my bf head. I was sitting next to my bf, kissing him while he was getting head from another man. It was the sexiest thing I'd ever seen in person...and I've seen some things. They ended up kissing (the kissing was exceptionally sexy, IMO) & rubbing on eachother...OMG! I was really impressed when my bf returned the favor. I loved every minute of it. We continued this back at the apartment and it just went on and on til the very early hours of the morning. (I could tell you more, but since this is about man on man...) Truly the coolest sexual experience of my life...so far. Both of these men are straight so when our friend told me to ask my bf to lean back and close his eyes...and told me what he was going to do, I wondered if my bf would freak out. But, he was like "whatever, this will be fun". I thought it was cool that they were both open minded enough to at least try it out. I'm so glad I was there to take part. We since that night played together another time, and they really didn't touch eachother at all. But that's ok. The memory I have now will surely last a lifetime.
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06-05-2003, 09:22 PM | #11 (permalink) |
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I would only really like two guys in the sense of front and back (vaginal and anal) .... not so that I could sit on the sidelines. My bf gave me the same response when I asked him if he liked the idea of lesbian sex. He put it that it just isn't fun if all you can do is watch.
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06-11-2003, 10:46 AM | #13 (permalink) |
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Total turn on here as well, and has been for as long as I can remember. I was lucky to be raised by parents who taught me that love transcends gender and that I was often visited by couples (het and homo) that showed me what love is.
The male body is a goregous thing to behold. THe only thing better than one is two or more! As far as it being a "trend"... well, slash fiction (read romances dealing with male/male relationships) are hugely popular in any fandom that you visit. They're way about the 10% mark of the actual gay community and moreover, 90% of slash is written by straight (or slightly curved) women. If they can read and write about it, eventually, they will want to look at it. |
06-11-2003, 11:22 AM | #14 (permalink) |
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I'm not really into it at all. Of course if I was surrounded by Brian Kinney from Queer as Folk I might change my mind. I've thought about seeing another guy give my husband oral but nothing further than that. I'm not interested in being with two men. I'd rather have women in my bed.
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06-26-2003, 11:10 PM | #16 (permalink) |
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total. turnon. i've got a few gayguyfriends, but none of them are very obliging to audiences (they're shy). i find gay porn much more attractive than lesbian porn...i'd love the opportunity to be in a loving, caring mmf experience thing--or even just to watch.
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06-28-2003, 03:29 AM | #18 (permalink) |
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Wow, i've never met any woman who liked to watch two guys together! I find it somewhat of a turnon but two women together doesn't do anything for me. Of course it drives my boyfriend wild. Asking my bf to do another man is out of the question. The thought grosses him out.
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06-29-2003, 08:00 AM | #21 (permalink) |
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I have never seen a guy on guy porn or two guys in real life. But I think it would really but hot. I have asked my husband to rent one of just guys but he is a total homophobe so he won't. But it's alright to watch two girls together? I don't get that. A friend and I were going to watch one together but we never did. So I can't say that I like it but I think I would. Maybe I will go rent one and watch and see if I like it or not. G0dd3ss you are a very lucky girl. I would have loved to been there to see that.
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07-03-2003, 05:55 AM | #26 (permalink) |
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I don't think (either gender) finding gay sex as attractive is some new trend. I think that because the gay community is beginning to gain the respect they earn, it is becoming more acceptable to be open about our likes and dislikes involving homosexuality.
For some people, when you stimulate their anus it can actually lube itself up... kind of like a vagina, but not as readily and not as much. It's quite possible to have it without lube, but it would take a lot of practice and caution. Anal sex can be dangerous period. And for that matter, so is sex. I went to this seminar once on vaginal fisting. (don't ask) In the lecture, I learned that any object entering your body that's at the wrong angle, can impale your vagina and/or rectum on your coccyx (tailbone). Furthermore, penetration, anal or vaginal creates microscopic tears in your tissue. Did you know that it doesn't take much in the way of a suction pressure for you to dislodge your vagina? There are so many scary things to know about just the vagina. You can injure yourself doing just about anything. I mean, if people can die while masturbating (because they're into autoerotic asphyxiation or get stuck in a hot tub because they tried to fuck a hole in it), it's possible to hurt yourself doing anything. That's not even mentioning STDs which also harm you....................................... I don't know if I communicated my point very well. Do I even have a point anymore? I'm not sure Finding your het boyfriend doesn't mind getting sucked off or sucking is actually not uncommon according to Savage Love. I am not about to find the article in the archives, but it's there as well as a lot of other really great Q&A. Here's the site: http://www.thestranger.com/current/savage.html As for me, I find watching any sexual act between humans can be erotic. Man/Woman, Woman/Woman, Man/Man, Transgenders, Transvestites, etc. I don't discriminate.
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07-11-2003, 03:21 PM | #27 (permalink) |
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WOW! I so thought I was weird until I read how many women in here enjoyed it as well! Man on Man is awesome. I have never had a personal experience but would throughly love one, participating of course. I have gay male friends but they are not open to being watched and aren't interested in a woman joining them. My one friend said "I don't even know what I would do with a woman's kitty" lmao!!!!!!!
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07-15-2003, 08:49 PM | #28 (permalink) | |
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as for me liking gay guys, he doesn't think its fucked up but he gives me some pretty cute weird looks.
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08-10-2003, 07:47 PM | #30 (permalink) |
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Location: Canada
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NEWS FLASH!
I got a message from a gay male, and thanked me for putting up this thread. For seeing that women do find gay sex erotic, and for making himself not feel disgusting and undesirable..other than the same sex. Wow, Im just so floored by this. Im glad and greatful that I could help him, and hopefully other guys like him. And once again for the record: Gay Males and their Deliciouse Sexual Acts Are SO~ Erotic and Beautiful! |
08-11-2003, 06:08 AM | #31 (permalink) |
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I have never had any real experience with gay 'p0rn' or RL acts. I am not one to watch a lot of porn anyways unless it's the (as my SO calls it) Stupid Story Line type. I have watched a episode of Queer as Folk and there was a bar scene with one guy getting his dick sucked for money (or paying for it...can't remember) and it was alright! If I could find something like that...and it was about loving each other and not straight up bangin' for bucks porn...then I think I could get very intersted
And I agree with motdakasha about the fact that its not really new, just that gay men are seen now in a more mature manner and as real human beings, so therefore people start to see them as lovers, not just a couple of gay men 'fucking'! IMHO of course!
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08-11-2003, 01:27 PM | #32 (permalink) |
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yknow what i like to see? well, of course you don't know, so i'll tell ya.
i like to see snails mate. oddest thing, cuz they are equipped with both the outlet & the plug-in. pull them apart & those willies stretch out like forever. damndest thing. i hate snails, so i don't mind breaking up their fun
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08-11-2003, 06:13 PM | #34 (permalink) |
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ya know kt, i think it's just one of those different strokes things. it doesn't do much for me, either, but i can see where it would be a turn on. But then, pissing women doesn't do it for me either, and there's definately a following for those pics, as well. :shrug: I figure, stick with what you enjoy, try new things, if you don't like em, no harm done, and let everyone else do the same.
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08-11-2003, 10:31 PM | #35 (permalink) |
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Location: Sydney, Australia
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Mm, I quite like gay porn, theres something sooo.. don't laugh, masculine about it all. On a complete side track re: snails, a someone I know referred to a state of high arousal by saying that she was "frothing like a snail". Hahaha, well made me laugh
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08-14-2003, 11:25 PM | #38 (permalink) |
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To be honest, I've never really thought about it much. I can see where it'd be a turn on, though. (The blow/hand job thing comes to mind.) I'd have to see some before I made a judgement call on it.
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08-16-2003, 10:50 AM | #39 (permalink) |
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I'm just glad to see that I'm not the only one that gets a little turned on by two guys. It's not something I would watch everyday but every once in a while I'll get the urge to watch and I have to say that I do enjoy it. Watching two girls doesn't do anything for me, but if it's a threesome or an orgy where there are guys involved I kind of like to watch that.
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