fallenangel

As of late, i've been fantasizing a lot about being with an older guy, not like grandpa aged, i mean i'm fairly young (19) and i've got a high sex drive, and i didn't know if there were a lot of you ladies out there who had ever fantasized about being with an older man. Someone definately more experienced, no emotional attachment, but just raw passion... I dunno. Thought i'd check with you ladies first to see if it was common or not, this is newer to me and it sorta caught me off guard. Thanks for any feedback.

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Rubyee

If he is rich, yeah. If not, then no, not really.

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CinnamonGirl

Older men are hot --see Richard Gere, Harrison Ford, Anthony Stewart Head, Viggo Mortenson, John Cusack, Kiefer Sutherland, and many, MANY others for proof.

My husband is my age (well, six months older), but all my celebrity..er..."crushes" have been much older.

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lurkette

Mmm...not really. When I fantasize, it tends to be about situations more than about people, except for concrete people I know.

But hey, who cares what the rest of us fantasize about - if it floats your boat, dream on!!!

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SiN

Hmm...I have entertained such fantasies at times (rarely do I fantasize about men tho, and haven't for a long time)

aaanyways....for me it was usually like 'the smart and sexy professor' type, or perhaps the rich-handsome-older-executive type.

Sure, I can understand it and it's not 'weird'.

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Sugar&Spice

I've sort of been in your shoes. Probably 2 1/2 years ago I had a boss who was like 8 year older than me..so I think he was sort of included in fantasies because he held a position of power and control and received a lot of respect from others. It just seemed sexy. I finally snapped out of it and I was like what the hell was i thinking?? He was balding!

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*Nikki*

Before I had my current boyfriend I used to always want to hook up with older guys.

My boyfriend is almost three years younger then me and let me tell you.....the fantasies about older guys quickly went away when I saw how much energy the younger one has!

Redgirl

I've always had a thing for older guys, too. I always thought I'd end up with one, but my husband is the same age as me. But when I met him, he was the most mature guy at school, so that was kind of like finding an older guy since he didn't act like the other "boys". There's nothing wrong with it that I can see.

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SixEdxMia

Hmm..to this thread I say....
I wanna sit on daddy's lap tonight. : X

20 years difference,
but than again.... I'm not getting any.So does it matter?

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fallenangel

Haha, ya, i figure it's because my new boss at work is about 10-15 years older than I am, he's married though... but from south africa with a great accent. He's very nice, but i mean he's my boss. I've analyzed myself and determined that this is where it came from haha. Oh boy *sigh*

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Frenchie

I would have to agree with that... adding Keanu Reeves and probably more... Patrick Swasey (sp?)... at least he looked hot in Dirty Dancing. lol But I don't fantisize about being with any of them... nor any other older men for that reason... I'm content with the man that I have.