fallenangel

The lack of knowledge i have about the people i think i'm close with.... i don't learn half of the things i do until i stumble upon them on the computer. I just don't know what to think, say or do... nothing? say something? gah i wasn't snooping, but looking for a safe place to hide a pic or two of myself... *sigh*

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lisa

Hi fallenangel,
you okay girl?

Your posts here always sound so damn mysterious... I can't make head or tail of you and whatever might be bugging you?
But if you need a place to spill out your guts, go right ahead girl, we're here for ya

txlovely

Yeah, I'm a bit confused. More details please - we're always happy to provide feedback

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sillygirl

Details would be nice....

It's always interesting how much you find out about a person when you least expect it.. makes it hard to digest sometimes, huh? I kinda know the feeling...

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pinklily

WOW! I know exactly how you feel! even without the details. Computers are death when it comes to these things. In my experiences, finding things out from the internet and computers sucks. I don't care if you were snooping. I have to think that snooping can be your parogative once in a while, especially if this other person hides everything from you.

ngdawg

Snooping should never be allowed unless a parent is concerned about a child. First, only one side of whatever is found is seen in most cases and it may look a lot worse than it truly is, causing more pain or doubt than the reality would. Without going into it, I was being spied on and accused of all sorts of things that simply weren't the case. End result? Lost trust on both sides. I now have things set up under passwords, hidden folders and hisory clearance upon log-offs and quite frankly, I feel freer this way. If you suspect something, whether it's an affair or gross overspending, better to talk about things before suspicions take over the imagination than to wonder and be silent. Maybe things won't be set right, but they won't be driving you crazy either with worse-case scenarios being imagined. Just my 2c....

speedofit

so you were snooping on someone's computer? hmmmmmm i never know where to snoop. oh well, i respect their privacy enough i'm glad i can't snoop when i want to give into the urge.

fallenangel

My goodness ladies, i specifically said i WASN"T snooping...*sigh* that's ok, do'nt worry 'bout it. Any my knowledge is slowly growing, do'nt know if it's for better or for worse, guess i'll just have to see

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jazz

Let's see..snooping usually is bad, but if you have good reason to believe someone is maybe cheating on you I'd say go ahead. But it really sucks to find stuff out on the internet.

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shytilwet

Okay, darlin', you weren't snooping. And I read that in your first post. Was someone snooping on you then? Did they find a pic you wanted to hide? Come on, gf, no-one can help you if you're too cryptic.