Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community - questions about messing around

there IS a chance you can get pregnant any time his sperm come anywhere near your vagina. Theoretically. Personally, I'd ask him to cum anywhere but RIGHT there, (here's a good chance to get a pearl necklace or somethin' of that sort ;)) and then I wouldn't worry. There's a link in a thread about the pill in Tilted Sexuality to planned parenthood that actually addresses this... lemme go dig it up :)

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here's the link:http://www.plannedparenthood.org/bc/...4teens.htm#out
there's a LOT of good stuff in there for other kinds of pregnancy prevention, and don't be afraid to ask questions. of us, of your doctors... better armed you are with knowledge the better off you'll be.
here's the relevant quote from that link, by the way:

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... you need to know that for some people, outercourse is sex play without vaginal intercourse. For others, it is sex play with no penetration at all - oral, anal, or vaginal. Some people also believe that any kind of penetrative sex play is too risky to be called "safer sex." But many people sometimes have oral and anal sex - to avoid pregnancy or to "preserve their virginity."

Lower-risk forms of outercourse include

* Kissing - Many people enjoy exploring different ways of kissing. They may like to kiss each other's ears, necks, or shoulders - as well as other body parts.
* Masturbation - Many people enjoy touching their own sex organs. It's the most common way to be sexual. Partners can masturbate alone, together, or watch each other. They may hug and kiss while they do it.
* Erotic Massage - Many couples touch and rub each other's sex organs using their hands, bodies, or mouths.
* Body Rubbing - Many couples rub their bodies together - especially their sex organs - for pleasure and orgasm.
* Fantasy - Couples can read or watch sexy stories or pictures together. They can also share or act out sexy fantasies. People do it in person, on the phone, surfing the Internet, or through e-mail.

EFFECTIVENESS

Outercourse is nearly 100% effective against pregnancy unless pre-ejaculate or sperm gets onto the vulva or into the vagina.

Outercourse is also effective against sexually transmitted infections. It reduces the risk of HIV/AIDS and many other sexually transmitted infections - unless body fluids, such as semen and vaginal fluids, are exchanged through oral or anal sex play. But some infections, like herpes and HPV, can be passed by skin-to-skin contact.