Ladyhawke

Ok girls....we've talked how often we have sex.....where we've had it...and how we've had it.

Now let's talk about the almighty orgasm. How often do you have one....do you have one with your S,O, or your toy

Me. I use to have more orgasms with myself. until my hubby and I had a nice long chat about my needs as a women.....And with a few porn flicks...and a lesbain lover with some helpful hints....he can get me off about 5-6 times in one session before he does

And we aren't talking about those little O's with a slight shudder...we are talking...screaming...grabbing....thrashing....mind blowing ones. that just get better with every one.

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awanderingsoul

I can manage to have an orgasm just about every time I take charge and ride him on top. Most of the time, he can make me cum in other positions, and occasionally I'll have one by myself

sexymama

I'm definitely able to orgasm by myself every time. I have them with toys whenever I use one. And with him, most times we make love -- but sometimes he has to "finish me." In all cases they feel much different. Each is good (did I say good, I meant awesome) in its own right!

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siryn

No orgasms during sex, ever. It makes me so sad. I can almost always get myself off, but never in the presence of my man (unless he's asleep). Its totally a psychological thing, but it always gets the better of me. I think that the cause is an unpleasant experience with an ex. I'm not sure that I'm very comfortable talking about that in particular, but I know that whenever I have sex, and often when I begin to masturbate, I am completely in a void. Its still pleasurable, but the pleasure seems so distance and orgasm is totally out of reach. When I masturbate, I have to concentrate really hard, usually fantasize about specific things, and then I can make it. Even when I masturbate, if I am close, but then get distracted, I have to start all over again. I wish there was some way to fix me.

Shyla Loral

With my hubby, I have multiple orgasms, woohoo! I don't masturbate anymore, I "save" that for him;and he now knows more about my pussy than I ever did, anyway. He could write a Pussy Bible, heh.

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Vyxen

I've been with my fiance for over 3 years now and you know, for over the first year I was just too nervous/embarassed to be able to reach orgasm. But, over time, I forced myself to relax and it really does sink in! After a few months of telling myself to be calm, just enjoy it, don't be embarassed.. he loves me and my body... I now have an orgasm every time! It's wonderful!

So if it is psychological, you just have to train your brain, it will help. =) Positive reinforcement is a very powerful thing. Good luck with those O's and keep em cum'n ladies! har har

(Oh and once in a while I still masterbate to lesbian porn when I have the urge, since obviously my man can't provide that one thing hehe)

cherylcannady

heee heee heee... me too. I have two really cheezy lesbian porn videos and about five lesbian erotica anthologies.

The orgasm: I have about four different kinds of orgasms...
1. the little shudder and flush of wetness (usually only when talking about sex, looking at sexy pictures, or getting a whiff of Mr.S's pheromones)
2. the body orgasm. this is during regular sex play. a gasping and yelping type of "o". I can have several of these in one session.
3. the anally stimulated orgasm. This one is really powerful. Mr.S will be doing his deed in my back door, and I'll be masturbating at the same time with a vaginal dildo and clit vibrator. Holy crap, those are great. It takes less than a minute to start the orgasm and the longest I've sustained one is four minutes.
4. the big "o." This is the one when I feel as though I'm flying through a sky of fireworks. Ladies, you may know the sensation... This one only happens about once a month or once every two months. I have it when I'm on top, with a clit vibrator going at the same time. I can also have it alone with my rabbit if I'm straddling it, but not all the time. The big "o" leaves me spent. Can't orgasm any other way after that. I'm through.

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ashlass

Whew. OMG, must be real intense if it takes that long to "refuel." I'll have a #4, please.

Shyla Loral

I guess I'm just lucky, I have the really big one all the time;it's like the top of my head is flying off and my whole body goes taut and my legs straighten and I have to try really hard not to ejaculate if there's nothing underneath me. He can take me from zero to orgasm in 30 seconds if he wants to

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Ladyhawke

OH yea....give me that one to please

If you gals want some decent girl girl action porn...check out Mummy's Kiss or Lord of the G-String.....both are soft porn and are made by seduction cinema and usually can be found at Suncoast

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dawnylou

I know EXACTLY what you are talking about!
I get those too, not so often, but WOW!

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shannon

i don't have that many with sex. more with oral action. the easiest way for me to get myself off is masturbation, but the sex is a more fun process so i just use a combo to get the best of both worlds.

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galaxygirl

I honestly can't keep count anymore. I usually have several before i8 even enters me, and then he gives me three or four more before he finishes. I've always been happily multiorgasmic, but I have never had as many orgasms during the actual act of sex (you know the thrusting, grinding bit) as I do now. My man has a magic penis and I am one happy woman.

(Don't mean to brag. I am in a state of frustrated anticipation. We had a serious case of kiddie interruptus last time we were together, and Friday seems a long way away!)

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raeanna74

lol Galaxy girl. This so describes us too. The kiddie interruptus. We had the two girls in bed and asleep and we were heading for the bedroom when one of them starts wailing. I whispered to hubby. "Ah they got me. Go ahead. Start without me!" Jeff Foxworthy style. lol We at least got a laugh from that.

I'm in the same place too. Multiorgasmic. I know some women are too sensitive on the cervix where the majority of nerves are located inside a woman but that is that gets me going. I've found that there are a couple a different KINDS of orgasms. There's the ones that I get with regular sex where I'm shaking and moaning, there have been the continuous waves if the guy keeps hitting the right spot for a while, but there have been a few that were just mind blowing where I actually saw stars and ended up screaming. It just depends on the man and the situation. I rarely have trouble cumming. Only when I was still healing up from my c-section but it's not abnormal to have trouble when you're body's been through trauma.

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Angel

I, much like galaxygirl, am multiorgasmic. I have quite a few before penetration, during and if he cums and I want more, he takes care of me still.
My best orgasms happen when I am on top facing away from him as this is one of the best ways to stimulate my g-spot and I stimulate my clit at the same time while he is stimulating my butt. OMG....through the roof!
In fact...maybe I'll go wake him....

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LittleOralAnnie

I'm multiorgasmic as well, and have never had a problem reaching orgasm alone or with a man

Harmonia

Umm...I don't think I've ever had one of those screaming, thrashing, gasping orgasms before. I'm so going to order one of those next time, though.

When masterbating I can usually get off fairly easily but it's only one of those shuddering ones and every once in a while (with a toy) one that has me moaning.

That's about the most intense I've had in a long, long time, though! My boyfriend has that premature ejaculation problem so...lol I spend my time trying to help him prolong his orgasm for as long as we can so he can enjoy it.

anti fishstick

sadly, i don't think i have either. although the shuddering, back convulsing, gasping, moaning ones are goooooooood too.

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Harmonia

lol When it's all we've ever experienced it has to be good.

ally

I dont know what it is he does but it seems like i scream every time...... he's sooo good!!

wannabenakid247

I find that mine are always different every time its wierd and it depends what you are doing. I love those ones your onnabout though.

gummby

I'd never had one with someone else until I met the hubby, he was the first one (other than myself) that could get me off...so I married him. My favorites are the ones when he's going down on me. Oh yeah, that's the good stuff.

cruisergirl

When I first starting having sex with my soon-to-be-ex husband, I had an orgasm everytime just from penetration, which I know is not very common. Then as things wore on, the only way I could cum was after the deed, I had to get myself off with a little help from him. Now that I'm with my new man, I've been having those mind-blowing screaming and thrashing type Big O's every time. He is spectacular, and his huge penis helps, too. I think it's easier to have those with someone you trust completely and you feel comfortable with, you know, you're not thinking about how you look and you just feel the good stuff.....mmmm... I want to know how to get those multiple orgasms! Am I just built wrong for those or something? Damn, I feel so left out!

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Eowyn_Vala

Normally I have no problem with multiple orgasms. And I usually have a few small ones before any penetration. I almost always find orgasm when having any type of foreplay or intercourse, very rarely will I not. And those times are very frustrating.

As for the Big "O" so far only one time that I can definately remember and it was the best ever, and not so long ago... seems to get better and better everytime since we don't see each other as much as we'd like!

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gabshu

I can only orgasm if I don't have sex in at least two weeks. Getting myself off is fine, specially with the shower head but I'd much rather be able to orgasm during sex. I don't know, I have a lot of sex which probably makes it worse, who knows...

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sillygirl

I used to think that the orgasm was, well, supposed to be rare. I was married for a year, and I can't remember a time when I actually did orgasm.

THEEEEEN, I started dating a new guy. And, OMG! I cannot think of one time that I didn't. Sex went from "Oh, that's something that is supposed to happen between people." to "WOW!!!"

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shannon

i love it!

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vveronica

when i feel him squirting in me it makes me orgasm....

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Kyp's Girl

I experienced some little ones, but only when I'm on top or when he uses his fingers. We are just starting the sex experience, so I just hope that some day I know what you all are talking about.

cheerios

yup, esp if I'm almost there already, that's all it takes. *grin*

em1014

HAHAHA.. I never expected anyone to mention Lord of the G-Strings. Some girlfriends of mine and I rented this as a joke for the guys last year. All I can say is that we got a good laugh out of it.

lurkette

I almost always have an orgasm, either by myself or with Ratbastid. I think the ones by myself are usually bigger and more satisfying, but it's mostly because I have complete control over the situation - I know exactly where to touch and when. The ones with Ratbastid are satisfying in a different way. I think if he slowed everything waaaaaaay down he could easily compete with the bigger "self-serve" orgasms.

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superbunny6

I'm one of those poor unfortunates who really haven't had an orgasm... I seem to date losers who didn't go down on me, so I don't know if that'd do it or not. I've tried masterbating, but I've gotten 0 satisfation from them. I've even faked a few times, because the guy was trying so hard and I felt kinda sorry for them. Yes, I know, I shouldn't fake, but I did it because I liked the guy.

txlovely

Faking is very bad because if you don't teach him, he'll never learn and you'll never get off! First things first, you have to learn to give the mind-blowing ones to yourself. Once you do that, you'll be able to teach. Why have sex if you don't have an orgasm? All that pumping must amount to something good! Everybody must be happy when all is said and done or it wasn't worth getting naked!

Get lesbian porn and a mirror and hop on it, supperbunny6! Don't waste another second! And yes, you'll know when you have one.

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la petite moi

I used to really enjoy orgasms I have myself while msaturbating, though now I think I enjoy my Lover better. He's the only one that can hit my spot.

About orgasming...I have gotten off at least a dozen times in one day. Of course, this was in the summertime when I was horny and my sister and I weren't sharing a room. Heheheheh...

Jonsgirl

I don't have any trouble reaching orgasm *unless I've drank too much.*
I have a completely different type of orgasm when I masturbate and when I'm with my husband. They're both great, but it's just...different.
and when I'm with my husband, once he gets me started, I can go and go and go and still want more. He's incredible in bed!
You know where I have the most incredible orgasms? On the couch. I don't know why, but when we have sex on the couch, I have the most intense, mind-blowing orgasms. And I always get cramps in the arches of my feet when they're really good ones.

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dirttrackcutie

wow lucky woman...I can neve orgasm i think theres something wrong with me! I can barely orgasm when its just me but theres no way i can orgasm durring sex..I DONT KNOW WHY!~

Unga

Yea i have yet to know what all of you are talking about either. How sad :P

Angelic

i can have multiple orgasms and they are all pretty mind blowing

they are different when i have them through masturbation.. and different again when im with a girl ( im bi ) than what they are like when im with a guy, but yeah i love them, and get off a lot when a partner watches me masturbate

the more i get to know my own body the better the orgasms are, so i suggest anyone who has yet to experience such a thing spends some time exploring with some toys :P

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Yalaynia

I have had multiple orgasms as well , and so has my other half.
We seem to know where to touch and that , and we have a lot of communication going to make sure that we both get the best pleasure. Even when we are sitting across from each other getting ourselves off we have mind blowing orgasms. Each one of them is mind blowing and usually after 4 or 5 hours and to many to count we are both pretty much spent and left light headed and ready to colapes.

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