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Rubyee · 10-10-2003, 12:59 PM

Thanks for the info Reanna!

esotar · 10-12-2003, 12:42 PM

Im a lesbian also, but I have had sex with men, and its not only not the same, it totally feels alien, and unerotic to me to be with a man.

cruisergirl · 10-13-2003, 08:01 PM

I've always thought about it, and I've even kissed a couple of girls....but I'm not sure, when it comes down to it, if it would feel right or not. Plus, I do beleive if you're in a relationship with a man, sleeping with another woman would be considered cheating, so I'll "stick to my dick" for now, and I'm happy enough to fantasize about the rest.

gabshu · 10-25-2003, 10:54 AM

I am very bi curious but i don't particulary like giving or getting oral, so I don't think I'd actually have sex with a woman

shannon · 10-25-2003, 03:10 PM

ok, i went on my first pub crawl last night and i had so much bi-curious fun. ok, it was like nothing, just dancing erotically with other girls and kissing and stuff.
i think the problem with my friends and i, as dumb as it may sound, is that we're actually all really open. like we talk sex till we're blue in the face and it's nothing for me to come up behind on of my friends and rub between his legs or touch my friends breasts. but it's in this fun, playful way where it's really hard to know when someone is doing it for more and when someone is doing it to play and be flirty. i don't know if that makes sense to anyone else....

straykitten · 10-27-2003, 09:14 PM

I have always been very attracted to girls. something about the level of intimacy you can share with someone the same gender is amazing...like oranges and oranges...sure apples and oranges go together in the sence they are both fruit, but only another orange really understands another orange

I love my boyfriend dearly and he is supportive of me being with other girls (a former swinger himself) but it takes a very special girl to get my intrest going. there has to be a physical attraction, but also a depth of character. someone I can converse with and not simply chat. Meeting girls is a bit of a challenge as well, because I am incredibly shy around them (go figure) and dont want to offend anyone with unwanted andvances so I tread cautiously and attemp to test the waters. More than likely it stems from the first girl I had a relationship with, who after several months decided she was no longer "bi" and refused to speak to me. If she would have just come to me and confided that she wasnt sure of her sexuality anymore instead of riverdancing on my feelings I would have beed okay with it. *end novel.
kate

ally · 10-30-2003, 02:08 PM

I think that women have more attractive bodies on a purely visual level, but that I am more interested in men.
For me it's ok when my boyfreind and I have added a women, but i don't think I'd be into it by myself

lurkette · 10-30-2003, 04:06 PM

I just found out that our married bi friend I have a crush on is lusting after me. I don't know quite what to do with this...seems like I should just go for it but there are so many "what ifs" and things to be negotiated - who can do what to whom, etc. I'm a little nervous.

crayzeeredhead · 10-31-2003, 12:55 PM

I'm totally in the BI catergory, but I prefer man! i ahve done it both with three somes and just with another women! my only problem with being a straight lesbian is i need to be stuck every time I give or receive oral, and i prefer flesh to plastic !! lol

la petite moi · 10-31-2003, 04:18 PM

See, I've always been a bit...off. My Lover [a guy] calls me 'slightly bent'...

I wish I could try kissing a girl my age. Just to know what it's like...but then again, I wouldn't want to be unfaithful. And to me, kissing someone in the manner I want to try with a girl would be unfaithful since I'm in a relationship.

shannon · 10-31-2003, 08:27 PM

congrats lurkette! i hope everything gets sorted out and you get some action and i can live vicariously through you! good luck.

awanderingsoul · 11-01-2003, 04:00 AM

lurkette-

Go for it girlfriend! When you get it all sorted out, let us know how it goes!

Crazy/Beautiful · 11-02-2003, 10:21 AM

I've always been interested in other girls. I guess because it's like unknown territory for me. But if I ever was in an intimate situation with another women I would just rather it be us two than with a guy involved. I think a guy would take the fun out of everything!

Tinker · 11-06-2003, 08:45 AM

I am also bi-curious! I did have a experience many years ago. I would love to do it again with my husband.... He would like it to! Just never had an opportunity to explore this...It would thrill me to death to come home with a cute girl and have fun! Women know what to do!

lurkette · 11-06-2003, 12:03 PM

Sigh. I'm getting all impatient - my friend and her husband are making up their minds - who wants to do what with whom, whether it's a good idea, etc. Turns out BOTH of them have a thing for me. I'm not used to being this popular

This is old hat for them - they've got a semi-open marriage and have had threesomes/foursomes before. But I'm on tenterhooks waiting to find out if/when this is going to happen, and who gets to do what with whom. On the other hand, all the anticipation and excitement has lit a fire under me and Ratbastid - we've been fucking like teenagers lately, and it's been super hot :-D If nothing else, at least we have that!

lisal · 11-13-2003, 01:05 PM

i just find it hard to approach other woman, even if i want them to join with SO and myself.
How do i approach them??ideas tips please>

dana · 11-15-2003, 03:01 PM

I sometimes watch porn movies, beause my husband leaves me unfilled after sex. He refuses to go down on me or try new positions. He hardly ever tells me that he loves me. This weekend the girls from the office are going out, it also happens to be the weekend that my husband will out of town for bussiness. The rumor in our office is that Susan just broke up with her housemate, I am going to drop little hints around Susan that I want her. This will be my first bi experience and if we hit it off over the weekend I am going to leave my husband for her.

dana · 11-15-2003, 03:30 PM

I just got off the phone with Susan, and she wants me to come over. I never thought things would move along so fast. I am so excited about meeting with Susan but at the same time I am also a little scared to tell you the truth. I wanted to wait until the office party when I had a few drinks and felt looser. What should I do?

dana · 11-15-2003, 03:34 PM

I know if Susan ever touched by privates, I would just melt. I am so nervous about meeting with her, but then anything would be better than the love that I recieve from my husband including my vibrator. Oh dear what should I do?

dana · 11-16-2003, 10:27 AM

When I was thirteen years old my mother told me about the birds and the bees. After our little talk, she gave me a pack of rubbers for my boyfriend. I wasn't long before we were having sex. Now that I am married to a dead beat sex partner, I have been thinking about my office mate at work. Her name is Susan. Susan is a kissy huggy type of person who like to show her affection. The other day we were sitting beside each other having lunch when she placed her hand on the inside of by thigh just above my knee. And when she turned to look into my face we just stared into each other eyes for what seem like a long time. If she could have only read my mind..... just maybe we would have not finished lunch.

wannabenakid247 · 11-16-2003, 02:41 PM

Hey Dana good luck just take it as it goes. Let us know what happens.

sleepingbeauty · 11-19-2003, 11:55 AM

Girls are so soft and gentle...ahh. I like girls. I have been with a couple girls, great experiences. But I really like cock! My partner(male) is the most compatible lover I can ever imagine having.

lurkette · 11-23-2003, 08:44 AM

Last night I got my first taste of girl action. It was just making out, but oh what hot making out! Followed by extremely good sex with Ratbastid, who got to watch the whole thing, as did the other woman's husband. While they were upstairs relieving their sexual tensions, Ratbastid and I were downstairs on the couch putting on quite a sound show for them

I think this takes me firmly out of the "curious" category and puts me right in the "bi" column. I soooooo want to do that again ... she got a bit spooked or hesitant or something, perhaps because we were all 4 there and hadn't really laid down any ground rules or anything. Anyhow, as hot as it was it wasn't a fraction of what I've imagined doing with her. Just confirmed that yup, I REALLY like women. I hope she decides we can go further next time (or that there'll be a next time), otherwise I'm gonna have to go hang out with antifishstick and scope girls

Or invite antifishstick over for some exploration of our own

Baileys · 11-28-2003, 09:11 PM

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Originally posted by Harmonia

Sometimes it's a purely sexual thing for me but then I'll find this amazing woman and it becomes more than just sexual. It's actually just as good of a feeling as being with a man, is. A woman knows certain things about other women. We have this way of communicating our feelings without actually saying anything. It's just really a beautiful thing.

sigh... this is what I want. man or woman!

anti fishstick · 11-28-2003, 10:49 PM

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Originally posted by lurkette
Last night I got my first taste of girl action. It was just making out, but oh what hot making out! Followed by extremely good sex with Ratbastid, who got to watch the whole thing, as did the other woman's husband. While they were upstairs relieving their sexual tensions, Ratbastid and I were downstairs on the couch putting on quite a sound show for them I think this takes me firmly out of the "curious" category and puts me right in the "bi" column. I soooooo want to do that again ... she got a bit spooked or hesitant or something, perhaps because we were all 4 there and hadn't really laid down any ground rules or anything. Anyhow, as hot as it was it wasn't a fraction of what I've imagined doing with her. Just confirmed that yup, I REALLY like women. I hope she decides we can go further next time (or that there'll be a next time), otherwise I'm gonna have to go hang out with antifishstick and scope girls Or invite antifishstick over for some exploration of our own

*blinks* omg. i wouldn't complain at ALL. *laughs* it's so fun being a swinger. i was just thinking about this today too... my first and only makeout session with a girl. my bestfriend. since she was my bestfriend, i was a little ashamed to find the situation pleasurable. we were drunk, and the next day she laughs about it and says "it's not like we got any pleasure from it or anything". we were also in relationships at the time

it wasn't a -makeout session- as it was only about four seconds but DAMN.. *sigh* i want to do more with a girl!

belicious · 12-01-2003, 01:34 PM

Sorry, there was a lot of discussion, but if you're not, you're just not. THANKS.

PeaceFrog · 12-02-2003, 08:43 PM

I'm also in the bi-curious boat. I haven't done anything as of yet, but i'd really like to. The oppurtunity has arised, but it was a with a very close friend and i was worried about what would happen with our friendship afterwards. I think i'm much more "intimitaded" by women too, whereas i find it easy to approach a guy no matter how experienced he is sexually, it's hard to approach an experienced woman. Not to mention i can be super shy at points. But despite all that, it's on the top of my "to try" list for sure!

Nancy · 12-03-2003, 10:24 AM

I kissed i girl a few years back and I enjoyed it a lot.... I'd like to go all the way with a woman some time.. just haven't found one yet

Cherry · 12-04-2003, 09:33 AM

Heh. I'm hardly curious. I'm openly bi. My very first kiss was with the girl who lived next door. I've had more serious relationships with the gals than I have the guys.

I figure that I have about a 70% female/30% male attraction split. Of course, it would figure that I'd get saddled down with a ManThingy.

At least he's open-minded and will let me play with my very own GirlieThingy, should I come across one. wOOt!

10-10-2003, 12:59 PM	#41 (permalink)
Rubyee I'm baaaaack!	Thanks for the info Reanna! __________________ You don't know from fun.

10-12-2003, 12:42 PM	#42 (permalink)
esotar Upright Location: triangle area, nc	Im a lesbian also, but I have had sex with men, and its not only not the same, it totally feels alien, and unerotic to me to be with a man. __________________ "Without meditation, where is peace? Without peace, where is happiness?" -- the Bhagavad Gita

10-13-2003, 08:01 PM	#43 (permalink)
cruisergirl Upright Location: Mesa	I've always thought about it, and I've even kissed a couple of girls....but I'm not sure, when it comes down to it, if it would feel right or not. Plus, I do beleive if you're in a relationship with a man, sleeping with another woman would be considered cheating, so I'll "stick to my dick" for now, and I'm happy enough to fantasize about the rest. __________________ If your going to ride my ass, at least pull my hair. Love, Cruisergirl.

10-25-2003, 10:54 AM	#44 (permalink)
gabshu Psycho Location: The capital of the free world??	I am very bi curious but i don't particulary like giving or getting oral, so I don't think I'd actually have sex with a woman __________________ Go Kool Aid. OH YEAAHH http://www.retrocrush.com/archive2003/koolaid/

10-25-2003, 03:10 PM	#45 (permalink)
shannon Psycho Location: Canada	ok, i went on my first pub crawl last night and i had so much bi-curious fun. ok, it was like nothing, just dancing erotically with other girls and kissing and stuff. i think the problem with my friends and i, as dumb as it may sound, is that we're actually all really open. like we talk sex till we're blue in the face and it's nothing for me to come up behind on of my friends and rub between his legs or touch my friends breasts. but it's in this fun, playful way where it's really hard to know when someone is doing it for more and when someone is doing it to play and be flirty. i don't know if that makes sense to anyone else.... __________________ "When I look down I just miss all the good stuff. And when I look up I just trip over things"

10-27-2003, 09:14 PM	#46 (permalink)
straykitten Upright Location: the 4.2.5	I have always been very attracted to girls. something about the level of intimacy you can share with someone the same gender is amazing...like oranges and oranges...sure apples and oranges go together in the sence they are both fruit, but only another orange really understands another orange I love my boyfriend dearly and he is supportive of me being with other girls (a former swinger himself) but it takes a very special girl to get my intrest going. there has to be a physical attraction, but also a depth of character. someone I can converse with and not simply chat. Meeting girls is a bit of a challenge as well, because I am incredibly shy around them (go figure) and dont want to offend anyone with unwanted andvances so I tread cautiously and attemp to test the waters. More than likely it stems from the first girl I had a relationship with, who after several months decided she was no longer "bi" and refused to speak to me. If she would have just come to me and confided that she wasnt sure of her sexuality anymore instead of riverdancing on my feelings I would have beed okay with it. *end novel. kate

10-30-2003, 02:08 PM	#47 (permalink)
ally Insane Location: Boone,NC	I think that women have more attractive bodies on a purely visual level, but that I am more interested in men. For me it's ok when my boyfreind and I have added a women, but i don't think I'd be into it by myself

10-30-2003, 04:06 PM	#48 (permalink)
lurkette My future is coming on Moderator Emeritus Location: east of the sun and west of the moon	I just found out that our married bi friend I have a crush on is lusting after me. I don't know quite what to do with this...seems like I should just go for it but there are so many "what ifs" and things to be negotiated - who can do what to whom, etc. I'm a little nervous. __________________ "If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing." - Anatole France

10-31-2003, 12:55 PM	#49 (permalink)
crayzeeredhead Tilted Location: here& there but here today	I'm totally in the BI catergory, but I prefer man! i ahve done it both with three somes and just with another women! my only problem with being a straight lesbian is i need to be stuck every time I give or receive oral, and i prefer flesh to plastic !! lol __________________ For everything there is a neverending cycle- birth, death, rebirth. Evil can and will not exist without good and visa versa. You also reap what you sew. There is a sliver of truth in every saying -those are a few!!

10-31-2003, 04:18 PM	#50 (permalink)
la petite moi Filling the Void. Location: California	See, I've always been a bit...off. My Lover [a guy] calls me 'slightly bent'... I wish I could try kissing a girl my age. Just to know what it's like...but then again, I wouldn't want to be unfaithful. And to me, kissing someone in the manner I want to try with a girl would be unfaithful since I'm in a relationship. Last edited by la petite moi; 11-02-2003 at 12:52 PM..

10-31-2003, 08:27 PM	#51 (permalink)
shannon Psycho Location: Canada	congrats lurkette! i hope everything gets sorted out and you get some action and i can live vicariously through you! good luck. __________________ "When I look down I just miss all the good stuff. And when I look up I just trip over things"

11-01-2003, 04:00 AM	#52 (permalink)
awanderingsoul Crazy	lurkette- Go for it girlfriend! When you get it all sorted out, let us know how it goes!

11-02-2003, 10:21 AM	#53 (permalink)
Crazy/Beautiful Loser Location: In solitude	I've always been interested in other girls. I guess because it's like unknown territory for me. But if I ever was in an intimate situation with another women I would just rather it be us two than with a guy involved. I think a guy would take the fun out of everything!

11-06-2003, 08:45 AM	#54 (permalink)
Tinker Tilted Location: California	I am also bi-curious! I did have a experience many years ago. I would love to do it again with my husband.... He would like it to! Just never had an opportunity to explore this...It would thrill me to death to come home with a cute girl and have fun! Women know what to do!

11-06-2003, 12:03 PM	#55 (permalink)
lurkette My future is coming on Moderator Emeritus Location: east of the sun and west of the moon	Sigh. I'm getting all impatient - my friend and her husband are making up their minds - who wants to do what with whom, whether it's a good idea, etc. Turns out BOTH of them have a thing for me. I'm not used to being this popular This is old hat for them - they've got a semi-open marriage and have had threesomes/foursomes before. But I'm on tenterhooks waiting to find out if/when this is going to happen, and who gets to do what with whom. On the other hand, all the anticipation and excitement has lit a fire under me and Ratbastid - we've been fucking like teenagers lately, and it's been super hot :-D If nothing else, at least we have that! __________________ "If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing." - Anatole France

11-13-2003, 01:05 PM	#56 (permalink)
lisal Upright	i just find it hard to approach other woman, even if i want them to join with SO and myself. How do i approach them??ideas tips please>

11-15-2003, 03:01 PM	#57 (permalink)
dana Upright Location: France	I sometimes watch porn movies, beause my husband leaves me unfilled after sex. He refuses to go down on me or try new positions. He hardly ever tells me that he loves me. This weekend the girls from the office are going out, it also happens to be the weekend that my husband will out of town for bussiness. The rumor in our office is that Susan just broke up with her housemate, I am going to drop little hints around Susan that I want her. This will be my first bi experience and if we hit it off over the weekend I am going to leave my husband for her.

11-15-2003, 03:30 PM	#58 (permalink)
dana Upright Location: France	I just got off the phone with Susan, and she wants me to come over. I never thought things would move along so fast. I am so excited about meeting with Susan but at the same time I am also a little scared to tell you the truth. I wanted to wait until the office party when I had a few drinks and felt looser. What should I do?

11-15-2003, 03:34 PM	#59 (permalink)
dana Upright Location: France	I know if Susan ever touched by privates, I would just melt. I am so nervous about meeting with her, but then anything would be better than the love that I recieve from my husband including my vibrator. Oh dear what should I do?

11-16-2003, 10:27 AM	#60 (permalink)
dana Upright Location: France	Are many wemon bi curious? When I was thirteen years old my mother told me about the birds and the bees. After our little talk, she gave me a pack of rubbers for my boyfriend. I wasn't long before we were having sex. Now that I am married to a dead beat sex partner, I have been thinking about my office mate at work. Her name is Susan. Susan is a kissy huggy type of person who like to show her affection. The other day we were sitting beside each other having lunch when she placed her hand on the inside of by thigh just above my knee. And when she turned to look into my face we just stared into each other eyes for what seem like a long time. If she could have only read my mind..... just maybe we would have not finished lunch.

11-16-2003, 02:41 PM	#61 (permalink)
wannabenakid247 Registered User Location: Wales, UK	Hey Dana good luck just take it as it goes. Let us know what happens.

11-19-2003, 11:55 AM	#62 (permalink)
sleepingbeauty Banned Location: Eugene, Oregon	Girls are so soft and gentle...ahh. I like girls. I have been with a couple girls, great experiences. But I really like cock! My partner(male) is the most compatible lover I can ever imagine having.

11-23-2003, 08:44 AM	#63 (permalink)
lurkette My future is coming on Moderator Emeritus Location: east of the sun and west of the moon	Last night I got my first taste of girl action. It was just making out, but oh what hot making out! Followed by extremely good sex with Ratbastid, who got to watch the whole thing, as did the other woman's husband. While they were upstairs relieving their sexual tensions, Ratbastid and I were downstairs on the couch putting on quite a sound show for them I think this takes me firmly out of the "curious" category and puts me right in the "bi" column. I soooooo want to do that again ... she got a bit spooked or hesitant or something, perhaps because we were all 4 there and hadn't really laid down any ground rules or anything. Anyhow, as hot as it was it wasn't a fraction of what I've imagined doing with her. Just confirmed that yup, I REALLY like women. I hope she decides we can go further next time (or that there'll be a next time), otherwise I'm gonna have to go hang out with antifishstick and scope girls Or invite antifishstick over for some exploration of our own __________________ "If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing." - Anatole France

12-01-2003, 01:34 PM	#66 (permalink)
belicious Addict	Sorry, there was a lot of discussion, but if you're not, you're just not. THANKS. __________________ Hey, now! You're an Allstar!

12-02-2003, 08:43 PM	#67 (permalink)
PeaceFrog Tilted Location: Halifax, Nova Scotia	I'm also in the bi-curious boat. I haven't done anything as of yet, but i'd really like to. The oppurtunity has arised, but it was a with a very close friend and i was worried about what would happen with our friendship afterwards. I think i'm much more "intimitaded" by women too, whereas i find it easy to approach a guy no matter how experienced he is sexually, it's hard to approach an experienced woman. Not to mention i can be super shy at points. But despite all that, it's on the top of my "to try" list for sure! __________________ The only people for me are the mad ones...

12-03-2003, 10:24 AM	#68 (permalink)
Nancy Femme Fatale Location: Elysium	I kissed i girl a few years back and I enjoyed it a lot.... I'd like to go all the way with a woman some time.. just haven't found one yet __________________ I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip.

12-04-2003, 09:33 AM	#69 (permalink)
Cherry Tilted Location: Yonder	Heh. I'm hardly curious. I'm openly bi. My very first kiss was with the girl who lived next door. I've had more serious relationships with the gals than I have the guys. I figure that I have about a 70% female/30% male attraction split. Of course, it would figure that I'd get saddled down with a ManThingy. At least he's open-minded and will let me play with my very own GirlieThingy, should I come across one. wOOt! __________________ In walked a man in the shape of a man, holding a hat shaped hat...