09-09-2003, 06:45 PM | #1 (permalink) |
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Location: Charleston, SC
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How much do you want?
How much sex do you want?
Daily, weekly, monthly?? I like everyday sometimes and sometimes I am a everyother day girl. Then there are days were I like it multiple times in one day. Then there are times where no body better touch me unless they want to die. Ok we all know about those times. Then there are times when I rip his clothes off and I cannot get to it fast enough. Let's just say I am not consistant. How about you? |
09-09-2003, 07:54 PM | #2 (permalink) |
Happy as a hippo
Location: Southern California
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Same, I am not consistant at all, it depends on when my Depo shot is due too... the closer it gets to being due the less I want to have sex, but right after I get it done I can't get enough. I'm usually about every other day tho.
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09-09-2003, 09:14 PM | #4 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: Mesa
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I could really use it every day, maybe twice. I just get UTI's and others such womanly conditions so that I'm not always...uhh..able, shall we say. My husband has a low sex drive, unfortunately, so I find myself double-clicking my mouse often. And that gets old, but what can you do? Maybe buy a toy?
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09-09-2003, 09:23 PM | #5 (permalink) |
Tilted
Location: Long Beach CA
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I'm a twice, three times a day girl. My boyfriend gets worn out, tho, and since we don't always have time, what I actually get averages out to about once a day, maybe less. Some days, I'll attack him at every chance, and he'll be crying for no more sex or blowjobs.
Like cruisergirl, I get UTI's like crazy, which sucks. |
09-10-2003, 05:55 AM | #7 (permalink) |
My own person -- his by choice
Location: Lebell's arms
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It depends totally on who I'm with and what time of month it is. However, my preference is at least three times a week at most as many times a day as physically possible! Funny how there are so many men out there that have a lower sex drive then their so. Stereo types say it should be the opposite. The same was true with my ex; he had a low sex drive. I won't go back to that, ever!
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09-10-2003, 06:53 AM | #9 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: Central Wis.
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The past few months, since dating Mr.S, I've wanted sex several times a day. During the week, when I don't see him, I live on tenderhooks, trying to hold of on masturbation, to keep all my sexual energy for him. The downside is that sometimes on the weekend, he's not in the mood. Then I feel like a freak for jumping him every other minute. I guess I'm pretty insatiable. I think once we start to see each other on a daily basis, we may even out our sex drives.
I always tell him, "that's what you get for dating a young chick... way more energy!" He's going to be 32 tomorrow and I'm 22.
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09-10-2003, 07:43 AM | #12 (permalink) |
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Location: Illinois
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I like it whenever I can get it the more the better. My husband can't keep up with me. Sometimes it makes me mad because I thought that men were supposed to have a higher sex drive than us but I guess not. Although we average at least once a day sometimes two so I think I am doing fairly well.
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09-10-2003, 01:18 PM | #14 (permalink) |
Junkie
Location: Louisville, KY
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I haven't yet had a relationship with daily access to sex. :-(
But, judging by my personal drives, I'd be a daily kind of gal.
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09-10-2003, 02:52 PM | #15 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: Florida
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With my last boyfriend I didn't crave it as much, just because he really didn't give it up, we didn't have sex for the last 6 months of our relationship, so I would only want it like a few time a week. B
Now I have a really awesome boyfriend that gives it up as much as possible, and i want it every day, a few times a day, and I masturbate a lot more. |
09-10-2003, 03:00 PM | #16 (permalink) |
Crazy
Location: Austin
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Twice a day is perfect! Mmmmmm.. Interesting to know that sex drive wears off a bit when almost time for depo shot, it's about 2 weeks until mine is due, and I do feel like my drive had dropped some. Thanks for the heads up on that, StormBerlin.
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09-10-2003, 04:37 PM | #17 (permalink) |
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I'm with Nikki and Amethyst. I don't actually keep track of how often I get in the mood, but when the moment comes, it's usually several times a day or just a few days a week. When we're unable to see each other for one reason or another, I just end up masturbating alone.
And then there are times when I feel bloated and unattractive and too self-conscious and all that. When this happens I'm just not in the mood for anything, and it just makes me grumpy.
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09-11-2003, 03:34 PM | #19 (permalink) |
Semi-Atomic
Location: Home.
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Most of the time, I want it daily. I usually don't get it, though. Maybe twice a week. Hopefully that will change, at least for a little while, when I get home.
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09-11-2003, 09:39 PM | #21 (permalink) | |
Junkie
Location: Chicagoland
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Quote:
To answer the question, I am in my prime sexually, and unless I'm really tired--I want it all the time. I do not get it all the time tho,' as spouse has never had much of a sex drive. I know exactly how the men that complain about having to initiate sex all the time, feel. |
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09-13-2003, 05:52 AM | #22 (permalink) |
My future is coming on
Moderator Emeritus
Location: east of the sun and west of the moon
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Totally depends on my mood. I'm on BC pills which has put a damper on things, and since my brother died 4 months ago my libido has been sporadic at best. Before then it was once a day or more, but since then I'm lucky if I'm horny twice a week. I guess it's partly just wanting to keep a lid on strong emotions lest the dam burst, and partly just being exhausted from being in my own grief-addled head. Things are getting better, though.
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09-13-2003, 03:55 PM | #23 (permalink) |
Alien Anthropologist
Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana
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Every day if it was with the One Man in particular who got away and who's married to someone else, living 2 states west of me. Nowadays Never with the hubby, as we've gotten too familiar and so extremely bored. Just buddies, it seems. Lust left years ago.
A sad situation and I have yet to find the answer. A lover near by perhaps? Or a lot of toy usage, I guess. What would you do? This isn't what I had in mind when I got married. He lost his mojo. I am just so frustrated.
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09-14-2003, 10:07 AM | #24 (permalink) |
Psycho
Location: Canada
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my bf and i both live with our parents, so even if we're in the mood the sex scedule's really weird. it'll be like nothing for a couple weeks, and then we'll get a house to ourselves, and then we'll go 3 or 4 times in as many hours. and then we'll get a chance once a night for a week, it's just crazy. i find a lot fo times i won't be in the mood but then my bf will just start rubbing me or kissing me or something and i get into it. very irregular
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09-20-2003, 04:03 PM | #26 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: Boston
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I usually want it everyday, although maybe once or twice a week i just don't feel like it. I don't get it every day, mostly cause our work schedules don't line up right, but when we have time it's like the energizer bunny and almost as soon as the sweat dries i want to go again. Thankfully, he wants it about the same amount as i do, so it works out perfectly!!
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09-20-2003, 04:44 PM | #27 (permalink) |
Tilted
Location: NJ
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I'd *like* to have it every day or more, but more often than not I'm too self conscious to innitiate it even though I (finally) know he wants me even when I feel icky looking. =/
I finally found the motivation to get into better shape again because I hear it is suppost boosts your libido.. anyone know if this is actually true? =) I just don't feel in the mood most of the time and it drives me crazy! Well honestly, I wish I was romanced more often (you know! wish he'd suprise me with lit candles, flowers once in a blue moon, and me swept off my feet!) Maybe that is too much to expect... Oh, I don't know what will really help lol... |
09-21-2003, 12:08 PM | #28 (permalink) |
Tilted
Location: UK
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Well I would love to have it at least once a day, but we often work different shifts. Sometimes by the time we get some time alone, I or we are just too tired and settle for a long hug
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09-21-2003, 01:41 PM | #29 (permalink) |
Cosmically Curious
Location: Chicago, IL
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I'd say once waking up, and again before bed would be great. What a way to start and end the day! And during the afternoon on the weekends as well. As much as possible without overdoing it sounds good to me.
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09-22-2003, 07:32 AM | #30 (permalink) |
so many men...so little time.
Location: Bellingham
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I'm finding now that I'm not in a BAD relationship that I want/need/crave it everyday. Of course, some days more than others and more often. Being happy has a huge effect on one's libido...which is a wonderful thing. Now, I just need to find someone to have it with!!! LOL
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09-23-2003, 04:11 AM | #31 (permalink) |
Addict
Location: Northeast Ohio
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I go through spurts...Right now, I want it Daily!! But there are times when I can go a few days in between.....Now, do I get it daily?? No....But I still want it.
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09-23-2003, 04:22 PM | #32 (permalink) |
I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot!
Location: Upper Michigan
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I'd say I like an average of 3 times a week. Sometimes I'm not in the mood for anything (don't always tell hubby so cause I know he loves it) but other times I can't get enough of it. Because of Aunt Flo I've been without a bit lately. Getting pretty horny now.
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09-23-2003, 11:28 PM | #33 (permalink) | |
Psycho
Location: Tempe,Az....until I figure things out...
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I like it everyday... but unfortunately, the body isn't always permitting or I'm just out of it.
Oi... and now that we're living with someone else for a while... we'll see how much it happens.
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10-04-2003, 08:50 AM | #35 (permalink) |
Naughty Just Right
Location: Euphoria
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I like my "O's" a lot!
At least once a day is preferable. My sweetie and I are pretty much on the same page when it comes to our sex drive. So I am always satisfied. Twice a day isn't uncommon for us. And I am a multiple so I can have a lot of O's in one session. Lucky me.
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10-04-2003, 08:59 AM | #36 (permalink) |
I'm baaaaack!
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Let's see. I agree with the once in the morning, once at night thing. Only, throw in a quickie during lunch and I would be perfect. Although, sometimes it is nice to take a break of about a day, because then it is that much better.
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10-04-2003, 10:49 PM | #37 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: Minnesota
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Well, I like morning sex. No, scratch that. I LOVE morning sex. Very much. lol I like it every day but now we don't always get what we want, do we?
Sometimes I won't even want to be touched for a few days, but that suits my boyfriend just fine. lol I think he gets sick of my begging when I want it a few times a day. |
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