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Frenchie · 09-08-2003, 08:36 AM

What is your one flaw that sticks out more than others you may have?

Mine would have to be, I get over excited too easily. When I know something is wrong and I want other people to know about it I'll start to get really emotional and flip out over it. But I usualy know what I am talking about and put out a lot of good points... but I over react.

So, how about you?

lurkette · 09-08-2003, 08:49 AM

Just one?

I'm extremely competitive.

We were flying back from Utah on Southwest Airlines and to pass the time the flight attendants had us play a game to see who could come up with the most words made from the letters in "Southwest." I had like 93 words and I lost by 1 because they disqualified "sot" and "ethos," which are perfectly legitimate words that were not in their vocabulary. I was pissed the rest of the flight. I didn't really care about the stupid prize (probably drink coupons or something), I wanted to WIN! Still makes me mad. Hmph.

JadziaDax · 09-08-2003, 01:50 PM

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Originally posted by lurkette
Just one?

I wouldn't even know where to begin...

anti fishstick · 09-08-2003, 02:17 PM

i overanalyze and think too much. to the point of tearing my brains out. i create unneccessary melodrama. burden and stress myself because of it :P overreact. get defensive... etc.

*Nikki* · 09-08-2003, 02:49 PM

Insecurity.

That would be number one. Millions more follow.

Averett · 09-08-2003, 04:32 PM

Insecurity for me. It leads to so much else..

koli70 · 09-08-2003, 05:54 PM

I'm going to say my biggest one right now is procrastinating. I say I'll do something and keep putting it off until I somehow get forced to do it. I should really work on that....

onodrim · 09-08-2003, 05:58 PM

My worst flaw overall would have to be jealousy. I get extremely jealous of other women either with my boyfriend especially. But also I get jealous of women being more attractive than me, or being better than me at something. I definently work really hard at overcoming this, cause its not any fun!

G0dd3ss · 09-08-2003, 06:40 PM

I think my biggest flaw at the moment is jealousy. My bf and I have a pretty open relationship and I am usually very sure of myself and the strength of our relationship. But recently, I've put on a few pounds, gotten pretty pasty (you know, the computer glow) and I just don't feel as confident.

I also have PD (panic disorder), so I have an incredible ability to make up scenarios in my head if I get stuck on a negative thought. Over-analyzing, I suppose.

But, yeah...I'm working on it and we've talked it over and hopefully this will become one of the lesser flaws soon.

yoshi · 09-08-2003, 07:09 PM

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Originally posted by anti fishstick
i overanalyze and think too much. to the point of tearing my brains out. i create unneccessary melodrama. burden and stress myself because of it :P overreact. get defensive... etc.

I'm right there with ya and to top it off--jealousy pokes around there too

sexymama · 09-08-2003, 07:12 PM

I am much too straight forward and direct -- to the point of sometimes insulting people when I don't mean to. The good news is no one ever has to guess where they stand with me and I don't play games.

rosie21 · 09-08-2003, 07:41 PM

ally · 09-08-2003, 07:49 PM

Insecurity would be the root. It leads to a lot of issues though.

hmmm... sounds like me!!
I am very insecre. I dont know if that would be my worst flaw though, I have so many!

lafemmefatale · 09-08-2003, 09:28 PM

my laziness/procrastination that throws my capabilities out the window. rawr!...it's horrible but so difficult to shed. [a close second would be my bluntness towards sensitive matters

, kinda like sexymama]

Minx · 09-09-2003, 05:45 AM

I think I have too many to list here! I guess if I had to pick the one that affects me most overall in life ....it would be that I tend to procrastinate.

Shyla Loral · 09-09-2003, 10:09 AM

Apparently I'm not the only one who thinks that my biggest flaw is insecurity. Insecurity causes so much trouble in my life, I think everything is my fault, that everyone is always mad at me, etc. I'm working on it, though.

StormBerlin · 09-09-2003, 08:01 PM

My insecurity would top that list. and that leads to jelousy, anger, over reaction.... its a horrible chain.

Ladyhawke · 09-10-2003, 06:23 AM

I'm short tempered and very opinionated,

It has caused lots of headaches for my hubby. But he knew what he was getting himself into when he married me.

daydream · 09-14-2003, 06:41 PM

procrastination is a big problem for me... no matter how hard I try, If I'm not in the mood to do something it just doesnt get done.

Vyxen · 09-15-2003, 09:37 AM

Well out of many, I'll have to go with insecurity too. It's a tough one to beat, but I'm workin on it! It really does affect too much of our lives, doesn't it? Rar =/

Double D · 09-16-2003, 06:17 PM

I judge others too harshly.

raeanna74 · 09-17-2003, 02:15 PM

I talk to much. There are plenty more and my best friend could point out lots of them but that one is what I think is the worst. I could talk non stop if you let me.

veruca · 09-22-2003, 05:54 AM

procrastination is my flaw...i go out of my way to put things off...and that has gotten me into tons of trouble...i am also very blunt about things...but, i don't consider that a flaw...there are way too many people not saying what they mean and miscommunication leads to problems

Mutineer · 09-22-2003, 07:04 PM

Only one, hmm?
Too independant.

sierra2774 · 09-23-2003, 04:02 AM

I think my one flaw is that I don't express my feelings as well as I should. I am always afraid of hurting someones feelings, so I say what I think they want me to say instead of what I really mean.

So I get taken advantage a lot because of that.

daydream · 09-26-2003, 06:05 PM

The way I feel about how I look often determines my mood for the day... If I'm comfortable w/myself and I think I look good then I'm happy, otherwise I'm a lil too insecure... like if my hair didn't turn out right or if I don't really like my outfit...
I know it may sound stupid but unfortunately that would prob be my biggest flaw... but I'm working on it ; )

em1014 · 09-27-2003, 06:25 AM

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Originally posted by StormBerlin
My insecurity would top that list. and that leads to jelousy, anger, over reaction.... its a horrible chain.

That sounds like me. I have many flaws both physical and mental but this one tends to cause the most problems.

minyn · 09-27-2003, 05:42 PM

im self conscious. it comes and goes, but no less, ITS THERE. dah.

Mel · 09-27-2003, 05:56 PM

Insecurity, I can take one minor flaw or incident and amplify it a million times, I hate it

Marie · 10-01-2003, 03:47 AM

good question!

I think I try to adapt to much to people, so I’m forgetting who I am and what I want…
I’m working on it now, it costs to much energy constantly trying to figure out what somebody else wants from you. But trying to solve this isn’t easy too…

cruisergirl · 10-13-2003, 08:05 PM

My biggest flaw is that I'm so damn anti-confrontational that I tend to let people walk all over me and treat me badly and I do nothing about it because i hate to be in arguments. Maybe this stems from insecurity........hmmmm.....

wannabenakid247 · 10-16-2003, 06:05 AM

I like getting wasted far too much. And then i worry what i did the next day lol

txlovely · 10-25-2003, 02:30 PM

impatience

shannon · 10-28-2003, 02:59 PM

a good part of me is thinking that this thread is evil because it kinda sucks to think about your flaws and i think too many people do that too much already
but another part of me thinks that i can't pick which flaw to choose....so i'm a bit torn
i was going to check out this thread beofre but put it off, so i guess maybe procrastination...?
although another big one would be that i talk too much. (as you may notice when i post). i'll pretend that it's charming or something and be proud of it i guess.

EleqTrizi'T · 10-28-2003, 05:03 PM

My sex change didn't take, so my post has been edited.

SiN · 10-29-2003, 09:35 AM

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Originally posted by shannon
a good part of me is thinking that this thread is evil because it kinda sucks to think about your flaws and i think too many people do that too much already
but another part of me thinks that i can't pick which flaw to choose....so i'm a bit torn
i was going to check out this thread beofre but put it off, so i guess maybe procrastination...?

hahaa

exactly

crayzeeredhead · 10-31-2003, 01:13 PM

Okay my one ontop of insecurity my Bigger flaw is I do everything for everyone else to make everyone happy and i never have time for me or my other flaws!!

la petite moi · 11-08-2003, 11:01 AM

I think I have a couple...

They kinda tie-in together, but yeah- I'm really really emotional. I'm like a rollercoaster. Plus, I have VERY low self-esteem. There is never a day that I am satisfied with my body or my soul. Sad sad sad. But that is the flaw of my brain. ::sigh::

Oh, and the whole trust factor.

vveronica · 11-13-2003, 12:30 PM

Gee i read this question and had an answer but reading all the responces mine is sorta stupid...

I'm short...

In my make up I'd have to say I'm not very trusting

kittenpie · 11-19-2003, 11:12 AM

driving with my eyes closed. yeah...that's the ticket!

09-08-2003, 08:36 AM	#1 (permalink)
Frenchie Crazy Location: Muncie, IN	What is your one flaw? What is your one flaw that sticks out more than others you may have? Mine would have to be, I get over excited too easily. When I know something is wrong and I want other people to know about it I'll start to get really emotional and flip out over it. But I usualy know what I am talking about and put out a lot of good points... but I over react. So, how about you?

09-08-2003, 08:49 AM	#2 (permalink)
lurkette My future is coming on Moderator Emeritus Location: east of the sun and west of the moon	Just one? I'm extremely competitive. We were flying back from Utah on Southwest Airlines and to pass the time the flight attendants had us play a game to see who could come up with the most words made from the letters in "Southwest." I had like 93 words and I lost by 1 because they disqualified "sot" and "ethos," which are perfectly legitimate words that were not in their vocabulary. I was pissed the rest of the flight. I didn't really care about the stupid prize (probably drink coupons or something), I wanted to WIN! Still makes me mad. Hmph. __________________ "If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing." - Anatole France

09-08-2003, 02:17 PM	#4 (permalink)
anti fishstick Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash Location: oregon	i overanalyze and think too much. to the point of tearing my brains out. i create unneccessary melodrama. burden and stress myself because of it :P overreact. get defensive... etc. __________________ And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anais Nin

09-08-2003, 04:32 PM	#6 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	Insecurity for me. It leads to so much else.. __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

09-08-2003, 05:54 PM	#7 (permalink)
koli70 Crazy Location: South Dakota	I'm going to say my biggest one right now is procrastinating. I say I'll do something and keep putting it off until I somehow get forced to do it. I should really work on that.... __________________ Woman is a danger cat

09-08-2003, 02:49 PM	#5 (permalink)
Nikki ~~~~~~~ Location: Charleston, SC	Insecurity. That would be number one. Millions more follow.

09-08-2003, 05:58 PM	#8 (permalink)
onodrim Cosmically Curious Location: Chicago, IL	My worst flaw overall would have to be jealousy. I get extremely jealous of other women either with my boyfriend especially. But also I get jealous of women being more attractive than me, or being better than me at something. I definently work really hard at overcoming this, cause its not any fun! __________________ "The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides" -Carl Sagan

09-08-2003, 06:40 PM	#9 (permalink)
G0dd3ss Crazy Location: O-H-I-O	I think my biggest flaw at the moment is jealousy. My bf and I have a pretty open relationship and I am usually very sure of myself and the strength of our relationship. But recently, I've put on a few pounds, gotten pretty pasty (you know, the computer glow) and I just don't feel as confident. I also have PD (panic disorder), so I have an incredible ability to make up scenarios in my head if I get stuck on a negative thought. Over-analyzing, I suppose. But, yeah...I'm working on it and we've talked it over and hopefully this will become one of the lesser flaws soon. __________________ It's best not to be too moral...you cheat yourself out of too much life. - Maude, Harold and Maude.

09-08-2003, 07:12 PM	#11 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	I am much too straight forward and direct -- to the point of sometimes insulting people when I don't mean to. The good news is no one ever has to guess where they stand with me and I don't play games. __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

09-08-2003, 07:41 PM	#12 (permalink)
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09-08-2003, 07:49 PM	#13 (permalink)
ally Insane Location: Boone,NC	Insecurity would be the root. It leads to a lot of issues though. hmmm... sounds like me!! I am very insecre. I dont know if that would be my worst flaw though, I have so many!

09-08-2003, 09:28 PM	#14 (permalink)
lafemmefatale Insane Location: Vancouver	my laziness/procrastination that throws my capabilities out the window. rawr!...it's horrible but so difficult to shed. [a close second would be my bluntness towards sensitive matters , kinda like sexymama] __________________ -poor is the man whose pleasure depends on the permission of another-

09-09-2003, 05:45 AM	#15 (permalink)
Minx Junkie Location: Up yonder	I think I have too many to list here! I guess if I had to pick the one that affects me most overall in life ....it would be that I tend to procrastinate. __________________ You've been a naughty boy....go to my room!

09-09-2003, 10:09 AM	#16 (permalink)
Shyla Loral Crazy Location: Austin	Apparently I'm not the only one who thinks that my biggest flaw is insecurity. Insecurity causes so much trouble in my life, I think everything is my fault, that everyone is always mad at me, etc. I'm working on it, though. __________________ "Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead" Ben Franklin, Poor Richard's Almanac. Meff r0x

09-09-2003, 08:01 PM	#17 (permalink)
StormBerlin Happy as a hippo Location: Southern California	My insecurity would top that list. and that leads to jelousy, anger, over reaction.... its a horrible chain. __________________ "if anal sex could get a girl pregnant i'd be tits deep in child support" Arcane

09-27-2003, 05:42 PM	#28 (permalink)
minyn young and in bloom Location: under the bodhi tree.... bling	im self conscious. it comes and goes, but no less, ITS THERE. dah. __________________ "Woke up this morning with a blue moon in my eye" ~A3 "woke up this morning" "Don't compromise yourself, you're all you've got." -Janis Joplin

09-10-2003, 06:23 AM	#18 (permalink)
Ladyhawke Crazy Location: Dallas	I'm short tempered and very opinionated, It has caused lots of headaches for my hubby. But he knew what he was getting himself into when he married me. __________________ Whatever

09-14-2003, 06:41 PM	#19 (permalink)
daydream Crazy Location: Long Island, NY	procrastination is a big problem for me... no matter how hard I try, If I'm not in the mood to do something it just doesnt get done. __________________ "Can't help it if I space in a daze, my eyes tune out the other way... I may switch off and go in a daydream... in this head my thoughts are deep, Sometimes I can't even speak, would someone be and not pretend, I'm off again in my world"

09-15-2003, 09:37 AM	#20 (permalink)
Vyxen Tilted Location: NJ	Well out of many, I'll have to go with insecurity too. It's a tough one to beat, but I'm workin on it! It really does affect too much of our lives, doesn't it? Rar =/

09-16-2003, 06:17 PM	#21 (permalink)
Double D Junkie Location: Chicagoland	I judge others too harshly.

09-17-2003, 02:15 PM	#22 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	I talk to much. There are plenty more and my best friend could point out lots of them but that one is what I think is the worst. I could talk non stop if you let me. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

09-22-2003, 05:54 AM	#23 (permalink)
veruca Psycho Location: 4 privet drive	procrastination is my flaw...i go out of my way to put things off...and that has gotten me into tons of trouble...i am also very blunt about things...but, i don't consider that a flaw...there are way too many people not saying what they mean and miscommunication leads to problems __________________ How you turned my world, you precious thing You starve and near exhaust me Everything I've done, I've done for you I move the stars for no one

09-22-2003, 07:04 PM	#24 (permalink)
Mutineer Loser Location: On the dark side of the moon	Only one, hmm? Too independant.

09-23-2003, 04:02 AM	#25 (permalink)
sierra2774 Addict Location: Northeast Ohio	I think my one flaw is that I don't express my feelings as well as I should. I am always afraid of hurting someones feelings, so I say what I think they want me to say instead of what I really mean. So I get taken advantage a lot because of that. __________________ "Every tomorrow brings new opportunities, challenges we must address...A chance to affirm all our wishes and dreams, to seek beauty and true happiness."

09-26-2003, 06:05 PM	#26 (permalink)
daydream Crazy Location: Long Island, NY	The way I feel about how I look often determines my mood for the day... If I'm comfortable w/myself and I think I look good then I'm happy, otherwise I'm a lil too insecure... like if my hair didn't turn out right or if I don't really like my outfit... I know it may sound stupid but unfortunately that would prob be my biggest flaw... but I'm working on it ; ) __________________ "Can't help it if I space in a daze, my eyes tune out the other way... I may switch off and go in a daydream... in this head my thoughts are deep, Sometimes I can't even speak, would someone be and not pretend, I'm off again in my world"

09-27-2003, 05:56 PM	#29 (permalink)
Mel Tilted Location: Auckland	Insecurity, I can take one minor flaw or incident and amplify it a million times, I hate it __________________ And in my darkest moment, fetal and weeping. The moon tells me a secret. My confidant. As full and bright as I am, this light is not my own and A million light reflections pass over me It's source is bright and endless. She resuscitates the hopeless Without her we are lifeless satellites drifting

10-01-2003, 03:47 AM	#30 (permalink)
Marie Upright Location: The Netherlands	good question! I think I try to adapt to much to people, so I’m forgetting who I am and what I want… I’m working on it now, it costs to much energy constantly trying to figure out what somebody else wants from you. But trying to solve this isn’t easy too… __________________ If you can't say something nice, say nothing...

10-13-2003, 08:05 PM	#31 (permalink)
cruisergirl Upright Location: Mesa	My biggest flaw is that I'm so damn anti-confrontational that I tend to let people walk all over me and treat me badly and I do nothing about it because i hate to be in arguments. Maybe this stems from insecurity........hmmmm..... __________________ If your going to ride my ass, at least pull my hair. Love, Cruisergirl.

10-16-2003, 06:05 AM	#32 (permalink)
wannabenakid247 Registered User Location: Wales, UK	I like getting wasted far too much. And then i worry what i did the next day lol

10-25-2003, 02:30 PM	#33 (permalink)
txlovely Insane Location: ...We have a problem.	impatience __________________ Cruel words erode self-esteem like the ocean eats away the shore. Last edited by txlovely; 11-07-2003 at 08:38 PM..

10-28-2003, 02:59 PM	#34 (permalink)
shannon Psycho Location: Canada	a good part of me is thinking that this thread is evil because it kinda sucks to think about your flaws and i think too many people do that too much already but another part of me thinks that i can't pick which flaw to choose....so i'm a bit torn i was going to check out this thread beofre but put it off, so i guess maybe procrastination...? although another big one would be that i talk too much. (as you may notice when i post). i'll pretend that it's charming or something and be proud of it i guess. __________________ "When I look down I just miss all the good stuff. And when I look up I just trip over things"

10-28-2003, 05:03 PM	#35 (permalink)
EleqTrizi'T Insane	My sex change didn't take, so my post has been edited. Last edited by JadziaDax; 10-28-2003 at 09:11 PM..

10-31-2003, 01:13 PM	#37 (permalink)
crayzeeredhead Tilted Location: here& there but here today	Okay my one ontop of insecurity my Bigger flaw is I do everything for everyone else to make everyone happy and i never have time for me or my other flaws!! __________________ For everything there is a neverending cycle- birth, death, rebirth. Evil can and will not exist without good and visa versa. You also reap what you sew. There is a sliver of truth in every saying -those are a few!!

11-08-2003, 11:01 AM	#38 (permalink)
la petite moi Filling the Void. Location: California	I think I have a couple... They kinda tie-in together, but yeah- I'm really really emotional. I'm like a rollercoaster. Plus, I have VERY low self-esteem. There is never a day that I am satisfied with my body or my soul. Sad sad sad. But that is the flaw of my brain. ::sigh:: Oh, and the whole trust factor. Last edited by la petite moi; 12-27-2003 at 02:35 AM..

11-13-2003, 12:30 PM	#39 (permalink)
vveronica Psycho Location: northern california	Gee i read this question and had an answer but reading all the responces mine is sorta stupid... I'm short... In my make up I'd have to say I'm not very trusting __________________ ...We find ourselves in a struggle for our very right to exsist... We will not go quietly into the night... We will not give up without a fight...

11-19-2003, 11:12 AM	#40 (permalink)
kittenpie Upright	driving with my eyes closed. yeah...that's the ticket! __________________ She had diamonds on the inside. ~Ben Harper