Searching For The Illusive G-Spot: Ladies What do you know?
 

So...heres the thing, I can have amazing orgasms, and many of them. (*see my post in Tilted Sexuality: Addicted to Mastubation)
I dont feel like Im exactly missing out on anything.....Im satisfied with my bf and all. But , I have never had an orgasm other than clitoral.Which, as I said, has never left me feeling like Ive missed anything. But when I read or hear of women who have "real orgasms"
for lack of a better term....I do wonder if Im missing out on something even better.
My bf and I have tried, tried, tried to find my G spot...and its been real fun. I have tried to find it on my own....and for goodness sakes, I know how to relax enough and Im definitly not shy about probing for it. But, as my bf says: "If theres one thing you can do, Girl...its cum"
So I ask the ladies this: How did you find it? Did you find it by mistake? Did a man just "hit it" right and WOW there you go? Can you stimulate it on your own? Do You? And the million dollar question? IS the difference between the two (clitoral or vaginal) really that different? Sometimes I think that I just dont have one.
My bf is average (perfect size) really, and he is so patient in trying to get it for me, but we just give up and 69 or something , which is off the hook....we both cum and all is right with the world.
Heres the thing: I discovered my clit at a very young age and Ive been very happily in touch and in control of my pleasure ever since. But this G Spot thing...its illusive as hell. Is there an even better orgasm out there?
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I prefer g-spot, probably *because* I masturbate clitorally so much. I don't give myself g-spot orgasms, I only get them during sex, or very rarely when someone is fingering me. I have a nice "complete" feeling afterwards that I don't have with a clitoral orgasm.

It took a few years of having sex before I found it. But once I did, I knew how to get off that way from then on, and it became more consistent with time.

The current theory is that pressure that stimulates the front-wall of the vagina hits the spongey tissue surrounding the urethra, the female equivalent of the prostate. This is why a g-spot orgasm feels like you might need to pee. Just relax and "bear down" if you feel that sensation, and just do what feels nice. You'll get it eventually, and once you do it will get easier with practice. I'm able to have up to 10-minute long g-spot orgasms now with the right stimulation.

I have yet to find mine, but its not that big of a deal to me. I have really good clitoral orgasms so I am happy with just those. I have such a hard time having an orgasm that I don't question which kind I get as long as I can have one. :thumbsup: